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A Detailed Wedding Budget Breakdown Based on Real Couples’ Spending

We explain the average wedding budget breakdown percentages so you can determine exactly how much money to spend on your celebration.

Black and white wedding ceremony photo

Black and white wedding ceremony photo

Photo: Pamela Harvey Photographer

It's no secret that one of the hardest parts of getting hitched is creating an accurate wedding budget breakdown to determine what your money should be spent on. So to help you figure out how much to allocate to your expenses, we surveyed 10,474 recently married US couples and asked them to share their wedding budgets with us. The result: You and your partner will get an idea of how other to-be-weds went about the budgeting process and you’ll be able to make the most informed decision for your situation. (Psst: Using a wedding budget tool is also beneficial because it can do the tricky math for you.) Keep reading to learn how other couples spent their wedding money. Plus, get tips on how to create a budget and advice on common budgeting mistakes you should avoid. 

A Quick Look at a Wedding Cost Breakdown

Based on internal data, the following percentages are how much couples (on average) put towards the wedding details that mattered to them. These numbers will give you a better idea of how to create a successful budget for your celebration. Also, don’t forget to use our free Wedding Budget Planner, which gives you a suggested amount to spend for each vendor based on your overall budget, allows you to customize your plan and tracks your spending.

  • Venue and Event Rentals: 29% 
  • Catering, Dessert and Alcohol: 24% 
  • Photographer and Videographer: 10%
  • Florist, Lighting and Decor: 9% 
  • DJ and Live Band: 6%
  • Couple’s Attire, Hair, Makeup and Jewelry: 6% 
  • Wedding Rings: 5%
  • Wedding Planner: 4% 
  • Guest Entertainment: 3%
  • Transportation: 2% 
  • Stationery: 1%
  • Officiant: 1%

A Detailed Wedding Budget Breakdown by Percentages 

Want more background on why couples found the following wedding expenses necessary? Check out the helpful explanations and tips below. 

Important note: How you choose to create your budget is completely up to you. You can spend more or less in certain areas depending on your preferences, and that’s totally okay. Also, your wedding cost breakdown and percentages may differ depending on where you’re getting married, the size of your guest list and more—we’ll expand on these factors later. 

Venue and Event Rentals (29%) 

You’ll notice that the biggest chunk of your wedding budget will be taken up by your venue, which is why it’s important to invest in the right one. First, you’ll need to ensure that you find a venue that can comfortably fit all of your guests that has location options for different weather scenarios. You’ll also want to find a venue that fits your style, whether it’s a rustic barn, a hotel ballroom (bonus points if it offers wedding room blocks) or an industrial space.

And don’t forget about wedding rentals, either. You’ll likely need to rent a variety of items for your event like tables, chairs, glassware, linens, flatware and much more. If you’re hosting an outdoor wedding, a tent may be necessary. In some cases, your venue or caterer provides some of these items for you. If not, you’ll need to hire a separate event rental company to supply these important details.

Venue and event rental tips:

Catering, Dessert and Alcohol (24%) 

As for catering, it’s clear that your guests will be expecting delicious food. Remember, that your catering bill doesn’t just account for the actual food—you’re paying for preparation, equipment, wait staff and more. 

Your wedding cake and any additional desserts also make up part of this wedding budget percentage too. Whether it’s a glamorous, multitiered fondant confection or a tasty assortment of mochi doughnuts, the more elaborate the dessert or dessert spread, the more expensive.

If you're not hosting a dry wedding and your caterer isn’t handling the bar, you’ll need to buy liquor and nonalcoholic beverages and hire bartenders. While making your budget, decide if you’d like to have an open bar or cash bar, signature cocktails, a full bar or only wine and beer. Your choices in this category will impact your overall cost. 

Catering, dessert and alcohol tips:

Photographer and Videographer (10%) 

It’s the job of a photographer and videographer to capture the wedding day in still or moving images to cherish for a lifetime, which is why these pros make up a good portion of couples' budget breakdowns. Choose a photographer or videographer whose work you love, but also someone who you genuinely like and enjoy being around, since you’ll be spending a lot of time with them. And you’re not only paying for the final photos and/or video. The cost also includes your photographer and videographer’s time at your event, editing, equipment and more. 

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Florist, Lighting and Decor (9%) 

This category is all about ensuring that your wedding looks beautiful with stunning flowers, lighting and decor because they can truly transform any space. For the flowers, you’re paying for the blossoms, labor, supplies, delivery, breakdown and more. For the lighting and decor, the bill will most likely include the lighting and decor pieces themselves, setup, cleanup and more. 

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DJ and Live Band (6%)

Music is an important part of a wedding reception, so hiring a professional to coordinate the music is essential to ensure that everything runs smoothly. Whether you choose a band or a DJ is entirely your call, but there are different costs associated with live music as opposed to a DJ, so it’s important you determine your musical needs before booking and factoring one of these vendors into your wedding budget.

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Couple’s Attire, Hair, Makeup and Jewelry (6%) 

You want to look your best on your wedding day—and between your outfit and beauty services, it can really add up. Fortunately, there's lots of wedding attire to choose from at a variety of price points. Though, don’t forget to factor alterations into your wedding budget breakdown. Tailoring your attire can be costly, but necessary to ensure your clothing fits like a glove.

As for hair and makeup, it’s a good idea to hire professionals for the task. They’ll know how to highlight your best features and guarantee you’ll look amazing for your entire wedding day. 

Some couples also include wedding accessories like jewelry into their wedding budget, and we’re not talking about the wedding bands. If you intend on buying necklaces, watches, bracelets, earrings and other bling to complete your wedding look, put that expense into your budget tracker.

Couple’s attire, beauty and jewelry tips:

Wedding Rings (5%) 

Don't forget these in your wedding budget percentages. The wedding rings are an age-old symbol of marriage, and an important part of the wedding ceremony in many cultures. Everything from the labor to the custom engravings impacts this wedding detail’s cost. 

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Wedding Planner (4%) 

There are lots of advantages to hiring a wedding planner—perhaps the biggest one is that they can help you save money. With their extensive knowledge and connections, a wedding planner ensures that you stay within your wedding budget and on schedule, and will keep your planning experience as stress free as possible. 

Wedding planner tips:

Guest Entertainment (3%) 

Guest entertainment isn’t a necessity, which explains why it’s lower on the list, but it’s a good way to keep guests mingling and having fun and helps make your celebration more memorable. If you have extra room in your budget, consider hiring a photo booth vendor, live painter, tarot card reader or celebrity impersonator. 

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Transportation (2%) 

Hiring transportation for your wedding ensures everyone gets to where they need to be safely and on time, which makes this additional detail worth the cost. Get transportation (like a limo, bus or horse-drawn carriage) for yourself, your partner, family members and wedding party, or you can also provide transportation for all of your guests. This is a nice gesture, particularly if you have a lot of out-of-towners who are unfamiliar with your wedding location.

Transportation tips:

Stationery (1%) 

Printed products play a big role both before the wedding (think: save-the-dates, and invitations) and on the day of (think: ceremony programs, table numbers and escort cards). There are lots of options to choose from when it comes to wedding invitations and stationery, so pick paper products that fit your style and budget. Pro tip: Factor postage into your wedding expenses breakdown. Depending on the shape and size of your invitations, you can pay an additional dollar per invitation in stamps. 

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Officiant (1%)

One of the people responsible for your ceremony running perfectly is your officiant. Besides being the person who’ll legally marry you and your partner, there’s a lot of prep work involved with officiating a wedding. Some additional services some officiants can help with are premarital counseling, creating the ceremony order and choosing the best readings for the moment. 

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Other Costs You Should Know About

The above wedding details aren’t the only aspects that can come into play with your budget. The following expenses should also be considered, but only if they feel necessary to your specific situation. 

  • Emergency fund 
  • Engagement ring
  • Rehearsal dinner
  • Ceremony music
  • Favors and gifts
  • Wedding party attire
  • Wedding party hair and makeup
  • Honeymoon

What to Consider While Creating a Wedding Budget

To give you a better understanding of how your budget should work, we spoke with wedding planners who’ve seen it all. Use the following tips to guide you through creating a budget that’s best for you and your partner. 

Your Guest Count

It might seem obvious, but your guest count needs to be the first thing you consider while making your wedding budget because it impacts everything that comes after it. Elena Markwood, the owner of and lead planner at Adoration Weddings & Events, agrees and says: “Food, beverage and rentals are the most obvious examples, but the effect of how many people you invite extends further. How many servers will the catering team need to staff? How many tables will your florist need to design centerpieces for? Will you need a larger reception venue to accommodate all your guests?” Nailing down how many people you can afford to host will make the rest of your planning experience much easier.  

Your Destination and Venue

There are so many ways your destination and venue can impact your budget that we had to put it in a list. Check out the following considerations:

  • Big city venues: It's a fact that some cities are more expensive than others, which means venues in hubs like New York City, Los Angeles and Boston will come at a higher cost. 
  • Venue location versus guest comfort: “Consider if there are accommodations on-site and whether transport needs to be provided for your guests,” Olivia Buckley, the founder and managing director of Olivia Buckley International. 
  • Venue logistics: There’s also the obstacle of small town venues not having easy access to the vendors you want. “The more remote the location, the more you may need to spend getting entertainment, vendors and crew there,” Buckley says. 
  • Venues that don’t come with amenities: “The cost to rent an empty space for a ceremony and reception might shock you. On top of that, you’ll have to fill it with chairs, florals and tables,” says McKenzi Taylor, the founder and owner of Cactus Collective Weddings.
  • Purpose-built wedding venues: These are locations that are specifically built from the ground up to host weddings. “These kinds of locales go out of their way to make their spaces desirable to the Instagram crowd, and they'll charge a premium for it,” Taylor says.  
  • Alternative venues: Save money by booking an unconventional venue. “Places you wouldn’t expect are offering their spaces up for weddings in order to add revenue while business is slow and the economy is down. Think: indie movie theaters, retro bowling alleys and historic train stations,” Taylor says.

Your Wedding Date

Think about what season you want to get married in, then be as flexible as possible on this date if you want to save money. “In-season weddings, which are during May through October for the majority of the US, are becoming prohibitively expensive for some. This is why more couples are opting for more affordable winter dates during January through March,” Markwood adds. 

Your Priorities 

“Think about your priorities for your event. Did you see an amazing band at a loved one's wedding that you're dying to have perform at yours? Are you and your partner foodies who want to ensure your guests thoroughly enjoy their meals? Or maybe you're okay with pared-down centerpieces that focus on bud vases and candlelight, or you don't mind forgoing a videographer,” Markwood says. No matter what, you and your partner need to have a serious conversation about what wedding details are the most important to the both of you. By doing so, you’ll have a clear understanding of what you’re willing to cut back on or pay more for. 

Your Grand Total

“Estimate the real grand total, not the quoted price of your vendors’ labor. Such things as service charges, sales tax and gratuities can add 30% or more on top of a catering or venue quote. I've seen couples plan their whole budgets off the base price and discover the gap a few months in,” Olha Barabash, the founder and creative director of Sense of Moment, says. 

Wedding Budgeting Mistakes Couples Should Avoid

Now that you’ve learned some of the basics of creating a typical wedding budget, you should know about some things you'll have to avoid during this process. Keep reading to see what budgeting mistakes wedding experts have seen over the years. 

Not Using a Wedding Budget Planner 

Having a helpful tool that’s at the tip of your fingers is always the right way to go. Get the guidance you need for your wedding budget breakdown by using the WeddingWire Wedding Budget Planner. You’ll be able to stay on track with your expenses without all the hassle. 

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Not Researching Costs in Their Wedding Market 

“Building a budget around a Pinterest board is a common mistake. Couples fall in love with what they see online and try to make the budget fit it. That usually ends in disappointment or overspending,” Barabash says. Instead, couples should take the time to research what things cost in their specific wedding market. “Look specifically at those have-to-have-it vendors first to ensure you have room for the items that you need. You’ll save yourself the sticker shock when you start having consultations with vendors you would love to book,” Markwood adds. 

Not Having a Budget Buffer for Extra Expenses 

“A major mistake that couples make with their wedding budget is starting off with their do-not-exceed budget. While you may be able to initially allocate those funds in a way that makes perfect sense for the vendors you want to hire, there’ll always be unexpected expenses that pop up. Those extra costs could be anything from additional alterations needed on your outfit to the guests you were sure wouldn't make it RSVPing ‘yes,’” Markwood says. She advises to-be-weds to set 75–85% of their do-not-exceed number as their working budget to allow for the inevitable. 

Not Creating a Budget Before Booking Vendors 

“The booking order matters a lot. Many couples get excited and put a deposit on a photographer they love in the first month. Then, they find out the venue takes most of what's left,” Barabash says. Instead of having to work backwards, build your budget first, then book vendors that fit within it. 

Not Being Honest With Their Wedding Planner

Irene Katzias, the wedding planner and designer of Irene & Co Events, says a lack of transparency can make budgeting unnecessarily stressful. “It's important for couples to clearly communicate their budget expectations and ensure that anyone contributing financially is respected and informed. Your planner will appreciate your transparency. As planners, we cannot fully assist you if you aren’t clear about your personal and financial goals,” she adds. 

Forgetting to Buy Wedding Insurance 

From your home to your furry friend, you can insure just about anything these days, so you’re probably not surprised that wedding insurance exists too. Many couples find that wedding insurance is worth the cost because it can cover so many situations such as extreme weather conditions, vendor no-shows, sudden illness and much more. Before you think your budget is finalized, get a wedding insurance plan—it could cost less than you think. 

Choosing a Venue Without Looking at Vendor Limitations

“I find that some of the biggest mistakes occur when clients choose venues that have preferred-catering lists without checking the pricing and catering limitations, especially when it comes to cultural specialties or multiple courses. A good planner is well-versed in these limitations and expectations. They can ensure that your priorities align with what’s realistically achievable within your budget,” Katzias says. 

Having Too Many Items on Your DIY To-Do List

“Talking yourself into saving a few dollars here and there by busting out your hot-glue gun and your Cricut machine can turn into a crafting nightmare. The time leading up to your wedding should be exciting and fun, not stressful and filled with a nagging list of tedious chores,” Taylor says. Remember, your time isn’t unlimited, and you’ll have a lot of other non-decor-related tasks to complete as your wedding day draws near. Don’t overextend yourself. Instead, be realistic about what’s worth DIY-ing (time and money wise) and what can be outsourced to a professional. 

Additional reporting by Kim Forrest.