No two weddings are exactly the same, but most of them have one thing in common: music. Regardless of your style, budget, wedding season, or the size of your guest list, it's likely that your wedding is going to have music in some form, and that's where we come in. There are thousands (okay, millions?) of wedding songs to choose from – not to mention that the number of times during your wedding when you'll need music is surprisingly high. We've put together this guide that makes it easy to know exactly what music you'll need to choose ahead of the big day, and we're sharing our favorite wedding songs for every moment, all in one place. And if you've already hired a wedding band or a professional DJ, the hardest part is over! Your music vendors will be able to provide personalized expert advice when it comes to your wedding songs and keeping your guests entertained throughout the event. In the meantime, you can start getting some ideas right here.
Keep reading for a list of all the times you'll need music on the big day and the best wedding songs for every moment.
Before the wedding
You’re already thinking about your day-of wedding songs, but what about the music for your pre-wedding events? There are several occasions, such as your engagement party, bridal shower, and even the morning of your wedding when having an awesome playlist will make all the difference.
Engagement party: Get the romantic vibes going with a variety of love songs and classic crowd-pleasing hits.
Bridal shower: A playlist of cheerful melodies and acoustic tunes works wonderfully as background music.
Bachelorette party: It’s ladies night! Whatever your plans are, these tunes will get you ready to party with your girls.
Wedding week: Only one week to go until the big day (OMG!). Minimize any last-minute stress with this mood-boosting playlist.
Morning of the wedding: Whether you’re getting ready with the girls, the guys, or both, check out these playlists to start your wedding day off on the right note.
The ceremony is the pinnacle of your wedding day. After all, this is everything that you (and all of your guests) have been waiting for: the moment when you officially marry your spouse! There are few major moments during the ceremony when your wedding songs are absolutely essential.
Prelude: Compile a soundtrack that matches the vibe of your wedding to entertain guests as they're entering the ceremony venue and taking their seats.
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Processional: You'll need to choose a few songs to accompany your family members and wedding party as they make their way to the altar.
Bride entrance: It's time for the big moment. If you're walking down the aisle, "Canon in D" isn't your only option — trust us!
Interlude: If there's a break during your ceremony when no one will be speaking (during a candle lighting or other ceremony ritual, for example), you can enhance the moment with a brief interlude song.
Recessional: You're finally married! A high-energy song celebrates the momentous occasion as you walk past your loved ones, but it's also a great way to get everyone excited for the party to follow.
Postlude and exit: After you and your wedding party have recessed out of the ceremony, a postlude song (or two) will keep the energy going as guests are standing up and leaving.
Now that the butterflies are gone, it's time to let loose and have fun! From hitting the dance floor to cutting the cake, the right wedding songs will help you turn your reception into the best party ever.
Cocktail hour: Whether you're enjoying drinks with your guests or off taking pictures with your wedding party while friends and family hang at the bar, a fabulous playlist is the key to any great cocktail hour.
Grand entrance: Your guests will be waiting in anticipation for you and your spouse to make your official 'married couple' debut — take this special moment the next level with an epic grand entrance song that reflects your personalities (coordinated dance moves optional).
First dance: The first dance is another big moment of the reception, and it's also one of the most symbolic. The wedding song that you choose for your first dance should be one that you both love, whether it's a song by your favorite artist, a song that was on the radio when you first started dating, or a song that showcases your interests (like Disney movies!).
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Parent dances: Show your parents some much-deserved love by taking them for a spin around the dance floor. Whether you're looking for tear-jerking wedding songs that have sentimental meaning, or you'd prefer to keep the mood laid-back and cheerful, we have plenty of options.
Party starters: After the traditional dances and speeches are out of the way, it's time to invite all of your guests to the dance floor. Get people on their feet with a mix of crowd-pleasing hits, from the top songs of the year to familiar old-school tunes that everyone will appreciate.
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Wedding anniversary songs: This is one of the less common categories when it comes to wedding songs, so if you're not familiar, let us explain: you ask all of the married couples to come onto the dance floor, and your band leader or DJ then excuses couples one by one based on the length of their marriage. At the end, you'll see who's been married the longest!
Bouquet toss: Coax all of your single female guests onto the dance floor — and find out who will be next to get married, according to tradition — by playing a catchy tune to help one lucky lady snag the bouquet.
Garter toss: Break the ice during this cheeky tradition by choosing an upbeat, lighthearted wedding song.
Cake cutting: Cake smash or not, slicing into your wedding cake is a memorable moment, because dessert. Kick it off with a playful song that entices people to gather 'round and watch.
Slow dances: Your coupled-up guests will appreciate the opportunity to share a romantic dance with their partner, and we've got the perfect slow songs for the occasion.
Last dance: The party has to end eventually, but that doesn't mean you can't go out with a bang. If your goal is to get everyone on the dance floor one last time, these tunes will do the trick.