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37 Romantic Ways to Propose, According to Real Couples

Thinking about asking someone to marry you? Use these real-life proposal ideas to help you decide exactly how to pop the question.

LGBTQ+ proposal at waterfront location

Planning a proposal is an extremely personal and emotional event—not to mention a pretty BIG deal. Once you’ve decided that you’re ready to spend the rest of your life with someone, the next step is sifting through the different ways to propose and deciding how you should pop the question. There are millions of proposal ideas to choose from, but whatever you ultimately go with should reflect you and your future spouse. Need a little help? These romantic proposal ideas are a great source of reassurance and inspiration for your own engagement moment, whether you want something over-the-top or simple and intimate. Trust us, you've got this! Ready to get engaged? Keep reading for our favorite proposal ideas.  

couple proposal at coffee shop

At Your Favorite Coffee Shop

This simple proposal idea is also a meaningful one if you and your S.O. have a go-to coffee spot in town. Depending on how elaborate you want the proposal to be, you can consider looping the manager or barista into your plan ahead of time—ask them if they'd be willing to write something on a cup or create special latte art for your proposal. 

couple proposing on top of a snow-covered mountain

During a Ski Trip

A skiing or snowboarding trip is a memorable way to ask someone to marry you. Chances are, you'll be surrounded by gorgeous wintry scenery, and getting engaged gives you even more of a reason to snuggle up together by the fireplace after an exciting day on the slopes. If you're staying at a resort, look into arranging room service or another surprise (like a couples' massage or spa day) to top off the celebration. 

at-home proposal couple in pajamas kitchen engagement

At Home

Sometimes, the simplest proposal ideas are the sweetest. Proposing at home, whether it's your first apartment together or a house you just bought, will no doubt be a memorable moment for you and your S.O. The advantage of getting engaged at home? You have total control of the situation—there won't be random bystanders or other interruptions, which makes this option perfect if you're looking for a low-key, intimate moment. 

proposal with family
Samantha M. Wayne

Surrounded by Family

Announcing your engagement to your friends and family is an exciting moment, but it's even better when they're there to witness the proposal for themselves!

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On a Mountain or Hilltop

There’s nothing like feeling on top of the world...when you’re actually on top of the world. Proposing on a picturesque mountain or hilltop will give both of you the butterflies, and not just because of the view.

proposal in european historic town square

During the Trip of a Lifetime

Whether you’re traveling abroad or taking the cross-country road trip that you’ve always dreamed about, a big trip with your S.O. is a memorable time to propose. Do your research ahead of time to find at least one spot where you'd like to propose, like this town square in Havana, Cuba, but don't be afraid to go with the flow if the time feels right somewhere else during your trip. And there's no need to worry about the post-vacay blues when you return home—you’ll be too busy basking in your engaged couple bliss!

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While Visiting a Garden or Conservatory

With plenty of fresh flowers and natural beauty surrounding you, your proposal photos—or just-engaged selfies—will instantly look amazing. 

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Mikayla Gerlach

Under the Brooklyn Bridge

Whether you live in NYC or are just visiting, the Brooklyn Bridge (specifically this iconic spot in DUMBO) is an excellent backdrop for a proposal. It's also a great place for your proposal photographer to remain incognito and blend in with camera-wielding tourists until the big moment arrives. 

LGBTQ+ proposal with french bulldog

With Your Pets

If you already share pet parent duties with your partner, why not also involve your pets in the proposal? You can secretly add a new tag to your pet's collar with a proposal message or create a custom sign to help you pop the question. 

proposal in front of waterfall

On a Scenic Hike

Outdoorsy couples, this proposal idea is for you. Pop the question during a hike to get the best of both worlds: privacy and a gorgeous setting. Even better if you can find a waterfall! 

proposal at bookstore
Adam Oh

At a Bookstore

Wondering how to propose to someone who loves books? Take them to their favorite bookstore and use it as the backdrop for your romantic gesture. Let the store know about your plans in advance to ask if they can arrange some privacy or if they will allow you to add any proposal decorations ahead of time. 

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During a Surf Sesh

This couple got engaged—wetsuits and all—after catching some waves together at the beach. Not surfers? Think about proposing however you and your partner like to exercise together, whether it's a run on your favorite trail or a relaxing hot yoga class. 

proposal in front of eiffel tower

While Exploring the City of Love

Getting engaged during a trip to Paris is one of the most romantic ways to propose—try to argue with us. From the Pont des Arts to the Eiffel Tower, there are so many iconic backdrops in the City of Love that you practically can’t go wrong. Not able to make it all the way to Paris? Luckily, there are a handful of European-inspired cities right here in North America, like Montreal, Washington, D.C., and New Orleans.

couple wearing matching christmas sweaters with caricature proposal

With a Caricature

Not only is this one of the most creative proposal ideas, but the caricature will become a special keepsake you can treasure for the rest of your lives. 

proposal at waterfront gazebo decorated with flower petals
Becky Reynolds

Surrounded by Flower Petals

You can create a dreamy proposal space practically anywhere by using rose petals to form an aisle leading to the exact spot where you'll ask for their hand in marriage. A scenic spot is always nice, but you can also create a cozy backdrop at home, too.  

washington DC proposal at jefferson memorial view of washington monument
Joanne Sayun

Overlooking a City Monument

If you and your S.O. are city dwellers, take them to one of the best lookout spots in town and pop the question with an unforgettable view. This couple got engaged overlooking the monuments at the National Mall in Washington, D.C. 

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In a Rainforest

Traveling to a tropical island? Whether you're headed to Hawaii, Asia, or somewhere in the Caribbean, you'll have no shortage of amazing rainforest scenery to serve as a stunning location for your proposal. 

proposal with roses and champagne
Chelsey Sayasane

With Champagne and Flowers

Sometimes, it's the little details that make the biggest difference. This simple yet sweet balcony setup with red roses and an intimate table for two is oh-so romantic. Bonus points for having the champagne chilling ahead of time!

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While Christmas Tree Shopping

The holidays are already the most wonderful time of the year—make them even more memorable with a proposal! If you celebrate with a Christmas tree, pop the question while you're searching for the perfect tree.

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During a Vacation in Greece

There's nowhere else in the world like Greece, which is why it's a truly amazing place to get engaged. Find a scenic spot on a hill and ask your partner to marry you, then enjoy a sunset dinner overlooking the water. 

intimate proposal with candles and flower petals
Makayla Hudson

At Your Future Wedding Venue

If you and your S.O. have talked about marriage before getting engaged, you might even know the wedding venue where you'd ultimately want to have your wedding one day. This couple got engaged in the same spot where they're planning on marrying! 

beach proposal at sunset

At the Beach

It’s hard to go wrong with a proposal on the beach (especially at sunrise or sunset). For your own #justsaidyes moment, choose a beach that holds special significance for the two of you as a couple, or start a new tradition by popping the question at a beach you haven’t visited before.

proposal at mormon temple

At Your House of Worship

Proposing at your house of worship is extremely special if you and your partner are a religious couple—especially if you're hoping to also get married at the same location.  

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At the Grand Canyon

Whether you choose an iconic location like Horseshoe Bend or a spot away from the beaten path, you can’t top a proposal at the Grand Canyon, which is why it tops our list of romantic ways to propose. Make it even more memorable by planning the big moment for sunrise or sunset, or go all out with a private helicopter ride.

romantic proposal in central park

In Central Park

There are dozens of places to propose in NYC, but getting down on one knee in Central Park is at the top of the list of romantic ways to propose. Even though the Big Apple is one of the busiest cities in the world, you can almost always find a private spot in Central Park if you wander long enough!

proposal in the redwoods forest

In a Forest

For a total fairytale moment, ask bae to marry you with the magical redwood forest as your backdrop. Even if you aren't in the redwoods, any forest will do — it's a seriously romantic way to propose, especially when you add a blanket with rose petals and votive candles.

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During a Picnic

There's something classically romantic about going on a picnic with your love. The best part about this proposal idea is that you can make it as elaborate or as simple as you want!  

proposal at Forsyth Park in Savannah

With Live Music

If you want to capture your proposal on film, live music (or another type of performance) provides an ideal opportunity to do so. You'll have an excuse to get the camera rolling without completely revealing your plan. Plus, music will add to the ambience of the proposal! Get tickets to see the first artist you saw in concert together, or propose during a special song that you both love. 

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Written on Cupcakes (or Any Other Dessert)

Here's one of the most creative—and yummiest—proposal ideas: cupcakes. This proposal idea requires a bit of coordination if you want to arrange something in advance with a bakery, but you could also put your own spin on it at home by making the cupcakes yourself.

helicopter ride proposal

During a Helicopter Ride

This is one of those proposal ideas that isn't for the faint of heart (or those with a fear of heights), but asking your love to marry you while soaring thousands of feet in the air is definitely one of the most romantic ways to propose. 

cute proposal idea with relationship pictures
Tiffany Tran

Using Photos From Your Relationship

This is the perfect idea for the sentimental couple. Create a sweet backdrop for your proposal by displaying all of the pictures you've taken together throughout your relationship. Aside from pictures, you could also use other special mementos, like love notes or concert ticket stubs. 

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At Machu Picchu

A failsafe option on our list of proposal ideas: visit one of the seven wonders of the world (once it's safe to travel again) and surprise your S.O. with the question of a lifetime. 

proposal during boat ride in Greece

On a Boat Ride

This proposal happened on private boat charter in Santorini, but even if there's no trip to Greece in your near future, any type of boat ride would be just as romantic. 

proposal in tunnel of lights Japan

In a Tunnel of String Lights

If you’re proposing around the holidays, take advantage of seasonal backdrops and decor to create an unforgettable (and festive) moment. This gorgeous tunnel of lights is located in Japan, but you don’t have to travel to the opposite side of the world to pull off the same effect — a festival of lights or holiday market in your hometown is just as romantic.

Rockefeller ice rink proposal NYC

While Ice Skating

Even if you can barely stand on your own two feet, ice skating is always a fun date idea, especially around the holidays. Bringing your S.O. to the center of the rink and getting down on one knee is one of the most unforgettable romantic ways to propose. Just make sure they’re okay with being the center of attention!

northern lights proposal

Beneath the Northern Lights

If you’re in a place with incredible scenery, catch your loved one off guard by setting up your camera and faking a “selfie moment” like this couple. Depending on where you live, you can sometimes see the Northern Lights in parts of North America, but stargazing or overlooking a city skyline would be equally romantic.

proposal with banner sign

With a Huge Banner Sign

This type of grand gesture is definitely not for the shy couple, but that’s why we love it! Let the whole world (or at least your town) know that you’re in love by asking your S.O. to marry you via a huge custom sign.