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HammettUP
Intimate ceremony, big reception?
HammettUP, on December 26, 2016 at 2:56 PM

I know it has been asked before, but I can't remember what answers were given. Is it rude or against etiquette to have a very small (family only) ceremony, and then welcome friends and their spouses...

HammettUP, Dec 26, 2016 12 442
Laura
Wedding Date and Bridal Shower Date faux pas?
Laura, on December 24, 2016 at 2:01 PM

I am writing this for my sister, who is the one getting married, but she had me make an account here. My sister just got engaged to her fiancé. She's been wanting to plan the date now, so we doesn't...

Skycat, Dec 26, 2016 48 152
M
Engagement vs bridal party
Morgan , on December 25, 2016 at 4:50 PM

What is an engagement party vs a bridal party?

Crescent1874, Dec 25, 2016 6 146
Paulina
Sending invitations during Holiday Season
Paulina, on December 19, 2016 at 4:18 PM

My wedding is February 25 so two months right after Christmas. I just received my beautiful wedding invitations today and I am debating whether or not I should send them this week right before...

KCmarryingSpook, Dec 24, 2016 20 1,035
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Guest list dilemma - mom/stepmom
Amber, on December 23, 2016 at 10:39 PM

When first discussing the guest list (max 80; 70% is family) with my father and stepmother, my stepmother named 10 people she thought we should invite. Her top two are her and my dad's best friends...

Elizabeth, Dec 24, 2016 20 331
Sara
Pro photos received late - what next?
Sara, on December 21, 2016 at 9:45 AM

We got married Nov 5. Our wedding photog was the same one who did our e-pics. The cost/contract includes full rights to all photos. Per the contract "The final images are processed in about 3 weeks...

MarissaFromOregon, Dec 24, 2016 26 2,426
Grace
Carbon offsets as favors
Grace, on December 24, 2016 at 7:36 AM

Do guest expect favors? I have seen where people donate to charities instead of favors and they have a little card saying which charities at the table instead of the favor. I was thinking about...

Lucille, Dec 24, 2016 7 63
Sasha
When do you get to Eat?
Sasha, on December 21, 2016 at 12:14 AM

So, one of my biggest wonders is when does the newlywed couple get to eat dinner? After the ceremony is usually photos and a quick relax moment, then onto the reception and it's dancing and greeting...

Cara, Dec 22, 2016 26 3,546
Morgan
The Inner Envelope?
Morgan, on December 21, 2016 at 8:28 PM

I have not put much thought into our stationary, and today when I started researching I found out that there are MANY things included in the invitation suite. I understand the need for most of them,...

Kathleen Smith, Dec 21, 2016 12 609
FJB
Wal-Mart gift registry?
FJB, on December 16, 2016 at 9:06 AM

Anybody here have/had a Wal-Mart gift registry? We're registered at Target, have a good range of price points, and I feel like Wal-Mart will have a lot of little odds and ends that could use updating...

Private_User832, Dec 21, 2016 21 3,425
Carla
Shades of blue or Cobalt
Carla, on December 20, 2016 at 10:17 PM

So I am trying to figure out how can I put diffrent shades of blue into everything. Tables, bridesmaids dresses etc. I wanted to go more for a modern/bling wedding. I have several ideas but I don't...

FutureMrs17, Dec 21, 2016 16 779
Angela
Can I put invite only on my RSVP card?
Angela, on December 20, 2016 at 12:43 PM

Hello, We are setting an age limit on our wedding as we are having a very large wedding with most families having children. We have posted this on our website, and intend to address the invites to...

FutureMrsWhitman, Dec 21, 2016 22 2,498
Mr&Mrs89
Starting a family and anxiety! Advice
Mr&Mrs89, on December 18, 2016 at 8:53 PM

OK so I have tokophobia (fear of pregnancy and birth ). I literally think I'm destined to die in pregnancy or birth. I have been dealing with it ever sense we started talking babies and marriage a few...

Laura, Dec 20, 2016 88 2,407
Ali
3rd wedding
Ali, on December 19, 2016 at 12:19 AM

I got married when I was 19 to my middle school-high school sweetheart, it was a short but very happy marriage. We were both in the military and he died shortly after our wedding. That was in 2003. In...

E&M, Dec 19, 2016 16 387
M
Gender reveal and our wedding?
Mary, on December 17, 2016 at 10:33 PM

I'm getting married in February!! Yay! I have this small issue with my hubby's mom and sister. My sister in law is having a lot of remorse because she didn't have an actual wedding. They just got...

Runawaybride, Dec 19, 2016 79 360
K
Brother asked if his gf could be a bridesmaid
Kristen, on December 18, 2016 at 9:20 PM

My brother is going to be a groomsman in our wedding. We are only having 4bridesmaids and 4 groomsman bc we want a smaller bridal party. There are plenty of friends I would want as bridesmaids but had...

Future Mrs H, Dec 19, 2016 39 211
MNBride
BM bringing friend instead of date?
MNBride, on December 19, 2016 at 8:05 AM

So one of my bridesmaids is single. She dates a lot just never has a serious boyfriend because she's just very independent. The other night at dinner she mentioned she asked an old roommate from...

Kelsey, Dec 19, 2016 7 87
Tiffany
Are corsages still a thing?
Tiffany, on December 14, 2016 at 9:41 AM

Hi, we are having a wedding of about 30 people in a small Italian restaurant in Williamsburg Brooklyn. I was going over all my to do lists with my mom and she said "don't forget to ask about corsages...

Lauren17, Dec 19, 2016 53 6,606
SSJKarigan
Two Sizes Too Small
SSJKarigan, on December 5, 2016 at 1:20 PM

Long story short, I learned that one of my bridesmaids intentionally ordered her dress two sizes too small (as a goal to lose weight). The problem is, the dress is going to be discontinued (got it for...

SSJKarigan, Dec 19, 2016 21 98
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Anyone skipping save the dates?
Jasmine, on December 18, 2016 at 12:40 PM

My fiancé and I decided to save money and send out early invites (were about 5 months out). Our budget is pretty tight, and I already emailed all my extended family to plan for travel. Is anyone else...

BecomingKrueger, Dec 19, 2016 33 3,449
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