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Destination Wedding: Who pays for what?
Brooke, on December 18, 2016 at 2:18 PM

What is the proper etiquette for who pays for what for a destination wedding?

Celia Milton, Dec 18, 2016 9 299
Venita
Wedding Crashers?
Venita, on December 18, 2016 at 4:03 PM

So my family and I have thrown a few bigger parties through the years requiring RSVPs but we ALWAYS seem to have party crashers! Either people bring more than just their plus ones or folks we never...

24kMagicWed, Dec 18, 2016 11 332
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How many cookie bags needed for guests?
Natalie, on December 18, 2016 at 5:14 PM

Hi! I'm having traditional cake and also a Cookie table at my wedding in a April. The cookie table will act as a second dessert and also our favor. Should I buy enough cookie bags for each guests that...

RealLifeBride, Dec 18, 2016 4 1,014
Harleybeachbride
ROCK n ROLL BRIDES!!!??
Harleybeachbride, on December 10, 2016 at 4:24 PM

Hey all, I'm hoping for some old time rock n roll song inspo from brides who used (or will use) classic rock tunes for all the different parts of your wedding day (your walking song, processional,...

Natalie, Dec 18, 2016 48 6,824
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Where do I put the card box and gift table?
elisabeth, on December 16, 2016 at 10:57 AM

Where should I place the card box and gift table? Should it be in the lobby as my guest walk in or somewhere in the reception area? Thank you!

MzRosaLu, Dec 17, 2016 13 6,626
Moose
"Plus ones" on save the date envelopes?
Moose, on December 16, 2016 at 4:59 PM

Super quick question: Should I put "and guest" on single people's save the dates? Or should I just put that person and then include a plus one in the real 6invitation. We are sending them seven months...

Nikki, Dec 16, 2016 13 10,274
SAD
Will I regret not having a videographer?`
SAD, on January 26, 2016 at 1:03 PM

Photography was always one of my top priorities, so we have a great photographer, but neither FH or I really thought videography was important. Neither of us have been one to watch home videos...

Clarissa, Dec 16, 2016 34 916
GummyBearSTL
Invitation wording.. "Following the Ceremony...."
GummyBearSTL, on December 12, 2016 at 3:01 AM

So ceremony roughly will end around 6:30, there will be refreshments of non-alcoholic beverages and fruit/cheese before the reception begins at 7:00 when the open bar opens. Dinner at 7:30... Would it...

Lynnie, Dec 16, 2016 16 8,319
bluejay
Question for Interfaith Couples
bluejay, on December 12, 2016 at 11:01 PM

Disclaimer: This thread is NOT a place for religious debate. I've no interest in that. True, I cannot tell anyone here what to post, but I do request that everyone please be kind/respectful of one...

bluejay, Dec 16, 2016 20 1,150
Susana A
Are you staying in your wedding dress the entire day?
Susana A, on December 13, 2016 at 1:26 PM

So my dress is 3kg and I'm going to be wearing it all day from 12pm till 11pm. I was thinking I should change since it's so heavy and big, but my mother said it's the only day I will be wearing a...

Jessica, Dec 15, 2016 105 2,420
FutureMrsTurcios
Oh...boy- Potluck Wedding & BYOB
FutureMrsTurcios, on October 4, 2016 at 12:44 PM

I just got a notification about something on one of the Bride groups I'm a part of on FB and as I scrolled I ran into this.... The fact that people have not only "liked" but also "loved" this post...

Lisa, Dec 15, 2016 24 578
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Photography during cocktail hour
QB, on December 15, 2016 at 1:08 PM

Hello everyone, I'm looking for suggestions on how to make my cocktail hour shorter. To me, 1 hour seems a bit long, because both my ceremony and reception are held at the same location, in two...

Jay Farrell, Dec 15, 2016 11 1,314
Mr & Mrs. Freedlund
Tipping the makeup & hair stylist?
Mr & Mrs. Freedlund, on December 15, 2016 at 10:44 AM

Hi ladies, I'm looking into having a makeup artist and hair stylist. Is it customary to give a tip on top of whatever they are charging? Also, how is the tip calculated...10%15%20% of total?

AprilR, Dec 15, 2016 11 1,278
Rachel
How to do Couples Shower
Rachel, on December 13, 2016 at 11:53 PM

Hey ladies! Just inquiring about the couples shower. There's so many parties! My mother in law and sister in law (MOH) are planning it. They chose a place called Rock N Bowl here in New Orleans. You...

Laura, Dec 15, 2016 17 1,524
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Two Sisters: Only Two Bridesmaids
Kayla, on December 13, 2016 at 7:27 PM

So, do I make them both Maids of Honor? Or Do I have the older one my Maid of Honor and the youngest my bridesmaid? I'm not sure the proper way to do this if there is one. Thank you for any help you...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Dec 15, 2016 13 490
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Include wedding website in wedding invitation or not?
Denise , on August 4, 2009 at 2:50 PM

Hi all, I cannot find anything in any of the etiquette sites about this. I know it is a fairly new idea, the wedding website, but I don't want to make a faux pas. I should explain that we are getting...

Brianna, Dec 14, 2016 21 8,806
StargazerLily24
Bridesmaid asking etiquette via text?
StargazerLily24, on December 14, 2016 at 11:51 AM

So FH and I have been talking about asking his friend to be a bridesmaid... I have no problem asking, she's been someone I've been considering asking... I know that I still have time, but FH is being...

Julie, Dec 14, 2016 12 10,131
SoontobeMrs.Harmon
Alternatives to Father/Daughter dance?
SoontobeMrs.Harmon, on December 14, 2016 at 12:12 AM

Does anyone have ideas for what to do instead of the father daughter dance? My dad doesn't dance so I originally thought we'd just forgo the whole thing. Recently he told my mom that he would like to...

mrsmack, Dec 14, 2016 5 108
Moose
Bridal Shower v. "Bridal Luncheon"
Moose, on December 14, 2016 at 12:54 PM

So I know my mom is upset that she doesn't get to plan our wedding herself (in her day, moms did the whole thing and it was more a party for the parents) so she's going to do a bridal shower for me....

Emma, Dec 14, 2016 5 3,470
JuJuBee
Specific Seating Question - Farm Tables
JuJuBee, on December 13, 2016 at 4:50 PM

Table assignment question - We have a mix of tables at our reception, some round, booths, rectangle etc. We will obviously be utilizing table assignments - but my question is how do I handle longer...

JuJuBee, Dec 13, 2016 4 184
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