3rd wedding

What an appalling human being! I wouldn't respond, personally.

He probably told her what happened and now she is left trying to clean up his mess. I would leave well enough alone.

I'm just snorting st the fact they think you have a marriage track record.....totally uncool, untrue, and a horrible thing to say! If you care at all about the wife you could respond, but since they weren't getting an invite anyways it seems you probably don't, if it were me I'd probably just ignore it, and if you see her in person be polite (taking the high road) and if she asks about the text just play it off

No response would be the response that they would receive. He's got some nerve making that remark.

I think it's best to not respond.

I wouldn't be rude to her. Maybe she didn't know about the incident that happened or maybe she's trying to fix it. Either way, if you weren't planning on inviting them i just wouldn't respond back.

Thanks all. I agree just not responding is the best. Her and I work in the same building but on different floors, hoping with the holidays I can go a few weeks before I run into her.

I am guessing either a. She is trying to clean up his mess by trying to buy us a dish set or b. He is was too drunk to remember and she is being sincerely nice. Either way don't want to be bitchy towards her for her husband's comments.

No response is needed. Now you have the benefit of the wife attributing their lack of invite to her husband's insensitive comment. BOOSH.

He's a fucking cuntnugget. Your first husband DIED. DIED. And if he died while serving, well, that makes him even more of a cuntnugget.

Don't respond. Hopefully she checked her asshole husband about his comments.

Marriage track record?! You aren't Elizabeth Taylor! Your first husband passed while serving and the second was awful to you.

Ignore and be the better person. However, at least now you have the knowledge of where you stand in their friendship.

@star I was going to say the same thing!

Honestly, this guy sounds like a real jerk. I'm glad your FH shut him up. Even if you had been married 6 times, it's no one else's business.

Wow. I don't think I would respond. Her husband is a total dick.

Yikes that was awful and completely undeserved!!! I don't think I would respond and I'm sorry that even happened sometimes people truly suck!

I'm sorry you went through that. I would just blow her off. She can probably find your registry with a Google search. Obviously be gracious if they give you a gift (maybe she's apologizing for her husband's misstep?), but again I'd blow her off about it or change the subject.

What an asshole. I wouldn't respond and I wouldn't invite them.

Wow, what a creep!