Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I am seeking advice on a situation with my videographer. We got married 11 months ago and are just now receiving “bits and pieces” of our wedding video. That was after essentially being ghosted up...

“I just want to say upfront—I’m a really anxious person, so I honestly don’t know if I’m overthinking this, but it’s been weighing on me. My fiancé and I are the first in both our families to get...

I'll be a guest at a cousin 's wedding. We have a family member who is constantly making ignorant racist comments, and spreading conspiracy theories, and generally sounds hateful and unhinged. I feel...

It's very important to my FH that in our vows I promise to love and obey him. I have been on the fence about this for months. It doesn't seem like it should be that big of a deal, but I'm just not...

Im struggling trying to come up with a thoughtful gift to give my parents and future in laws at our rehearsal dinner. I like the idea of the gift coming from both me and my fiance instead of doing...

I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here. The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly...

I found a venue that is also a hotel- almost all of our guests are going to be coming from out of town. If we book this venue (the rooms are included in the cost) how do we navigate giving the rooms...

I'm having a small, simple and fun summer wedding outside in the parking lot where my guy works. It's my first wedding at the ripe ol age of 59. Nothing we have planned so far is traditional by any...

Hey all, so long story short my father died when I was 11. This has been so hard while wedding planning since my FH talks about his Mother son dance and stuff like that. I don't have any close uncles,...

We were invited to a family members wedding and kids are invited. But here is the thing while my husband, me and our two other kids are invited we were told our 4 month was not invited. I understand...

Hello! I’m getting married in June and have been working on getting the thank you gifts prepared for our wedding party and families. I had figured, based on previous weddings I’ve attended, that we’d...

I've never liked the idea of a fake send off but we will be staying pretty late partying and I want my older family members to be part of the send off. So I was thinking of having a send off around...

Hello! So we are finally getting our invite list set in stone. We are only extending plus ones to guests who are currently in known relationships (dating for several months or longer or married, etc.)...

So my fiancé has two sisters, one of which got married last year. There was big drama in their family because the sister getting married did not include the other sister in her bridesmaids, but...

Hi- So I need help on how to approach a situation with my wedding photographer. We got married 9/18/2021 & she told us 6-9 weeks for our photos to get back to us, the contract says 9 weeks. Her...

Hello! Getting married in October and very excited. My dad is very happy I am finally tying the knot and has offered us a generous sum to help pay for the wedding in return for a few requests. Future...

Hi, My wedding date is getting closer and I am worried I won't be able to afford my own wedding dress! My fiance and I are from different cultures (countries) and in my country groom's parents and the...

I need feedback (maybe not brutally honest feedback) but feedback. I’ve been engaged for (almost) 2 years now. We’ve been back and forth between big wedding/ elope/ courthouse and finally made a...

Hello wedding wire! Our wedding is just a few months away, and after updating our website and creating our invitations, it occurred to me— how can I kindly request guests do not smoke/chew tobacco?...

So I hear this phrase alot, hell I've used this phrase. Im curious on how people feel about declaring it's all about you, or you & FH...Here's some things I've been told or read on other websites.....