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Bride with social anxiety has questions
Alexandra, on April 19, 2024 at 12:06 PM

I have pretty bad social anxiety, so a lot of the elements of the wedding will be stressful for me. One of the things that helps with my anxiety is knowing what to expect/having a plan for what to do...

Hannah, May 9, 2024 8 186
Determining your guest list plan
Michelle, on April 19, 2024 at 5:33 PM

Because the guest list is vital to have set in stone before you can find a venue, how did you decide on who to invite? Did you decide to have adults only with no kids, a set group with kids invited or...

Hannah, May 9, 2024 6 109
Sherryr, Today at 1:29 AM

Boostaro-This plant extract has been used for hundreds of years in conventional medication to enhance libido and sexual overall performance. It is thought to reinforce testosterone degrees clearly,...

Sherryr, 24 minutes ago 1
How to know if I’ll be invited to a friends wedding
Emily, Yesterday at 10:11 PM

I have a friend who recently got engaged, and I’ve been wondering if I’ll be invited to the wedding. I’ve known the friend by going to school together, but over the past few years we haven’t really...

Emily, Yesterday at 10:11 PM 13
Sierra Brown
Can hostess ask bridesmaids for help with the bridal shower?
Sierra Brown, Yesterday at 1:08 PM

I am the bride's sister-in-law, and I am a bridesmaid. I offered to host the wedding shower. I am fully expecting to do 90% of the work and expenses, however in talking with several people they...

Michelle, Yesterday at 8:45 PM 9 118
Is a guestbook really important?
kelsey , on April 24, 2018 at 8:44 PM

Ugh so I've been arguing with myself if its actually worth it?? My FH doesn't care for it, but if we were to get one it would be more of a journal that people can write their wishes in (like the...

Justice, Yesterday at 12:30 AM 24 1,729
Pathological People Pleaser
Krista, on April 28, 2024 at 12:30 PM

Does anyone struggle with getting caught up in other people’s opinions that you start to feel they will hate you if you tell them “no, we’re doing it this way”? If so, what are some tips and advice...

Zerita, May 21, 2024 7 160
Small ceremony big reception
Michelle, on May 18, 2024 at 4:32 PM

What are your thoughts on this as a guest? Have you experienced this and it didn’t go as well as people say it should or did guests not express their feelings to each other? Do you feel that attending...

Andrea, May 21, 2024 3 57
Trans Non-binary and the Gendered Language of Weddings
Kate, on June 6, 2018 at 2:14 PM

Hi all, I'm a ciswoman, and my partner is trans non-binary. So far so good in planning a beautifully queer wedding. We're always sure to ask potential vendors of their past history in working with...

Stephanie, May 21, 2024 36 10,187 3
Officiant's hotel room
Samantha, on March 21, 2024 at 10:37 PM

My fiance and I are getting married about an hour from where our officiant's work place is, although I think they live further away than that. They mentioned they would love to come to the rehearsal...

Yohanna, May 19, 2024 3 94
Celibate for 1 Month Before Wedding- DO IT!
Rachel, on June 9, 2013 at 11:41 AM

My husband and I decided when we got engaged that we would be celibate for a month before our wedding. We own a home together so it wasn't easy to do but well-worth it! We both knew the boundaries (I...

Jesse_welding1990, May 18, 2024 48 2,631 2
Solo ideas in lieu of bridal shower
Terietta, on May 13, 2024 at 12:03 AM

I am going a civil ceremony but we are throwing a reception in July. We won’t have a bridal party and I only have a couple of friends in the City we live and none have offered to coordinate anything....

Heather, May 16, 2024 10 185
Photographer eating
Bug, on May 15, 2024 at 11:19 PM

Would it be rude of me to ask our photographer and their second shooter to eat at different times? Usually people say that they don’t want pics of people eating but since we only will have reception I...

Bug, May 15, 2024 9
College Student - own invitation or with their parents?
Kathleen , on January 11, 2014 at 3:57 PM

I have a cousin, over 18, who is in college and I am unsure how to send her the save the date/invitation since her "address" is her parents house. Do I send her and her parents separate invitations or...

Alisha, May 15, 2024 8 963
Wearing a ring 24/7?
Natalia, on August 21, 2019 at 2:47 PM

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad,...

Allison, May 14, 2024 1,171 22,487 17
Seating chart vs No seating chart
JohnsonToJackson, on March 24, 2016 at 11:19 AM

Hello!!! So in all of our planning we never thought we were going to do a seating chart. FH and I have been together for over 5 years and have had plenty of get togethers with both of our families and...

Theresa, May 14, 2024 37 11,863 1
Am i a jerk, or is this crazy?!
Marriedsoon, on May 14, 2024 at 9:15 PM

I got engaged in October of last year. Quickly paid all deposits and asked my best friend of 25 years to be my MOH for this October. She agreed. In December, she got engaged and asked me to be her...

Marriedsoon, May 14, 2024 42
Help me, I won; Bridal Registry?
mrsrobinvalentine, on March 26, 2013 at 11:28 AM

I received a call from Bridal Registry stated that I won a choice of one gift package. But I have to attend one of their Bridal Registry showrooms. Packages choices: Wedding bands (value $700)...

Katelyn, May 14, 2024 66 71,637 3
Dumb Question - Mailing Invitations
Summer, on June 5, 2018 at 8:20 AM

This feels like a stupid question, but what's the best way to ensure my invitations go out properly - after they're all sealed with correct postage (I already got them weighed before I bought stamps),...

CM, May 13, 2024 26 9,952
Advice needed: My husband is offended that my bridesmaids didn’t contribute to the wishing well. Not even a card.
LS276, on May 8, 2024 at 10:28 PM

This has been causing me such anxiety because I genuinely have no idea how to resolve this or who’s in the wrong. Is my husband being unreasonable & greedy or are my closest friends tacky &...

CM, May 13, 2024 13 319
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