Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I really don’t want there to be a ton of time in between the ceremony and reception as guests won’t have anything to do. We are getting married in a tourist town so there are some places they could go...

I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here. The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly...

Did anyone have a conversation with their bridesmaids before they "officially" proposed with a gift to make sure they are ready to commit to be in a wedding? Wedding parties have a big commitment...

Hey ladies, So I super duper had my heart set on a photographer. She was just wonderful, did our engagement photos and my FH and I fell in love with her. But her wedding packages were just out of...

This is an excerpt from our contract and just want a second opinion that the service charge DOES include tip. After reading so many times, it becomes blurred and confusing."A service charge, currently...

What are you giving for gifts at the rehearsal dinner? Let me first say we have a small wedding party. We have two groomsmen and two bridesmaid . Then two ushers who are niece and nephew. We have a...

Who writes the thank you card? Are you choosing based on who has the better handwriting? 50-50? Just the ladies because the guys could care less what it says? Let me know!

What does everyone do for tipping? I've googled and seen so many varied answers, and some of them seem just so over the top so just looking for a little sanity check.My package with the venue includes...

Hi!My fiancé is a Canadian and I am an American. Just wondering if anyone was willing to share their immigration experience? M y fiancé does not have any type of green card and we have been in talks...

Ladies, I need your advice! First, backstory- I worked with a woman who was fired from my office about 6 months ago. Not only did we work together for 14 years but we were very close friends outside...

Hello all!I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad,...

Hey y’all! I’m planning on doing online RSVP’s. Originally I was going to send an RSVP card without a stamp and a comment at the bottom about the online RSVP option. Now, I’m thinking about only...

My SIL started a honey moon wish fund without asking if it was OK. It's not something i really wanted to do we are not really that close should i be upset?

So we are getting married January 2nd. That means that the day before is a holiday, so our venue will not be open. My fiance has been a groomsman in several weddings, and always feels as if the...

Help! My wedding was 4 months ago and we have been in a battle with our videographer ever since. We signed together with her and the photographer. The photographer was great and did all we had...

First off, I've done little to no research about this, but I am curious. Is it proper etiquette to provide the response cards with return postage? I know it seems cheap, but I was thinking of offering...

My wedding ceremony is at 4pm in a garden, followed by a 5pm reception with room for only 65 people. No dance floor. Should I serve a full dinner or just cocktails, hors d’ oeuvre’s, cake? It’s a...

Hey everyone. I am on the fence about whether or not to change my name. FH is not pushing it at all, and in fact is encouraging me not to. His last name is long and complicated, no one pronounces it...

Hi all! I know that tipping discussions come up often and I looked through the discussions before posting, but couldn't find exactly what I was looking for.Our photographer offers a free engagement...