Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi all! To start : we aren't allowing +1's unless guests are married or engaged by the time our Save the Dates went out. Everyone is aware and fine with it. We had to do this because FH wanted kids in...

Hi, Everyone - My fiancé and I have ran into another roadblock (once again, instigated by my MIL). Like I've said in previous posts, we anticipate having between 40-50 people attend our wedding. Much...

We are working with a wonderful venue for our wedding next year in NYC. When we visited, the manager explained that they pay their staff generous wages and their price is all inclusive, so there are...

So we found out recently that two of my guests never received the invitation that was mailed the first of September. Mom wondered how many others got lost, but I told her I felt like most responded...

My FH and I got engaged 7/19/16 .. My dad sudden passed 12/29/16. My dad and I chose Butterfly Kisses as our song to dance to but I felt funny dancing with someone else to it. I chose You should be...

I need some advice. I want my 7 year old daughter to be one of my bridesmaids. She has been through a lot with me. His daughter is 2 and I want her to be part of the wedding and was thinking flower...

Our top venue that we’re in love with is a hotel, and we'll be having about 120 people invited. All of the family and friends we're inviting are people we are closer with (so-- no one feels like we're...

A friend of mine recently told me she received an invite to a honeymoon shower for a couple they are good friends with. It was pretty much known they would not have a 'regular' registry because they...

Seeking advice and rants are acceptable! Share your elopement planning woes here!!! How have you dealt with your family's complaints on your chosen nuptials?

Hello, My fiancé and I decided to share our wedding website with family as our version of save the dates (saves money this way). Since then I have an uncle who is asking if he can bring his wife’s...

Hi everyone Does anyone have any experience with having people pay for their own food? My fiance and I are paying for the wedding party, but the package we have does not cover food. It is going to be...

Hi ladies, I'm sure this has been discussed but I can't seem to find a good category to put this question under. A lot of our friends and family are coming from out of town, a good 2+ hours travel...

Our guest list and seating chart are due tomorrow and we have multiple guests that haven't given us the names of their plus ones. We've texted them multiple times asking and they always dodge the...

The way our guest list has grown blows my mind. One night, we had about 45, then we go over to my future MIL’s place and start talking about more names we might want to add. They came up with about 50...

I’ve been reading about save the date etiquette for weddings and I need advice. I have quite a few out of state family I know won’t be attending the wedding, I was going to send them save the dates...

I was super excited to see my vistaprint package sitting on my doorstep when I arrived home yesterday. We ordered a bunch of stuff (free) but most importantly we got our menus! Exciting right? NO! My...

Hi, Everyone - I just wanted to get some input on this topic. As some of you may know, my fiancé and I have decided to have a no-kid wedding. This is largely due to cost and because of the wedding...

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad,...