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Couple not sitting together at the reception
Macy, on May 23, 2020 at 10:40 AM

I recently started dating this guy who's sister is getting married in a couple of months. His sister told him that he should bring me as a date and I obviously said yes! I haven't met any of his...

Martha, May 28, 2020 31 635
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Tinea Versicolor...
Christine, on August 3, 2018 at 10:43 AM

Ok so I'm feeling a bit strange putting a medical issue on here, but I'm not looking for medical advice. I've had Tinea Versicolor on my upper back for over 10 years. I've been to several...

Harley, 26 minutes ago 20 2,008
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Old high school friend reaching out after you engagement?
Jessica, on May 30, 2020 at 11:14 PM

Backstory I used to be close with a girl I grew up with we were close for a few years but eventually we stopped talking and hanging out even when I still lived in town. She’s reached out one or twice...

Jessica, An hour ago 15 243
Logan
Elopement
Logan, on May 28, 2020 at 11:37 AM

Hi guys! Hope everyone is hangin in there. We just made the decision to cancel our wedding and head forward with an elopement. I’m actually a little relived as the anxiety of being infront of people...

Alexis, Yesterday at 7:47 PM 13 152
Chelsea
How to announce minimony on social media
Chelsea, on May 30, 2020 at 11:46 PM

Hi everyone! Like lots of couples, we’ve postponed the big wedding we had planned for June. We are still getting married on our original date with our immediate family there. Any ideas for how to word...

Renee, Yesterday at 5:58 PM 5 104 1
Amber
Should you also do a gift for you soon to be significant other??
Amber, on March 2, 2020 at 1:14 PM

I know most people do a gift for the parents, the in-laws and sometimes the grandparents. I also know its a great idea to do a gift for the bridal party, but what about the one your getting ready to...

Judith, Yesterday at 5:31 PM 13 125 1
Madison
Do i ask fiancés brothers girlfriend to be in the wedding?
Madison, on May 30, 2020 at 12:01 PM

So my fiancé’s brother has been with his girlfriend now for over 6 months and I’ve grown to be closer to her and have really bonded with her when we see each other at get togethers and when we all...

Madison, Yesterday at 10:05 AM 9 212
Caroline
Save the dates or invitations
Caroline, on May 30, 2020 at 2:28 PM

So, my question is that do we just send save the dates and have them just reply through my website or do we also send invitations. I plan on having everyone reply though my website because keeping...

Mindy, Yesterday at 6:26 AM 15 156
Michelle
Invitations
Michelle, on May 30, 2020 at 3:26 PM

I'm confused on the topic of inner and outer envelopes. How do I make sure my guests don't get confused with the envelopes, and how do I make sure my guests don't get confused with the rsvp cards?

Hannah, Yesterday at 12:01 AM 6 105
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Maid of Honor issues!!
Jill, on May 29, 2020 at 6:53 PM

Hello everyone! I am the mother of the bride and my daughter has chosen a friend , who my husband and I absolutely dislike, to be her Maid of Honor. This girl and my daughter have a long history of...

Shannon, May 30, 2020 43 671
Dr E
Is having a Maid of Honor a must?
Dr E, on May 28, 2020 at 10:06 AM

Heyyyy my Beauties! So, is it is a must to appoint a Maid of Honor? Is it fine to just have Bridesmaids? What are you thoughts? What did some of my fellow Brides do?

Elle, May 30, 2020 30 139
Jei
Destination Wedding Invitations & rsvp
Jei, on April 15, 2020 at 10:16 PM

Hello All, I am having a destination wedding on June 5, 2021 at an all inclusive resort in Montego Bay, Jamaica. We have blocked 40 rooms for family and friends. Any rooms not booked and paid in full...

Jei, May 30, 2020 8 147
Corinne
Rehearsal Dinner dress code?
Corinne, on May 29, 2020 at 10:00 AM

What is proper rehearsal dinner dress code etiquette? What does the bride wear and what do guests wear? I have only been to my brother's wedding last year but I didnt really pay attention but I wore a...

Sylvana, May 30, 2020 15 253
Elise
Return address labels
Elise, on May 29, 2020 at 5:40 PM

So I was on zazzle a few weeks ago ordering the save the dates and return address labels. I was so excited to finally press that "order now" button that I didn't realize until I got them in that I was...

Elise, May 29, 2020 3 138
Jenna
Save the dates
Jenna, on May 29, 2020 at 6:08 AM

Hi ladies, We just got engaged and our wedding is November 1. What would y’all do about save the dates? I’ve read they’re typically sent six months prior to the wedding but out wedding is in four...

ALY C, May 29, 2020 10 120
Amber
Dance Lesson?
Amber, on May 28, 2020 at 5:05 PM

Ok... so I have two left feet and he can dance like hes from the 70's... we need Dance Lessons, but when is it appropriate to get them and start learning? What kind of time frame should we...

Elizabeth, May 29, 2020 5 45
Reasie
new wedding date etiquette
Reasie, on May 27, 2020 at 1:36 AM

I am considering postponing my wedding to next year, should I send out new invitations, Save-The-Dates, and RSVP cards or just do a text or email message to my already invited guests? What steps did...

Reasie, May 29, 2020 13 94
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New take on how to politely reschedule your wedding
Jana, on May 29, 2020 at 5:29 PM

Https://www.mercurynews.com/miss-manners-what-do-we-tell-people-cancel-big-wedding

Ali, May 29, 2020 1 94
Kaitlin
Bridal Shower Gifts Early
Kaitlin, on May 29, 2020 at 1:24 AM

I’ve been searching through google and here to get an answer on this odd question. Backstory: Both my fiancé and I live in AZ, we have a few friends here but the majority of our invitees for my bridal...

Judith, May 29, 2020 7 95
Tasha
Usher/greeter Proposal
Tasha, on May 25, 2020 at 8:16 PM

Hi, guys! So, I’m wondering how people have asked ushers/greeters/etc. to be a part of the wedding. Did you do a “proposal” like you would with your bridesmaids and groomsmen? Any ideas/suggestions...

Lynnie, May 29, 2020 3 60
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