Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My original wedding date was 3/21/20. However, like majority of the other couples— we pushed our wedding date to 8/22/2020 (this was back in March). Due to the pandemic and the mandate issued by...

My rsvps are due soon and I’m kind of nervous because I have sent out a message about a week ago reminding everyone that they are due soon. Some I have heard from, others opened and ignored, and some...

Hi! I’m trying to figure out how to do the seating for the head table. We do not have a wedding party. The grooms parents are divorced and each have children of their own and I am the only child to my...

Hi everyone, my parents divorced when I was 12 I’m not 26. He has been with the same girlfriend for 7 years now and they recently got engaged this past month. I have had my wedding planned for a...

I just got my invites and as I was organizing them to send, I randomly decided to look up my venue and realized the street number was way off! It said 141 not 154! I was so hung up on stupid...

My fiance and I recently postponed our September wedding. We had a small guest list (~30 people) so we originally thought we could make it work. But we live in upstate NY and 70% of our guest list...

We sent Save the Dates in Match for our November wedding. We are planning on sticking to our November date but we lost our venue and need to downsize from 250 to 150 guests. What is the appropriate...

Anything special I should do today? Besides stress lol We are having a small backyard wedding with family, making sure everyone and everything is safe from Covid has been stressful but definitely...

Due to Covid-19, we had to cut down our guest list from 105 guests, to 15. Some of the uninvited guests sent us cash for our wedding, which is SO appreciated. What kind of wording do y’all suggest for...

I am in a bit of a dilemma. First things first, we were supposed to get married next week (8/15/20), but with all the new guidelines that came out mid July in PA, we ended up having to postpone the...

I was taking note of time of sunset this eve. We are marrying on Friday Aug 21 @ 6 pm Sunset was at 8:14 tonight and I began thinking about pictures. We live in Fla and I really would like a few...

Hey everyone, So yesterday was an emotionally hard day for me. I finally let the sucky situation that many of us brides and couples have been experiencing this year sink in, and I had a full on...

Hi all! Our previously postponed from April wedding is coming up in two weekends FINALLY and we are going ahead with it (we are in MD, originally invited 160 people and will have 100 now total). Can’t...

Anyone else having a guest with a birthday at their wedding? Are you doing anything for them? I have a cousin who is in their 50's that is having a birthday. My Mom wants us to sing Happy Birthday to...

Hey all, my husband and I eloped in July and only invested in a photographer because that’s all we had for options at that time. I’d like to send him a card with an REI gift card in it. We did an...

Hello! I am looking for brides that have sent out save the dates to a large amount of people but had to cut back their list. I'm curious if you have gone a certain way to say "sorry due to covid we...

Due to recent financial hardship, my fiance and I have decided to have a micro wedding with just immediate family (15 guests). I was reading that you should never invite anyone to a bridal shower if...