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Physical Invitations vs Digital
Yvonne, on November 22, 2020 at 5:23 PM

Hi Brides! I wanted to get your perspective on doing physical invitations vs digital. My fiance and I aren't really keen on wasting paper and spending money on invitations when we can just do digital...

Soontobemrs, Yesterday at 5:00 PM 37 358
Am I allowed to invite people to my shower?
Mallory, on November 19, 2020 at 1:56 PM

This isn’t a question regarding WHO I can invite, but rather how I can invite them? My MOH is throwing me a bridal shower with our church women’s group (We’re approaching this in a way similar to a...

Soon2Bemarried, Yesterday at 12:17 AM 14 287
How on earth do i even approach this? (not wanting to offend Fil.)
Marie, on November 19, 2020 at 7:05 AM

Oh boy. We went out to eat with the inlaws, whom I adore, and FH takes it upon himself to ask his dad to be our photographer. He said yes and is excited. 😕 I SO appreciate this...but no thanks. The...

Judith, Nov 20, 2020 23 382
Future (step) daughter: ideas how to include her
Slrhoshi, Yesterday at 9:16 AM

FH has a 9 year old daughter and me and her are awesome together and she likes being around me. We are planning 2022 and she will be 10 almost 11 at the time of the wedding. I know she is too old to...

Millicent, Yesterday at 9:29 PM 10 89
covid Wedding Rescheduling
Taylor, on November 18, 2020 at 10:00 PM

Help! I don’t know what to do. My wedding was supposed to be this Saturday. We planned to have about 50 people, socially distanced, outdoors. Everything was ready to go. We knew all along that Covid...

Danielle, Yesterday at 3:38 PM 10 302
moh Needs Advice From Brides
Carolina, on November 22, 2020 at 11:13 AM

Hi everyone! I am the MOH in my baby cousin's upcoming wedding on June 5th, 2021. I love her to pieces and just want all the pre-wedding festivities to be everything she's dreamt of. However, with...

Barbara, Yesterday at 1:54 PM 11 199
October 2021 wedding?
Briana, on November 21, 2020 at 6:55 PM

Hi everyone! I was wondering if anyone is planning a Plan B ceremony/microwedding for those who are supposed to have their weddings in October 2021? We are 10/31/21 and I'm getting nervous to even...

Stella, Yesterday at 12:11 PM 15 306
Wedding Superstitions - Not seeing each other before the wedding
Jo, on April 17, 2018 at 11:05 AM

How much do you buy into this wedding superstition ? This wedding superstition is very well known and has been around for a long time, but more and more couples are choosing to skip it. Historically...

Shelly, Yesterday at 11:37 AM 47 404
Wearing a ring 24/7?
Natalia, on August 21, 2019 at 2:47 PM

Hello all! I’m not sure if this is the proper group for this discussion. However, I wanted to know if you ladies and/or gents wear your engagement rings all the time. Recently, I was made to feel bad,...

Slrhoshi, Yesterday at 9:00 AM 1,138 17,169 17
Should My Future sil Be Invited To Bachelorette Party?
Soon2Bemarried, on November 11, 2020 at 10:35 PM

Hi Wedding Wire Family! I’m currently in a pickle and please don’t judge me for what I’m about to say (lol). But, I’m not really close with my future sister in law at all. When we see each other we...

Slrhoshi, Yesterday at 8:56 AM 19 238
Got my engagement photos back and i feel way insecure about them.....
Shae, on November 16, 2020 at 2:09 PM

So I want to preface by saying I love my photographers and they did a fantastic job with what they had to work with. I just cant help but feel fat, frumpy, and pale in my photos. I think the poses had...

Christine, Nov 22, 2020 62 1,396 2
Invitation wording for sequel wedding
Chelsey, on November 20, 2020 at 12:37 PM

We got married on our original date with just close family in our back yard due to covid restrictions for our venue, we decided to have our big wedding next year (we already had money down on...

Jessica, Nov 22, 2020 10 108
Save the dates
Ashley, on November 20, 2020 at 2:20 PM

Are Save The Dates completely necessary?? We are trying to save money anywhere we can, hence the question. We have already announced our date officially on our socials and we are of course sending out...

Jessica, Nov 22, 2020 17 140
Advice? My boyfriend is a groomsmen at his best friend's wedding, I'm not invited.
Salomé, on November 13, 2020 at 10:34 PM

My boyfriend and I have been in a loving, committed relationship for the past 3.5 years. Living together for 1.5/ LDR for past 5 months (my partner received a job offer in his hometown, which is...

Michelle, Nov 22, 2020 43 1,451
Change the date cards.. yes or no?
Anna, on November 21, 2020 at 12:26 PM

I am getting married on December 5th and we originally planned a 200 person wedding but with Indiana’s newest mandates we have to reduce our guest count to 50. We have decided to still get married in...

Minimalist Bride, Nov 21, 2020 5 117
Our last name
Ashley, on November 12, 2020 at 7:01 PM

I feel stupid for asking this but... Our last name will be Bajpai And I'm ordering a sign for our wedding day but I don't know whether to spell it as The Bajpais or The Bajpai's Opinions??

Ashley, Nov 21, 2020 9 161
Bridesmaid Trouble 😭
Abby, on November 21, 2020 at 10:32 AM

So long story - sorry - 3 of my people who I want to be in my bridal shower cannot stand each other (2v1) - we all work together too. I also have 2 others who one of those also works with us. The two...

Stacey, Nov 21, 2020 4 202
Thank You Notes for people who didn't come to the wedding, but gifted
Private User, on November 8, 2014 at 10:05 PM

So this is a different scenario than people who came to the wedding, but didn't gift. I have a few people that sent a gift, but didn't come to the wedding. Obviously, I want to thank them for the...

Judith, Nov 21, 2020 30 128,647 8
Wedding Superstitions - Using Your Gifts Before the Wedding Day?
Lynnie, on April 17, 2018 at 11:05 AM

How much do you buy into this wedding superstition ? This wedding superstition follows the same principal as “don’t count your chickens before they hatch”! This old wedding myth says that using your...

Judith, Nov 21, 2020 43 1,912
The Firefighter's Fiance
Song not appropriate for the bridal procession?
The Firefighter's Fiance, on August 29, 2013 at 1:42 PM

It isnt Crazy b**tch :-p I want to walk down the aisle to Lana Del Rey's Young and Beautiful but my mother thinks it isnt appropriate? This song just makes me feel so emotional, I think it will be...

Ashlyn, Nov 20, 2020 19 1,287
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