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Ruby
Engagement ring leasing problems - Has this happened to you?
Ruby, on July 17, 2019 at 7:16 AM

Not sure if anyone else has had a similar problem So my fiancé bought my engagement ring back in December; since then he's been getting charged about 3-4 times a month for payments instead of just...

Melody, Aug 19, 2025 18 2,756
Courtney
Slow Dancing Without the Groom
Courtney, on December 19, 2013 at 12:43 PM

My FH HATES dancing and being the center of attention. I LOVE dancing and fully intend to dance the night away (to fast and slow songs). FH will be doing a 1st dance, last dance and dance with his...

Ryan, Aug 16, 2025 22 1,500
S
How to Ask for Wedding Photographer Partial Refund?
SL, on February 15, 2022 at 3:16 PM

We had two wedding photographers from different photography groups. It was a total accident which we thought was going to be very happy and turned out not to be. Our original photographer was who we...

Nancyward, Aug 16, 2025 6 1,608
K
2 renewals for absent family ??
Kim, on August 13, 2025 at 12:45 PM

My husband and I have been married 10 years. We did a quick military wedding with no guests. I am from Georgia and we moved to Illinois with his family. I had done a 10 year renewal for his family but...

Kim, Aug 13, 2025 107
Danielle
Four young children to include
Danielle, on June 22, 2025 at 12:10 AM

I have two nephews (10 and 5) and similarly aged "nieces." I'd like to include them all in my wedding. I was planning on my doggo being the ring bearer, but I'm sure my oldest nephew would love to do...

Rosebud, Aug 11, 2025 1 214
MTS
Engagement party
MTS, on July 24, 2025 at 5:21 PM

My sons future in laws are hosting and engagement party at their home. Is it protocol for the grooms parents to bring a small gift to the parents?

Rosebud, Aug 11, 2025 1 72
S
Inviting late spouse family to remarriage
Stacy, on December 22, 2017 at 11:26 PM

So I am getting remarried in a few months, a small ceremony and appetizer reception for family and friends, 50 people max.. My previous husband died almost two years ago from a two year battle with...

Fenahy, Aug 10, 2025 17 6,992 1
Arlene
Dogs In The Wedding!
Arlene, on September 7, 2021 at 8:53 AM

Hi all! Who has had their dogs in their wedding ceremony? I want our 2 dogs to be in the wedding ceremony as the flower girl and ring bearer. They are pretty well behaved and will do just about...

Jonathangarcia, Aug 8, 2025 6 680 2
Wendy
My second wedding, twin daughters (18) who stands next to me?
Wendy, on August 1, 2025 at 2:46 PM

My wedding day is coming up (6ish weeks). I don’t know what order to put my kids in for the wedding ceremony. Our six kids will be the only attendees of the wedding party. We have only family coming...

Natashia, Aug 6, 2025 1 100
Paige
Step siblings invited to rehearsal dinner?
Paige, on December 5, 2021 at 12:04 AM

Hello, My mom passed away when I was almost 17, and my dad started dating my now-stepmom when I was a freshman in college. I didn't meat my step sister till Junior year of college, and my step brother...

Kc, Aug 2, 2025 7 1,076
Chassidy
"The Bride is coming! The Bride is coming!" title besides bell ringer?
Chassidy, on February 18, 2016 at 12:16 PM

My little sister (9 years old) will be coming down the aisle right before me, ringing our great grandmothers bell (deceased) saying "the bride is coming, the bride is coming!" I am TOTALLY lost on her...

Adrienne, Jul 29, 2025 42 8,156
D
Vow Renewal Etiquette/Wedding that never happened
Devin, on January 21, 2015 at 12:58 AM

My husband and I are planning a a vow renewal for our 10 year anniversary. We didn't have an actual wedding when we first got married because in the midst of planning we found out we were pregnant. So...

Kerry, Jul 27, 2025 35 4,804
Gabbie
Babies, In-law Rivalries, and Decor - Oh My!
Gabbie, on July 16, 2025 at 6:20 PM

I am seeking advice on how to manage family expectations, as a black sheep middle child who is marrying the black sheep middle child of another family. For context, my betrothed's family is very...

Alina, Jul 23, 2025 1 145 1
Brianna
Specifying Dress Code=tacky and rude?
Brianna, on January 13, 2021 at 7:30 PM

We have plenty of time to plan, so I'm taking my time to weigh my options with everything. However, I'm so torn on this. We're having an upscale wedding, I think our guests can tell that just by...

Ellie, Jul 23, 2025 100 8,540
Dakota
Venue too far?
Dakota, on July 16, 2025 at 2:26 PM

I have about 20 out of state guests (My close friends and family members). We want to get married at a location that's meaningful to us, near my FH's parent's house on the river. This is where we got...

Veronica, Jul 22, 2025 2 355
Falen
Serious fights before wedding
Falen, on June 6, 2018 at 11:50 PM

Have any of you had very serious fights before the wedding ? I’m talking serious like taking ring off and threatening to walk... granted there was alcohol involved, but still the topics involved...

Crystal, Jul 17, 2025 27 21,656
Hillary
Welcome drinks and seating chart
Hillary, on July 1, 2025 at 12:25 PM

HI Everyone! We are doing a welcome drink before the ceremony and I thought about adding monogrammed drink tags to each glass. We are planning on doing a seating chart, although I am still thinking of...

Hillary, Jul 12, 2025 4 450
Kelli
bridal shower
Kelli, on July 9, 2025 at 3:32 PM

I have no clue who to invite to the bridal shower and how far out from the wedding do we have it? My sisters have offered to plan it. but we don't know who to invite. We are lost on that as neither of...

Veronica, Jul 10, 2025 1 310
Natasha
Mother/Son dance-- my father is deceased
Natasha, on July 7, 2015 at 8:29 AM

Hi- this is my first post! My father passed away my junior year of college and needless to say, I was a complete daddies girl. It's been 7 years, I've made peace with it and am now happily planning my...

Sabrina, Jul 10, 2025 10 2,641
Carlene
NWR: Has anyone ever had to get a dental implant?!
Carlene, on April 26, 2014 at 9:35 PM

My dentist suggested I get 2 implants placed for my back teeth. I was born with no adult teeth in the back which is causing all my front teeth to shift. I'm freaking out- any experience and do...

Yerrow, Jul 9, 2025 16 1,454
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