Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi. So I’m attending a wedding in January and the dress code is White Cocktail Party. I’ve been hearing different types of dresses for this party. I just want to make sure I’m wearing the correct...

What is proper rehearsal dinner dress code etiquette? What does the bride wear and what do guests wear? I have only been to my brother's wedding last year but I didnt really pay attention but I wore a...

My husband and I got married in 2020 at the courthouse. We had both been divorced and we're slightly older and wanted to try for kids. We didn't know how long covid would be a thing so we just decided...

Hi- So I need help on how to approach a situation with my wedding photographer. We got married 9/18/2021 & she told us 6-9 weeks for our photos to get back to us, the contract says 9 weeks. Her...

Long story ahead. This person is a very sweet gal. But I asked her because she's a new friend and she's the gf of my fiance's long time friend. We get along very well and have a lot in common. But I...

Hi all! I’m sure this topic has been asked about a million times so I apologize for asking a million and 1. I am planning on only asking my childhood best friend who is like a sister to be my matron...

Emma & Aaron: I don't know why you hid your post, I was just typing something that came off more supportive. I didn't mean to be offensive. Your post brought up an interesting point for discussion:...

Hi! My bachelorette party is in one month. My MOH has asked everyone for their availability and confirmed with my bridesmaids on the date and how the trip would be split between the bridal party. One...

My wedding is going to be bigger than I intended. I really don't want to see random people I didn't invite. Does anyone have any ideas how to word the invitation so that it goes specifically to the...

I’m 78 years old. I’m the oldest living male in the family. I have one niece that has two daughters. I was at the hospital when my sister delivered my niece, many years ago. When her first daughter...

Hello, I just received a quote from a caterer and I was a little shocked at the cost. After looking at the details, I found what was driving the price much higher than I anticipated is a line-item for...

One thing im anxious about at the wedding is the card box. Its just that I trust my close friends a family but i dont trust too well people i dont know as much. ( Guests someone might bring or some of...

Hey all! So, I have noticed that online RSVP's and text RSVP's are gaining popularity. I like the idea because a problem that many of my friends have had was people not returning the RSVP card. I...

We’re having a small weekday wedding at a family owned venue, they’re also catering. They have a venue coordinator (we also have a day-of planner). Our contact included gratuity for the wedding wait...

Not sure if anyone else has had a similar problem So my fiancé bought my engagement ring back in December; since then he's been getting charged about 3-4 times a month for payments instead of just...

My FH HATES dancing and being the center of attention. I LOVE dancing and fully intend to dance the night away (to fast and slow songs). FH will be doing a 1st dance, last dance and dance with his...

We had two wedding photographers from different photography groups. It was a total accident which we thought was going to be very happy and turned out not to be. Our original photographer was who we...

My husband and I have been married 10 years. We did a quick military wedding with no guests. I am from Georgia and we moved to Illinois with his family. I had done a 10 year renewal for his family but...

I have two nephews (10 and 5) and similarly aged "nieces." I'd like to include them all in my wedding. I was planning on my doggo being the ring bearer, but I'm sure my oldest nephew would love to do...

My sons future in laws are hosting and engagement party at their home. Is it protocol for the grooms parents to bring a small gift to the parents?