Bridal Shower gifts - little/no registry items

Typically if there are only a few items on the registry, it’s because the bride is hoping for cash gifts instead. You could give a monetary gift in a card, or purchase a gift card from the place she’s registered. Or you could just pick out a gift you think she’ll enjoy.

Just buy from a store or site where returns are easy. A shower is traditionally about opening physical presents. If the couple has no need for anything then I don’t know why they would accept a shower in the first place.


You can check out other online registries for ideas. Serveware is always a good bet and something you can use in multiples. I’ve given throw blankets, small appliances, table linens/placemats, bakeware, a cookbook library etc. Don’t overthink it.

Is the shower actually being hosted by your friend? If so, that’s unfortunate. If not, you could ask the host or hosts if they have any ideas. Sometimes a group goes in on a gift together.

Ask the couple to add more items on the bridal registry. Otherwise gift housewares from stores with good exchange or return policies. I recommend ornate serving bowls/ platters, glassware or barware, cast iron pans, any kitchen items you enjoy using yourself.

Ask the couple to add items they want to upgrade from existing things they own. A registry is a wish list of things that the couple needs and wants that they would not spend their own money on, including upgrades that everyone can use.
Some social circles do not give cash /honeymoon gifts for any reason and a shower is strictly for physical gifts. If the couple doesn’t add more items to the registry, guests will either decline the shower invites or show up with physical gifts that the couple doesn’t want and can’t return anywhere.

The registry doesn’t have to be limited to bedroom/kitchen items only, contrary to popular belief. They can and should be related to shared interests as well. Does the couple host game nights or host bbqs? Do they enjoy sports or outdoors? What hobbies do they share?

Even purchased registry gifts can give you a good idea of their style and taste. One gift I like to give is a nice cookbook along with some accoutrements for cooking from it — a wok for a Chinese cookbook, baking sheets for cookies, etc. Some gift cards at local restaurants for date nights is also fun.