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Help! Okay so there are two best friends I want to each be my MOH. We have been friends since we were 4 (we are all now 23 and 24). We were the trio of the neighborhood, we did everything together. I...
Hey all! I could use some advice, words of encouragement, and success stories from other anxious brides and grooms... I have panic attacks- I have since I was 14. For the most part they are quite...
My dad has Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease. Lately, his shaking and memory have gotten worse. His hands can not stop shaking and he limps when he walks (he refuses to use a cane). Sometimes he...
So me and the FH are in a discussion! Most all of his groomsmen are either in relationships or are married with kids. Now me my BMs and FH along with his GM will be at the venue early since we have to...
So weve sent our invitations out and are slowly getting rsvps back from everyone. Last night we ran into an issue we weren't expecting. Context, we only gave unnamed plus ones to the guests who we...
My dad was a pretty distant parent emotionally and I really don't like the idea of him walking me down the aisle. I am inviting him to the wedding, though. Do brides ever walk alone?
So I'm getting married on my grandparent's farm in the middle of nowhere. They have to use a septic tank because the city doesn't have plumbing out that far. Does anybody think it would be gross/tacky...
Hi there I've never posted on a board before, I'm really not sure what to do. Please be gracious with me, I hope asking something like this isn't offensive. Looking for general advice/help I’m 24...
My husband and I got married over a week ago and I really need to vent about how our flowers turned out. We hired a preferred vendor who is absolutely amazing. He was one of the sweetest vendors, has...
I am not sure if I put this under the right topic but advice please? Has anyone ever had a wedding reception without a formal DJ or band??? What did you do for yours? How did it go? Sadly we did have...
Now the wedding went as planned and things are okay, but this sticks in my mind. Am I overreacting at being incredibly hurt and angry that the night before our wedding he was at a strip club with...
Is it normal to be given a complimentary photoshoot with the expectation of money for any / all photos back? I expected prints would cost money but being invited over to a photographers studios I felt...
What’s your opinion on the bouquet and garter removal/tosses? Tacky or traditional? We’re on the fence!
We’re getting married in September 2026, we’ve been engaged over a year. In the last two months two cousins have also gotten engaged. Is there a classy way to say “don’t get married on the same day”?...
Did anyone skip a guest book (or item to sign, wishing tree, wishing well, etc. etc.)? FH and I were trying to come up with something other than a book when he asked me if we even need anything like...
We got married 1.5 weeks ago and upon returning from our honeymoon this past Saturday, we were SO EXCITED to go through our guestbook, but of the 47 guests that ended up attending, only about 20...
Hi, Am I supposed to not wear my engagement ring on my wedding day? My mom tells me I'm supposed to leave my engagement ring at home and only wear my band on the wedding day. However, I was thinking I...
My fiancé and I are moving across the country shortly after the wedding is over. Because of this, we're not doing a wedding registry and would prefer monetary gifts or even just cards. I was hoping to...
I’m 30 years old and getting married. My mom passed when I was young, then my sister when I was 20, and dad. My fiancé feels bad for doing a mother son dance without doing something for me and my dad....