Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I’m in a weird situation and need advice. My brother got married recently and I remember his wife (my sister in law) sitting at my aunts house digitizing our family’s addresses for her invitations. My...

I have a dear friend, who attended my wedding and has always been a light in my life. She is the kind of person who cooks you a birthday dinner when an injury in your family causes your birthday to...

My wedding is in Mexico in early April at a resort. I did a destination wedding bc my father is undocumented and I wanted my family to be together on my wedding day. At the time of planning this, I...

Hi community.. I'm going through a nightmare with my name change here in FL. My husband is Puerto Rican where it is standard to be given both your mother and father's family name. When I showed my...

I've been doing research for months on what seasons I would prefer, colors, etc but I know one tricky thing will be the guest list. My main choices would only consist of my parents, grandparents, and...

I do not get along with FH's godmother (she is not family, she is one of his mom's good friends.) To make a long story short, after we had been dating for about a year she did some not so nice things...

I'm a huge Tim burton fan and the first time I saw The Corpse Bride I fell in love with the vows. My question is has anyone done them or seen them done and how were they worked into the ceremony? I...

Having a destination wedding in Mexico. Can't decide what to give my guests. Also my travel agent said to spead it out in several luggages,so that customs don't question it(resell items). Advice...

I was just invited to a post-wedding brunch, but was not actually invited to the wedding. I was told that they did not have room to invite the entire extended family. My question is - am I expected to...

So a bit of a back story, my FH and I have been together since high school. I grew up closely with a family in our neighborhood and became best friends with the daughter my age all throughout...

We’re getting married on the beach in NC. We’re going to rent a house for the week of the wedding that sleeps up to 55 people, we’ll have 130 guests at the wedding so we figured we’d offer space in...

I want both my dad and my stepdad to walk me down the aisle. I told my dad this and he has a huge issue with it. I met my stepdad when I was 8 (I’m 35 now) so he’s been a huge part of my life. He has...

Do I pay for my Flower Girls dress and shoes or do her parents pay? Both of her parents are also in the wedding so I'm guessing it's only fair that I should pay? What are your thoughts?

We’ll be shopping for invitations soon and how we’ll word them has been haunting me! When we first began planning our wedding, we budgeted for a wedding we knew we’d feel comfortable paying for. My...

Hi. So I’m attending a wedding in January and the dress code is White Cocktail Party. I’ve been hearing different types of dresses for this party. I just want to make sure I’m wearing the correct...

What is proper rehearsal dinner dress code etiquette? What does the bride wear and what do guests wear? I have only been to my brother's wedding last year but I didnt really pay attention but I wore a...

My daughter is getting married and wants a small wedding. We have two freed to give her $20k to help with the wedding. My mother died earlier this year and has 8 siblings. She knows some of...

My husband and I got married in 2020 at the courthouse. We had both been divorced and we're slightly older and wanted to try for kids. We didn't know how long covid would be a thing so we just decided...

Hi- So I need help on how to approach a situation with my wedding photographer. We got married 9/18/2021 & she told us 6-9 weeks for our photos to get back to us, the contract says 9 weeks. Her...

Long story ahead. This person is a very sweet gal. But I asked her because she's a new friend and she's the gf of my fiance's long time friend. We get along very well and have a lot in common. But I...