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Manners matter! From addessing envelopes to wedding dress codes, we'll help you navigate wedding etiquette questions so you are ready to handle every situation with grace.

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Invites + Pre-nup
Erika, on January 17, 2020 at 10:12 AM

So a few months ago my fiance and his father got into an argument surrounding a pre-nup. His dad wants us to have one and we are both adamantly against it. This has resulted in them not talking since...

Cassandra7, Jan 18, 2020 16 226
Bestman dilemma
Erica, on January 17, 2020 at 10:21 AM

Hello lovelies! So My future husband and I have a slight dilemma. My grooms best man is a serial dater (not the problem). But when we sent the save the date he was dating a girl whom he had been with...

Kari, Jan 18, 2020 26 455
Destination Wedding Bridal Party Gifts
Rachel, on January 16, 2020 at 8:32 PM

We're doing a destination wedding in Riviera Maya Mexico. I'm trying to get an idea of what kind of gifts to get my bridesmaids and his groomsmen. Also what kind of price range should I be looking at?...

Perla, Jan 18, 2020 3 42
Out of town kids
Brea, on February 15, 2017 at 1:03 PM

So I want my cousin and his wife to come to the wedding. They have two boys under 6 years. Do I invite the kiddos? I don't want a ton of kids at the wedding but I also don't want them to not be able...

Carly, Jan 18, 2020 17 1,060
Groomsman hair
Brianna, on January 17, 2020 at 2:39 PM

Hey everyone, I need some advice. One of my FH's groomsmen is... well known for making poor choices. He often says things that are inappropriate for the situation or just makes bad judgement calls in...

Mandee, Jan 18, 2020 12 1 200
Photography Digital Release
Leanna, on January 17, 2020 at 2:13 PM

Hi Everyone, Trying to finalize the contract with our wedding photographer and wondering if digital release is a common issue amongst photographers now a days. We found a photographer that we really...

Taylor, Jan 18, 2020 10 127
Reception Only Save the Dates
Danielle, on January 17, 2020 at 1:13 PM

I'm having a completely private ceremony with a reception for everyone immediately following. How do I let my guests know on the save the dates and invitations?

Leslie, Jan 17, 2020 3 73
Wedding Website "Our Story" Help
Katie, on April 6, 2016 at 10:00 AM

I am really struggling on how to write "Our Story" on our website. Perhaps some of you could give me some insight on how to word everything? Our story is kinda weird because we officially met 3 years...

Antonia, Jan 17, 2020 33 1 35,830
Suing your photographer?
Tia, on January 16, 2020 at 10:25 AM

Looking for advice cause honestly I am at a complete loss.. long post ahead: I got married on 10/27/19. The photographer we hired was a local person here in VA whom I shared mutual friends with. She...

Samantha, Jan 17, 2020 20 2 522
I’ve asked my friends to be bridesmaids... now what?
Rachel, on January 16, 2020 at 4:22 PM

This might sound like a silly question but I don’t ever see many articles or anything about this. I am asking my friends to be bridesmaids this weekend, but I have realized I don’t really know what to...

Brittany, Jan 17, 2020 8 182
Groom's parents checked out venue without us
Christina, on January 12, 2020 at 11:18 PM

Hey all. So we have looked at two venues. Today my fiancee's parents went to look at venue for like two hours and make some deals to cut costs and then asked for some later wedding dates. I feel they...

Brittany, Jan 17, 2020 34 550
Are save the dates necessary?
Courtney, on January 17, 2020 at 1:35 PM

So I know save the dates are this new thing people have started doing, but wanted to know if they’re really necessary? We have kinda a short engagement about (8 months). We got engaged November 22,...

Courtney, Jan 17, 2020 8 108
In Law help..
Hannah, on January 13, 2020 at 9:18 AM

Hello, My Fiance and I are getting married in late May this year. We are very happy and have a wonderful life together but there is one thing that looms over us like a dark storm cloud and that would...

Kari, Jan 17, 2020 9 1 243
Jenifer, on January 16, 2020 at 8:27 PM

I recently found out that one of my bridesmaids is due one week after my wedding. She says she is going to try to make it but I have my doubts. Should I try to find a back up bridesmaids just in case...

Julie, Jan 17, 2020 12 176
Who is supposed to throw your bachelorette and bridal shower?
AshelyJ., on March 13, 2017 at 3:35 PM

I thought the MOH was supposed to do both? Or do you throw your own? My sister is my MOH, but her idea of a fun bridal shower and bachelorette party isn't the same as mine. So how does it work? Thank...

Diane, Jan 17, 2020 24 3,053
Etiquette for mine and my friends wedding...
Elle, on January 16, 2020 at 12:52 PM

Ok so I’m having a destination wedding in Europe. My family wants to throw a bridal shower for me but I’m on the fence in regards to letting them do one for me (my friend spilled the beans) since...

Sare, Jan 17, 2020 8 137
Premarital Counseling
Chelsea, on January 17, 2020 at 4:05 AM

FH and I will be doing online premarital counseling. Has anybody tried that? If so, how was it and what website did you use?

Sherry, Jan 17, 2020 8 106
Do mob and mog get ready with bride day of?
Erin, on July 5, 2019 at 3:45 PM

What is the norm these days for the mother of the bride and mother of the groom when it comes to getting ready on the day of? Do they typically join the bride and wedding party for hair, makeup, and...

Laura, Jan 17, 2020 17 279
Intimate Destination Wedding Wording
Meagan, on January 16, 2020 at 5:15 PM

Hello all! My fiancé and I are planning what’s basically an intimate destination wedding. We’re flying to California and will mostly likely only take our parents. I have a ton of family and while I...

Cassandra7, Jan 17, 2020 5 78
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Need help with your hashtag? -- sorry guys, i'm tapped out! But feel free to keep helping each other!
Jenn B, on July 1, 2015 at 11:22 AM

As promised- here's a thread for those of you who need help with your IG hashtags. There are way too many creative ladies in here for you to have something boring! Post your first and last names......

Ashley, Jan 17, 2020 332 8,030
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