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Future Mrs. R
Have you experienced jealousy since you are getting married?
Future Mrs. R, on May 3, 2014 at 2:02 PM

I have a friendship that has been rocky for years now. She was my BFF in high school and now we have been friends for about 10 years now. She started acting funny towards me and my FH once we started...

Wendy, Mar 5, 2024 15 1,690
Jenny
Alternative names for "maid of honor" and "bridesmaids"
Jenny, on June 3, 2011 at 2:40 PM

I have my bridal party all picked out and it includes 2 "maid of honors" and 5 "bridesmaids" ; however, I don't care for the terms maid of honor or bridesmaid because to me it sounds/seems somewhat...

Dana, Mar 4, 2024 21 44,299
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I was invited to the Bridal Shower, but not the Wedding?
Mal, on February 10, 2015 at 3:07 PM

The bride is my coworker and I work directly with her every day. The shower is being hosted by an outside party [groom's family] and there are several employees that have received invitations to the...

Lori, Mar 4, 2024 22 36,371
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2 wedding in 2 different countries?? Advice appreciated!!
Larissa, on February 13, 2014 at 11:16 AM

Hello! Here's my saga: I'm Brazilian living in the US for 7 years now and my fiancé is American. My whole family is still in Brazil, so I'm definitely having a wedding there. I'm going there for Xmas...

Keysha, Mar 4, 2024 14 9,484 2
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Tipping the seamstress?
Linda, on February 28, 2024 at 11:33 PM

My final payment is due tomorrow online. There is a section that adds tipping option. Did you ladies tip? I've never heard of tipping seamstress. My dress alterations was $300 total. Which...

Pat, Mar 3, 2024 5 105
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Ceremony order????
Briella, on February 15, 2017 at 3:05 AM

Does my order seem ok? I wanted to say our own vows and do the typical I do question so this is how I have it right now. Not asking officiant because he is traditional, but will do the ceremony...

Jerrica, Mar 3, 2024 9 15,649 1
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How to remind my manager of a wedding gift he promised?
Sarah, on October 1, 2020 at 9:00 AM

I have a friendly as well as professional relationship with my boss and my manager. My manager came to my wedding, while my boss did not because he was older and we are living in covid times. Before...

Afzan, Feb 28, 2024 31 1,400
Mrs. Johnson
Wedding Etiquette...?
Mrs. Johnson, on February 25, 2024 at 5:23 PM

I had no idea how in depth wedding etiquette goes. It really is on another level then what you think when you first start the process. Where did you learn your wedding etiquette? Is tradition more...

CM, Feb 26, 2024 17 250
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Gifts/Eloping
Lisa, on August 4, 2017 at 6:28 PM

My future wife and I are eloping in Orlando, FL. No family, just the two of us. We will only be sending announcements to our family and close friends. We're not planning on having a reception. Is it...

Jennifer, Feb 25, 2024 26 1,042
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Uninviting my fh cousin…
Bianca, on February 19, 2024 at 5:15 PM

I need some advice re an unwanted wedding guest. This person is my partners cousin. Growing up, they were always close. However not as close anymore. My partner and I welcomed our first child last...

Brenda, Feb 24, 2024 13 221
Victoria
No one has even looked at my registry?
Victoria, on August 8, 2019 at 11:02 AM

I am exactly two months out from my wedding. I have posted my registry info on our FB group, it’s easily accessible through our wedding website, sent out with our invites/save the dates. No no one has...

Taylor, Feb 23, 2024 21 1,371
Christina
Family picked adult menu option for child - how to handle?
Christina, on February 14, 2024 at 10:31 PM

We recently got an RSVP back from someone that has a child (9-yrs old) but for the menu choice, they did not pick what was labeled as the kids' option but picked something from the adults' menu. There...

Michelle, Feb 23, 2024 19 531
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Plus one issue/helllp lol.
LS, on February 6, 2024 at 3:36 PM

Hi all, I am having some issues with plus ones with our non traditional wedding. My fiance and I decided to plan a micro wedding, originally was supposed to be incredibly small, and only the most...

Michelle, Feb 22, 2024 8 229
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Sunday weddings??
Robin, on January 26, 2017 at 10:34 AM

Ok i have been looking at venues; I find one that is going to work and we start talking about setting it up. I tell her it's next year, (2018) she says ok let's get u in the computer.. then she looks...

Jessica, Feb 22, 2024 61 16,138 1
Julia
Friends Theme Song in Wedding Processional
Julia, on February 20, 2024 at 10:58 AM

Hello! I love the Friends theme song and thought it would be cute and fun for my bridesmaids to walk down the aisle too. However, my sister suggested that it might take away from the seriousness of...

Cece, Feb 21, 2024 2 66
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Need Advice: Two “weddings” in one weekend?
Kayla, on February 18, 2024 at 1:38 AM

Hi! I’m currently deciding what the heck to do for our wedding because we want to stick to our budget but our guest list is so big and we can’t easily narrow it down (can’t invite one aunt and not...

Kayla, Feb 21, 2024 8 155
SSJKarigan
Anxiety for Weeks - Wedding Stage Fright
SSJKarigan, on August 7, 2017 at 10:00 AM

A little bit of stress and anxiety is expected when getting this close to one's wedding. But I feel like something very wrong is going on with me and I can't shake it. My heart feels like it's...

Kelsey, Feb 20, 2024 14 963
krystle d
Is anyone else just...exhausted...?
krystle d, on July 26, 2012 at 11:33 AM

Besides the fact that I wake up at 5 am everyday for work, is anyone else just drained or exhausted from wedding planning? I think ever since the 2 month mark hit I’ve just been non-stop with this...

Alison, Feb 19, 2024 22 1,410
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Early rsvp
Heidi, on February 16, 2024 at 4:09 PM

My fiance and I will be moving across the country and very far from our venue soon. Our wedding is in October of this year, and we just sent out invites, and are asking that guests RSVP by early...

Janet, Feb 19, 2024 11 249 1
Shannon
Changing Maid of Honour
Shannon, on February 7, 2024 at 4:26 PM

I asked my best friend to be maid of honour, and now I am second guessing my decision. Would it be too rude to ask her to be bridesmaid instead? My sister has been helping me alot lately, and she made...

Daisy, Feb 19, 2024 10 156
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