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zzrawlins
Just Said Yes September 2007

Anniversary gifts

zzrawlins, on April 19, 2007 at 1:45 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 2 7

I don't know of any modern couples that follow the traditional anniversary gift model (waiting until your 50th for gold). What to give a spouse after one year, or only a few years? If you go overboard the first year is it okay to scale back?

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Latest activity by Prateeksha, on June 21, 2024 at 2:57 PM
  • Neal Jacob
    Neal Jacob ·
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    On our 1st Anniversary, I gave my wife a "Precious Moments" figurine holding a plate that said "1 Year" on the front of it. She has it on display in our "wedding showcase"

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  • Zeina
    Beginner October 2004
    Zeina ·
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    For great gift ideas you should go to redenvelope.com they have a lot of cute things with wide range of prices.

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  • Elviebird
    Dedicated May 2007
    Elviebird ·
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    I think it's more about the thought behind the gift than the price. There is so much you can do for your first year anniversary since it's "paper". I've heard of people giving tickets, writing a poem on paper, or getting a favorite book.

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  • Patti Wang Cross
    Savvy July 2006
    Patti Wang Cross ·
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    My first wedding anniversary is right around the corner, so this has definitely been on my brain! Gift-giving has really changed for me since we got married. When we were dating, I was an extravagant gift-giver, to be honest. I spent hundreds of dollars on a birthday, or Valentines, etc. But now that we share our finances, it doesn't seem to make as much sense to spend so much money! So, I'm trying to think of a gift that's personal and heartfelt without being expensive. I do think it'd be neat to do something "paper," since this is our first. I might write him something (I'm a writer), or perhaps paint something for him, but I'm really unsure.

    As far as scaling back, I just sat down with my husband and had a frank discussion. Honestly, he's not an extravagant person like I am, so I just asked him, "Look. My money is now your money. Would you prefer that I kept getting you gifts on the scale that I used to, or would you like to set a budget for gifts?" He, opted for a budget. Smiley smile

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  • Tara  Scott
    Tara Scott ·
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    Good Morning. My name is Tara Scott. I'm a wedding artist located in Waldorf, MD. My speciality is hand-drawn wedding, engagement, and honeymoon portraits. Giving your spouse a personalize portrait will be something he will remember for years. I am listed on Wedding Wire, under Unique Services. The name of my company is called "Your Elegant Portrait". Have a great day.

    Tara Scott

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  • J
    Just Said Yes January 2007
    Jennifer ·
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    Our first anniversary was a few weeks ago, and my husband bought me a book, it's so beutiful. It's called the book of us. It's a journal like book that asks questions on before you got together, first year and it even saves some questions that you can fill out when your marriage matures Smiley laugh

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  • Erin Metheny
    Erin Metheny ·
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    I love Jennifer R.'s post. I love when couples keep a journal about growing together or even a love letter journal that you write to each other throughout your marriage. What a great way to connect and stay close!

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