I have pretty bad social anxiety, so a lot of the elements of the wedding will be stressful for me. One of the things that helps with my anxiety is knowing what to expect/having a plan for what to do beforehand. With that being said, hopefully some of you can help me out with some of these questions:
1. What did you do with your hands during the ceremony? I was thinking of holding my fiance's hands the whole time - would that be weird?
2. What do I do with my engagement ring during the ceremony? Put it on other hand? Once the wedding ring is on do you move the engagement ring back immediately or after you've left the altar area?
3. What do you do with your bouquet during cocktail hour? If I recall correctly, I think a lot of brides hold their bouquets when they are announced into the ballroom after cocktail hour (is this accurate?), but what do they do with it in the meantime? Hold it the whole time? Put it down somewhere?
4. What did you do when you and partner entered the reception/were introduced for the first time? I'm thinking just walk in holding hands, maybe wave and then hand my bouquet to maid of honor?
5. For the first dance, as the bride which hand is supposed to go on my husband's shoulder and which one holds his hand? For me it seems more natural to put my right hand on his shoulder but in all the videos I've seen the bride's left hand goes on the groom's shoulder.
I'm sure there are more things I'm forgetting, so if there were any scenarios that made any of you nervous, or tips you have for different parts of the wedding, please feel free to share!
These questions may sound silly to someone who doesn't understand social anxiety, so please bear with me!