Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I know this is a hairy topic but I'm curious if anyone has set an open bar max for their event. All of the guests attending (with a few exceptions) are huge drinkers. I'm a little afraid of running up...

I don't think our wedding party is interested in an entrance. I don't care either way. Is it necessary?

My fiancé and I plan to have a destination wedding on the coast of Carolina. We don't have many friends or family to invite (50 tops) and probably only half will show up. I was leaning towards a...

One of my bridesmaides asked if she could bring her "kind of boyfriend" to the rehearsal dinner. I told her that none of the WP is bringing their sig.o unless they're married, and that it was because...

On save the dates do you need to include plus ones? We have several guests who have just recently started dating someone new or have been in relationships for less than a year.. is it necessary to...

FH cousin is getting married in June. As soon as she was engaged, she made a Facebook group and invited a bunch of people to the wedding. Now she just posted, "I need to know for sure who is coming so...

We are getting married in April, it is an outdoor venue, with cabins, hay, ect. I have the mason jars for the drinks, would it be tacky to use paper plates for the meal, they are a great quality of...

Hi! I ran out of jewelry cleaner for my engagement ring and I cannot find it anywhere online! Our jeweler had given it to us with the ring... any recommendations on which ring cleaner to purchase?!...

Ladies, I see this often online. People love those websites like MisstoMrs or Hitchswitch that help you change your name. Those websites are useless, but aren't an outright scam. However---a lot of...

Hi! I'm brand new to the forums and was looking for some etiquette advice. My fiancé and I are paying for our wedding ourselves, so we are trying to keep the guest list to only those with whom we are...

Are they seen as tacky at a wedding in addition to a cake? Personally, I am a fan as using cupcakes allows for a wide variety of flavors. I also think they're cute. I would be ordering them from a...

My cousin-in-law sells Pampered Chef and offered to host one of those virtual parties as a sort of shower for me. I've never participated in one and therefore know nothing at all about how they work....

Hey everyone! What is your take on food tasting? From my understanding a food tasting will help you decide if you would like to book a venue. There's a specific venue that I have heard nothing but...

Spent 2mos deliberating w/ hubby's family, before having our wedding at a date & location we didn't want, to accommodate them. On xmas eve sister-in-law informed us she'll be holding her wedding on my...

What is everyone doing for the drink ware? I was doing engraved stemless wine glasses but everyone on here seems to be against it because they would also be favors for guests. Although I would have...

Hey guys, working on finalizing the guest list. We have a couple of family friends that I would definitely like to invite the parents of, they are close friends of my parents and I've known them...

My fiancé and I are having a small wedding (max of 30 people) with a $5000 budget. We would like to stick to this. All of our family would be from out of town. Is there a way to let them know...

I currently live in Seattle and my MOH is talking about planning a bridal shower for me back in my hometown in Kansas City, MO. I'm only involved in the planning because it is out of state and I have...

So, I realize this is more of a legal question than anything, but I've run into an issue with the event rental company we're going through. We've had an estimate written up months ago based on a...