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Raven
How much am I supposed to tip the baker in this situation...?
Raven, on December 12, 2016 at 2:43 PM

How much tip is appropriate if the total bill is $928.90? The bakery is owned and operated by a mother & daughter duo. They are the only two employees, and they will both be delivering and...

RealLifeBride, Dec 12, 2016 31 11,174
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Should I un-ask her to be my bridesmaid?
Amanda&Ilir, on December 9, 2016 at 9:31 PM

Hi, I'm looking for some helpful advice on a delicate situation. Recently my brother and his girlfriend of several years broke up. We had been friends before they began dating. Not close, but friendly...

Cara, Dec 12, 2016 20 842
MrsMcPherson
Bridal Shower Name Alternative - Looking for creativity
MrsMcPherson, on December 12, 2016 at 11:58 AM

Throwing my sister a Monograms & Mimosas party, but we are going to have to substitute the mimosas for something else. Most of the guests and all of her new family are all very anti-alcohol - so out...

Danielle, Dec 12, 2016 9 4,252
K
Gift registry even if your just renewing your vows
Kayte, on December 1, 2016 at 7:58 AM

Ive been married for almost 15 years but didn't get the wedding ive always dreamed of. We are renewing our vows on the 5th of Jan 2017 for our 15th wedding anniversary, but ive been told that I cant...

Celia Milton, Dec 12, 2016 45 1,200
ChrisTina
Rehearsal
ChrisTina, on December 11, 2016 at 3:01 AM

Was told today that the bride should have a stand in for the rehearsal. Some old wives take that I have never heard of. Yay or nay???

ChrisTina, Dec 12, 2016 29 306
R
Registry for Courthouse Wedding?
Rachael, on December 11, 2016 at 12:57 PM

Genuinely interested in some opinions on this: FH and I recently scrapped our plans to have a big wedding and instead we're going to the courthouse with 10-15 of our closest friends and family....

Erin Wood, Dec 12, 2016 24 3,284
Miami2NorthernVA
Is your invitation start time your ceremony start time?
Miami2NorthernVA, on November 17, 2016 at 5:23 PM

I attended a wedding last weekend and the invitation stated the ceremony was at 4:30pm. Most guests arrived at around 4. The ceremony did not start until 5:30. It was my understanding that it was...

andreahelferphotogra, Dec 11, 2016 75 3,661
2ndTime
Guests Paying for Engagement Party
2ndTime, on December 9, 2016 at 1:43 AM

No question here, just... ick. This came out of a conversation about a kids' birthday party invite that required guests to pay $25 to attend. What are people thinking? Ugh.

Linda, Dec 10, 2016 38 463
M
Simple small wedding.. DJ?
Miranda, on December 10, 2016 at 2:40 PM

I am having a very small (40 people) and simple wedding without dancing. We will do our first dance and I will dance with my dad but that was the only dancing I am planning on having. A family friend...

Crescent1874, Dec 10, 2016 9 146
Futurebarber214
Weekend wedding vs weekday wedding?
Futurebarber214, on December 9, 2016 at 2:30 PM

So we r thinking of having a weekday wedding. Is that a bad idea? Opinions? Thoughts?

TimeLadyErika, Dec 9, 2016 21 926
MeganM
Bridesmaid Responsibilities
MeganM, on December 9, 2016 at 11:01 AM

So I have seen posts on here a few times that bridesmaids responsibilities are simply to buy a dress and show up. On some level I definitely agree with that. At the same time, I guess I wonder what...

VC, Dec 9, 2016 32 256
Holly
When to send save the date, invites, bridal shower...
Holly, on December 7, 2016 at 9:55 PM

So I'll be sending save the dates in a week or so (photos took a little longer to come back). I know invites are sent around two months prior since ours isn't a destination wedding or anything, so I'm...

GymRat, Dec 8, 2016 9 4,321
ShortStack
How long to wait between RSVP date and calling people?
ShortStack, on December 8, 2016 at 12:54 PM

I know I've seen a lot on here about calling people who haven't RSVP'd, but I am curious how to long wait after the RSVP date to call? I noticed today on the checklist for WW it had a date listed to...

S&P, Dec 8, 2016 9 1,569
Brittny
Champagne or wine? For toasting
Brittny, on December 7, 2016 at 12:05 PM

Not sure what to toast with for the reception. Is it typical to do a champagne toast? Or can it be wine since many of my family members prefer wine? I was also thinking of having sparkling grape juice...

GymRat, Dec 8, 2016 22 3,692
Monica
Dad & Step Dad - Father Daughter Dance & Give away?!?!
Monica, on December 7, 2016 at 10:07 PM

I know I can't be the only one with this dilemma! My parents divorced almost 20 years ago when I was 13. My Mom remarried a great man, who was really more of a father figure than my own Dad. My Dad &...

Brittany, Dec 8, 2016 11 199
Penguinlove
Gifts for those who helped with the wedding
Penguinlove, on December 6, 2016 at 9:42 AM

I am having a difficult time thinking of gifts for the people who helped put my wedding together. I wanted to see what other people have done for similar gift giving. One friend helped me do literally...

herecometheclarks, Dec 6, 2016 7 3,638
Laura
Winter engagement locations in CT?
Laura, on December 4, 2016 at 8:03 PM

Does anyone have an ideas for a January engagement session in CT? Preferable near the Hartford area? Indoor or outdoors, either is fine! Thanks!

Catherine, Dec 6, 2016 14 436
R
Reader-- honor or consolation prize?
Rachel, on December 6, 2016 at 3:37 PM

Hey all! My wedding party is comprised of my siblings and friends who I have known since childhood. I have other close friends who I wanted to include, but if I included everyone I felt close to, it...

OriginalKD, Dec 6, 2016 13 1,007
SaraGdwn
How Much Time Do You Give Guests To RSVP?
SaraGdwn, on December 5, 2016 at 10:29 AM

Good morning all, I am getting married September 1, 2017. My finance and I are located in South Florida, but are having family and friends coming from opposite ends of the country (WI, NV, MO, IL, MA,...

SaraGdwn, Dec 6, 2016 26 5,317
Tianna
Negotiate venue price?
Tianna, on December 5, 2016 at 2:59 PM

Hello, my fiance and I recently found a venue that we love so much. We had a second showing with our families and they loved it too! Would it create bad juju between us and the owners if we tried...

Pickles, Dec 6, 2016 25 5,743 2
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