So I know my mom is upset that she doesn't get to plan our wedding herself (in her day, moms did the whole thing and it was more a party for the parents) so she's going to do a bridal shower for me.
She asked me to send her a list of people I wanted to come. I sent her a list of 14 people (our wedding is only 100) and said she could add her own people too. She responded by saying that is a list for a "bridal luncheon," not a "bridal shower." I thought a bridal luncheon was only bridesmaids (5 people). But according to her, all of her friends, my fiancé's friends wives (most of whom I've only met a few times), and extended family are expected to come to the bridal shower.
Honestly I'll invite whoever she wants to make her happy, but all I see are "bridesmaids luncheons" not "bridal luncheons." Is a bridal luncheon a thing? Do all of the female wedding attendees come to a bridal shower or just main people?