Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

We are having a small church Ceremony (16 people) with a private dinner after at Eddie V’s. Should I wear my wedding gown? Or change into something less formal? My original thought was to change into...

My fiancé and I are looking to combine our save the dates with our Christmas cards this year. I don't want a holiday-themed save the date, so I'm wondering- is it weird to send Christmas cards with...

So my fiancé doesn't want to do a 1st dance nor is BM giving speech. Both very shy. Wedding is only 30 people family only. And we only have a steel pan guy. Is it going to seem bad to no have these...

Hi, I got married a few weeks ago and just wanted to get some advice on photos. The wedding was amazing, I couldn’t have asked for a better day and the photos are great. However, my photographer has...

Honest question. Somebody asked me when I was having my bridal shower, and I hadn't really thought about it. I made a registry because TK told me to on my wedding checklist, but honestly I forgot...

Should I send save the date cards first or just the formal invitations? and how soon should I ask for an RSVP?

I thought this was how everyone did it until I read in a couple of wedding guides that it's not done, and that registry info must be passed by word of mouth? My guests are scattered all over the...

What are the pro/cons on Sunday weddings ? FH and I was just sitting here going over the budget. We just noticed we are going over alot becausee of the venue. But I just noticed if we change the...

I just got a phone call from a woman named Sherry telling me that my name had been drawn as a winner of a package from Dinner for Two after attending a wedding show in November. The package includes...

What exactly does is mean to say a marriage license is valid for 30 days? Does that mean we can't get it before 30 days before our wedding? Also, will I need to do all the legal process of changing my...

Hey guys! So I have a bit of an issue. No matter how I look at it, my wedding will be a destination wedding for SOMEONE. I was born in NY and my fiance in FL, where I currently live. Most of my family...

Hey Everyone! My fiancee is tired of me stressing over this so I've opted to get an outside opinion. My fiancee's twin brother is getting married a year before we are. I'm a bridesmaid in their...

I fell in love with an invitation I found in a Google search. Well it turns out its from Etsy. The person seems professional and has another website devoted to making these invitations. I guess I'm...

What is the proper way of going about a brides/grooms gift on the morning of the wedding? I'd like to do a gift exchange with my soon-to-be husband the morning of our wedding, and I have some ideas,...

This is long and a bit tricky, so bear with me. We're keeping our wedding small, preferable no more than 60. My parents are divorced. My dad has 3 siblings, and one surviving parent. I'm inviting them...

So my officiant at my wedding was drunk is it still valid? Groom and bride were not drunk?

This may seem like a dumb question, but I don’t want to get accused of cultural appropriation, because that is certainly not my intent. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m not Hispanic, and neither is my fiancé. I also...

First, let me preface this and say that FH and I have discussed premarital counseling, and will hopefully be setting it up soon. I also go to therapy myself, so that's taken care of. But I wanted to...

What do you think the etiquette is on inviting my brother's mother & father-in-law? They are not super tight with my family and personally I feel like my sister-in-law's mother does not like me, I...