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Reception Only Guests
littleangel77007, on October 27, 2015 at 3:03 PM

Due to space and budget limitations, we are planning to have a small ceremony with family only, but then invite all our friends to the reception. Should we send out Save-The-Date cards to the...

Dawn, Jan 4, 2020 14 2,542 1
Jameena
Tiered wedding or reception
Jameena, on July 25, 2017 at 6:30 PM

Can someone explain this to me? I'm pretty sure I'm having this for my wedding but I'm not sure. Is this when you invite some guests to your wedding and others to your reception? I always see that...

Destiny, Jan 4, 2020 43 845
SnappyLove2015
Advice Needed - Bridesmaid Replacement
SnappyLove2015, on October 23, 2014 at 5:17 PM

Okay so this weekend I had a huge falling out with a friend/bridesmaid. And like many of you others I never saw it coming or could ever imagine it happening. There's a lot more detail to the drama but...

Lauren, Jan 4, 2020 28 2,633
Cyndi
Is it rude to require at least black tie?
Cyndi, on January 3, 2020 at 11:24 AM

Hello, I have always dreamed of having a white tie wedding. FH and I met at a ballroom dance class and actually do dance to classical music. FH and the groomsmen will be in black tuxedos with...

Meaghan, Jan 3, 2020 20 3,493
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Bridesmaid’s new boyfriend at wedding
Cecilia, on January 2, 2020 at 6:27 AM

My bridesmaid has asked to bring her new boyfriend to my wedding in September. She lives abroad and has been seeing the guy for a few weeks. Since living abroad (last summer) she’s had three...

Cecilia, Jan 3, 2020 13 1,088
April
Inviting more after rsvp deadline
April, on December 29, 2019 at 9:45 AM

My rsvp deadline is on Friday. The wedding is one month away. We invited roughly 50 people and most have responded but we've gotten about 10 declines and I'm expecting a few more declines. Since it...

Jocelyn, Jan 3, 2020 21 6,169
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Late Night Wedding Venues?
Leannaq, on September 4, 2018 at 2:18 PM

My fiancé is from Europe and European weddings typically rage on, all night long and into the wee hours of the morning. We want a place that's romantic and elegant and beautiful, but where we wouldn't...

Ruth, Jan 2, 2020 11 2,735
MrsJackson
bm can't afford to be in wedding
MrsJackson, on December 31, 2019 at 11:52 AM

So my best friend and I are both BMs in our friend's wedding. My best friend told me that she won't be able to afford being in the wedding or to travel since it's out of state. I told her that she...

MrsD, Jan 2, 2020 21 2,096 1
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Wedding Party Descriptions
Mallory, on December 31, 2019 at 4:43 PM

So I'm making our wedding website on Zola. Theres a page for the wedding party where the guests could meet the party. I gave my MOH and BM the option to write their own paragraph or I could do it for...

MrsD, Jan 2, 2020 9 5,336
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Addressing Envelopes in Spanish?
Lauryn, on January 2, 2017 at 5:45 PM

I'm working on getting the outer and inner envelopes addressed properly. There are plenty of resources for how to do it in English, but we have a translated invitations going to Spanish speaking...

Jaina, Jan 2, 2020 9 11,569
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Inviting Cousin gf
Bleep, on September 14, 2018 at 9:58 AM

My cousin (in college) was invited to my wedding along with his parents (all from out of state). We didn't invite his girlfriend (of about a year and a bit), who we've never met. We were asked then,...

Patty, Jan 1, 2020 48 1,785
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Fiance pushed the wedding date back.
Kat, on December 31, 2019 at 12:46 AM

I think I need a new perspective as I'm a little heart broken. My fiance and I got engaged in October, we had discussed and set our wedding date for May 30th of the upcoming year. Recently we got into...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Jan 1, 2020 7 4,539
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How to ask politely if someone can afford to be a bridesmaid?
Jessica, on December 31, 2019 at 1:39 AM

One of my very closest friends from when I was a child asked me to be her MOH at her wedding, and although we aren’t as close as we once were I’ll always consider her to be like family. I want to ask...

Jennifer, Dec 31, 2019 6 1,036 1
Catie
Printing on A2 Envelopes Problem
Catie, on January 6, 2019 at 8:43 PM

Hi everyone! I was trying to print on A2 envelopes in Word today and every time I tried to put the dimensions of the envelope in the "custom" sizing, it said that it was too small for Word. Has anyone...

Delia, Dec 31, 2019 6 667
Jeanelle
Save the Dates: Handwritten, Calligraphy, or Labels?!
Jeanelle, on December 2, 2015 at 11:01 AM

We're getting ready to send out our Save the Dates... I've found lots of advice pertaining to the etiquette on how to properly word the addresses... but I can't find any advice pertaining to how to...

Tia, Dec 30, 2019 23 19,685
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Wedding Veil
Joshua, on January 3, 2012 at 5:22 PM

My fiance and I have three kids, we are going to have a big wedding and she wants to wear a veil. My mom said it is not apporpriate for her to wear a veil because she is not a virgin. I don't want to...

Unicorn, Dec 30, 2019 10 1,604
Leticia
Guests add their own plus ones
Leticia, on December 29, 2019 at 8:09 AM

How should I deal? A person we invited (FH family member) responded back with a plus one. They are not married, I have only seen this "plus 1" about 5 times over 2 years, and the person lives out of...

Sherry, Dec 30, 2019 30 2,472 1
Unreliable/uncaring Bridesmaid?
, on December 29, 2019 at 10:47 AM

Sorry, this is LONG!! I am getting married in August and have 4 bridesmaids. I got engaged back in June so I know I still have lots of time to plan. One of the bridesmaids is one of my best friends,...

Taylor, Dec 30, 2019 18 1,151
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Engagement/wedding rings - same sex marriage
Les, on April 6, 2018 at 2:39 PM

I'm curious how other same-sex couples handled the rings. My partner and I got matching rings once we were engaged, and started wearing them on our right ring fingers. Once we're married, we'll switch...

ADAM, Dec 27, 2019 12 2,617
Emily
Bridesmaid in a wedding - how much do i spend on gift?
Emily, on December 18, 2019 at 12:06 AM

TL/DR: What is an appropriate dollar amount that I could get away with for a check as a bridesmaid with a plus one? I’m a bridesmaid for a friend’s wedding and I have a plus one. I’ve heard the...

Julie, Dec 27, 2019 32 12,641 1
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