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Desiree'
Beginner April 2012

Tattooed Brides !!??!!

Desiree', on June 30, 2011 at 1:17 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 52

Hello Ladies,

I just got engaged a couple months ago and will be getting married April 4, 2012 via the Royal Caribbean Allure of the seas on Lindquist Beach St Thomas USVI. Very excited!!! This has always been my dream to get married on a caribbean beach. One huge concern I have is, will my tattoo look ok with my dress or is this considered trashy? I love my tattoo!! I have angel wings on my back with my mother and grandmothers names in the middle. I don't want attempt to cover it but I would like the opinion and experiences of other brides. Is this ok?? Will it look horrible? HELP!!! Any other tattoed brides with pics to share would be great as well?

Thanks ,

Desiree

52 Comments

Latest activity by Jessica, on January 12, 2020 at 8:21 PM
  • Brandy
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    Brandy ·
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    No it wont be trashy its a part of who you are and ppl should understand that, a friend of mine just got married and she had a strapless gown and everyone could see her tattoos and no one said nething about it being trashy...i want a strapless gown and i have tattoo on my right shoulder and will prolly get another one before i get married and im not gonna worry about covering them up Smiley smile

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  • Glenn
    Master February 2012
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    I think it looks trashy, but I don't like tattoos. One of my friends just got married and her arm tattoo prominently shows and everyone at work who saw the picture (she used to work at this off) was shocked she had a tattoo and that was the only thing anyone focused on.

    If it's part of you though and you love it why do you care if I think it's trashy?

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  • Mrs. Clark aka Mrs Awesomepants
    Master November 2011
    Mrs. Clark aka Mrs Awesomepants ·
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    I have a very large pair of wings on my shoulders and im getting them touched up before the wedding because I will be showing them off. The idea of ink being trashy is almost a thing of the past since it is SO common now

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  • Mrs. Bansmer
    Super August 2012
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    I don't think it's trashy at all. I wouldn't cover it up unless you don't really like it, which is obviously not true. The tattoo has meaning and you got it for a reason, so show that puppy off. However my opinion may be biased since I love a good tattoo!!

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  • Desiree'
    Beginner April 2012
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    Thanks soo much guys. That makes me feel a lot better. LOL I guess everyone just has their own personal opinion on it and I don't really see the problem either. A few people have asked "are you going to cover it up?" And i'm like "Am I supposed to" LOL I am not going to worry about it. Like you said its a part of who we are. Thanks

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  • Will be Mrs B
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    I have 3 tattooes, and love Tats, but not in formal pictures. So I'm going to have mine covered up. But that's just how I feel

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  • Desiree
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    I dont find it trashy at all... half my back in tattoed and I'm proud of every one i have. I got them for a reason. A few people asked me the same thing, and I was like uhh nope, i didn't get them to be embaressed about them. And FH said he loves them and wouldnt want it any other way with them showing, it's who I am and I shouldnt change that just for a wedding, we are marrying eachother not the guests

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  • Brandi
    Super May 2011
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    I have a tattoo on my shoulder blade that shows that I did not cover up. My veil kind of blocked it for the most part but it was visible. 3 of my 4 bridesmaids have tattoos on their backs as well. I did not make any of them cover theirs. They are part of us and we got them for a reason. I don't personally think it took anything away from our photos. These are just shots people took, but keep in mind most of them won't be of your back anyway. I had to look to try to find some to show you. I don't think they looked trashy at all. JMO




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  • Michelle
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    If you love your tattoo, then there is nothing to worry about! show it with pride!

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  • KRISTINA
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    I have 5 tattoos... I have an upper back piece, one on each upper arm and one on each leg... Although the leg ones won't be showing because of the dress, I wont be covering up my other ones.

    They are who you are and you got them for a reason. Most likely everyone attending your wedding has already seen them anyways. I think the only way someone would find this trashy is if they just hate tattoos in general and etc. BUT I wouldn't worry about other people. It is YOUR wedding day!

    The only way I would cover up a tattoo is if it looked crappy and needed touch ups / fixed and I didn't get it taken care of before the wedding.

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  • KRISTINA
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    Also, I know someone who tried to cover hers up and not only could you tell that she had one, but you could tell she tried to cover it up. It showed in her wedding pictures too! I think that is more "trashy" looking

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  • Desiree
    Expert May 2012
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    PS,.... I love you name lol just saying

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  • Leah
    Dedicated October 2011
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    I personally get very distracted by tacky tattoos at formal events.. tacky ones. It sounds like yours are very special and you should be proud of them tho. Show them off! They are a part of you!

    Also, I was looking at your photos.. you and your FH are so cute together! congrats!

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  • Future Mrs.S
    Devoted July 2012
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    I admit when getting my tattoos done I spesifically avoided my arms and upper back because I knew that when I got married I wouldn't want them showing. But that's just my preference. Mind you, since deciding this, I do now have a tiny star on my wrist which I won't be covering.

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  • Desiree'
    Beginner April 2012
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    Wow...thanks for the advise guys!!! This is great. Glad to see i'm not the only one who is fine with with the tattoos .

    I have found that when it comes to wedding planning you get a lot of conflicting opinions and I have even seen a side of a people and loved ones I never imagined could be lol Great learning experience!!!

    Brandi D. I absolutely LOVE your pics. I don't think it took away from the photos at all. They are beautiful!!! I'm just going to go ahead and be me. That's all there is to it!!

    My FH agrees as well. He says I couldn't look trashy even if I tried.:o) It is about us, that is all that matters!!!

    Thanks Ladies!!!!!

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  • Desiree'
    Beginner April 2012
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    Desiree C. You have a beautiful name as well!! LOL LOVE IT!!!

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  • Brandi
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    Thank you Desiree! I had to look hard to find pics that had tattoos showing. So those pics are not the best.

    On a funny note. One of my BM's has the same tattoo as me (just the one on my shoulder blade). We just have different initials inside of it. We got them when we were 18 and yes they do have meaning and we actually designed them somewhat ourselves. I got mine touched up before the wedding though. Anyway, my cousins fiance came up to me at the reception and asked "does your BM have the same tattoo as you". I just laughed and said yes. That's the only thing anyone said about any of our tattoos.

    Sorry, I have to show these off. I LOVE my husbands tattoos. He has a couple that are portraits of our kids when they were 6 months old (our son is now 11 and our daughter is almost 2). :-)


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  • Desiree'
    Beginner April 2012
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    Thanks for posting the pics . I think they are great!!!

    Lol great story. Glad that's they only thing that went noticed about all the tattoos in the wedding!! Pretty cool!

    Yeah maybe I will consider touching mine up just so it looks it best on my big day!!!

    Wow!!! Too cute!!! That is a really nice tattoo!! I love it!!! Nice artwork

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  • Future Mrs. S
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    I don't think that it would be trashy at all. If any of my tattoo's are visible I wouldn't cover it up at all

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  • His #1 Mrs. M
    Super August 2011
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    Tattoos are who you are. By all means let them show. I have 3 of mine that will be showing on our big day.

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