Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello! Opinions needed. We are wayyy over budget for our wedding. My fiance and I are contemplating hosting a rehearsal dinner and providing one drink for our guests (alcohol or non alcoholic) and...

I still need a lot of addresses on my guest list and I want to send out save-the-dates. I'm really a "do it yourself" type of bride, but I just can't think of a proactive way to get addresses from...

All my search results for this question bring me results about invitations and save the dates. But how would you go about writing your return address when the couple keeps their own last names? I...

As we all know, this year is a presidential campaign year...and I think we can all agree that it's a mess! I have friends and family on both sides who are very passionate about their canidates and i...

How should I deal w/having two dads who want to walk me down the aisle. It's not as easy as having them both walk me as I don't think my bio dad deserves the honor. My biological father left my mom...

When are you sending your Save The Dates, or have you already sent them out? My internal debate is whether to send them early December or early January. They are online so I don’t have to worry about...

So when choosing our wedding date I felt kind of pressured to have a date in February, because that’s what FH’s mom was pushing for. So I picked Feb 15th because it was the only date in February...

I was looking at random wedding decor online, trying to get ideas and I came across this: http://www.partycity.com/product/white+pearl+wedding+money+bag.do?navSet=278995 Wedding money bag. WHAT in the...

Hi everyone. So this has caused quite a bit of drama for my wife to be. We got engaged a few months ago and decided we want to get married next year. We decided on April and paid deposit but when we...

Hello, I just sent out my invites and my dad is offended he is not listed on them. My parents have been divorced for 25 years, my dad had never contributed financially to my life and hasn’t been...

Do you have a group chat with everyone who's standing up with you? I want to make one for my girls but I'm unsure of how to word an introduction without seeming awkward or domineering. I have: Best...

So were getting married looking to get ideas for a Halloween wedding next year whats some good Halloween based wedding she want a dark red with black dress and black tux with red what's colors should...

Long story short. I was in a wedding in November. I was one of 2 bridesmaids in the wedding. I already had my bridesmaids picked out before her wedding. I have my sister and 2 of my closest friends. I...

We are thinking of asking for money instead of gifts for our wedding, we don’t live together but we’ve both lived on our own and we have just about everything we need. I know there’s no great way to...

Has anyone gone through the (new pope's) catholic annulment process? We met with the priest yesterday to start our marriage preparations and he said that 1. Although it's a faster process now, the...

Good morning, everyone! If you have a step mom or dad, are you inviting them? What if you feel like you have 0 relationship with your step parent- but they just so happened to be married to your dad...

Planning our wedding has been an absolute breeze, that is, until my MIL wanted to add 10+ additional guests to the list after we already sent out invites. Any advice on how to let her know (gently)...

I hired a 3rd party vendor through weddingwire as a photographer. Long story short I was super dissatisfied with the photographer himself and went back to the owner of the company to explain my...

During our rehearsal dinner, we plan to pass out gifts to all those who stood up in our wedding and those who participated by doing a reading. I also want to gift my parents something as they are...

What are you guys having your personal attendant do? Or are you not having one? Im just lost at what there supposed to do! Are they supposed to carry the back of your dress & bustle it? Or does the...