Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So my officiant at my wedding was drunk is it still valid? Groom and bride were not drunk?

This may seem like a dumb question, but I don’t want to get accused of cultural appropriation, because that is certainly not my intent. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m not Hispanic, and neither is my fiancé. I also...

First, let me preface this and say that FH and I have discussed premarital counseling, and will hopefully be setting it up soon. I also go to therapy myself, so that's taken care of. But I wanted to...

What do you think the etiquette is on inviting my brother's mother & father-in-law? They are not super tight with my family and personally I feel like my sister-in-law's mother does not like me, I...

It’s totally premature for me to be worrying about this, but we just picked our bridal party. We each have 6, which worked out. My side is my sister and my friends, all in our early-mid 20s. He side...

Hello all! Just looking for an opinion on if I have to invite my brothers in laws to my wedding. My brother doesn’t particularly care for his MIL and his MIL HATES me. She and my SIL both throw shade...

So hear me out... One of my good friends and my little sister in my sorority is dating my ex boyfriend. We were together for 6 years and it was a very messy breakup, which included him low key...

Hey ladies Are you guys planning on keeping your middle name or taking your maiden name as your middle? I was thinking about keeping my middle name and maiden name and taking on my new last name....

My best friend since Kindergarten is getting married some time next year. Love her to death but she is very stubborn and likes to be in control. With that being said, it is her wedding so I 100% get...

We are having a 15 minute ceremony outside then the reception will be in a partially enclosed barn. The forecast is showing the high for our wedding will be 48 degrees and dropping into the 30's by...

We’re two weeks out from the wedding and just had a couple say that they didn’t get an invite and weren’t at an event where we apparently invited people to the wedding?! Which didn’t happen. But that...

So my dad and I aren’t too close and I don’t see or talk to him often. He has been dating his gf for like 2 years or a little more and they live together. She also has a son that’s like 19 or 20 maybe...

Hi ladies! Sorry if you have seen me lately asking a lot of questions but as the big day is approaching there is just so much left to do!! I am now looking into my invitations I was going to do them...

I have a friend, let's call her Rey. She was my best friend in college but now we are definitely not as close since we don't see each other as much. She is still a good friend and invited to the...

Has anyone ever had a wedding reception or been to one that was only apps and dessert. I'm trying to figure out if it will be cheaper than a sit down dinner. Also I've heard that it's tacky and I...

Hey everyone! So my wedding is next year and we're having a traditional Hindu ceremony as my fiance and I are both Hindu. We are not super religious but we'd like to keep the ceremony as traditional...

I am throwing this out there to see how far off base this situation is. My sister's wedding is quickly coming up and this situation is threatening to tear our family apart. Dad is paying for half of...

We asked for an unplugged ceremony and that did not work. We got our pics back from the photographer and are only giving 1-2 printed pics to people in our wedding party. Our photographer ask that if a...

Wedding etiquette & traditions can give some of us the nostalgic romantic wedding feel we want, but you can't ignore the creative possibilities and ease of planning that a more modern wedding...

I’m MOH, should I be asking the bridal party individually what their budget is for the bachelorette party or in a group text? ( The bride wants me to plan the bachelorette )