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Receiving Line
M, on February 15, 2012 at 8:41 PM

I've seen some forum posts and magazine articles about the etiquette of the receiving line. I've definitely been to weddings with them - they seem to usually be weddings at a church, they have a...

Connee, Oct 31, 2019 12 248
C
Kitchen charm scam??
Cassandra, on February 18, 2018 at 1:46 AM

Has anyone who has bought the pots actually receive a 8 day vacation????

Charlene, Oct 30, 2019 6 2,504
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Wearing a wedding dress when getting married again
London, on October 28, 2019 at 1:12 PM

I have my wedding dress from my first marriage, my husband passed away within a year of us getting married. He had alot of health problems. Anyway my new fiance says I should wear the same dress when...

Judith, Oct 29, 2019 10 318
Olivia
How to do start the conversation with a vendor you are disappointed with?
Olivia, on October 7, 2019 at 8:11 PM

I'm trying to figure out how to reach out and talk to the DJ/photobooth company before posting a review. We had an unfortunate experience, general inattentiveness to details that came into play for...

Jennifer, Oct 28, 2019 5 714
Bridesmaid can’t afford bachelorette party
, on October 26, 2019 at 8:23 AM

So I was completely unaware of anything til I got a call the other day at work. One of my 5 bridesmaids called me and said she can’t afford to go to my bachelorette. She just put a deposit down on an...

Tara, Oct 28, 2019 14 5,632
Katie
What wedding cliches are you using/avoiding and why?
Katie, on March 14, 2016 at 9:58 AM

Just wondering what wedding cliches are you using/avoiding? I love how weddings can be so different yet very similar. One that I am using is the sign "Trust Me You Can Dance-Alochol". I don't care if...

MrsE2020, Oct 27, 2019 72 3,796
Robyn
How to tell Mom she isn't invited to bachelorette party?
Robyn, on October 23, 2019 at 12:53 PM

Explanation on how this came to be: I've been texting my sister (MOH) some ideas for my bachelorette party recently. But yesterday I sent a message on Facebook to my sister with a link for Vegas...

Robyn, Oct 26, 2019 15 2,183 1
Jessica
Beer & wine reception.
Jessica, on May 6, 2014 at 2:50 PM

So we have decided to have a beer and wine reception. I HATE HATE HATE beer!!! so my beer question is super duper easy. should I get a keg? or cans? I think a keg is easier. but I have no idea how...

Winecooler5, Oct 26, 2019 10 1,366
The Potters
Guests that didn't give a gift
The Potters, on September 28, 2009 at 3:00 PM

Our wedding was 9/12/09 and we had about 5 people who came to our wedding but did not give us a gift, not even a card! Did this happen to you? I don't expect something expensive, but at least a card...

Abbey, Oct 25, 2019 72 9,767
Lauren
Photographer sent our entire wedding album to all of our guests without permission
Lauren, on October 7, 2019 at 4:58 PM

My husband and I were married a few weeks ago in a very intimate destination elopement ceremony with our families in attendance. It was 10 guests total. Our photographer is a friend of the family...

Kari, Oct 25, 2019 39 2,471
KRM
Dry Wedding Etiquette - Answered
KRM, on September 9, 2017 at 8:01 AM

So I've noticed, just like honeyfunds and cash bars, dry weddings seem to be a taboo for the WW community. Which is fine! I'm just having a difficult time wrapping my head around it. After some...

ROBIN, Oct 23, 2019 92 2,054
Erika
Who goes to a venue viewing?
Erika, on October 23, 2019 at 2:21 PM

Hey all! I just recently got engaged and have set up a few venue viewing appointments. I want to invite both my parents and my FH parents to the viewings, partially because they are helping pay for...

Cher Horowitz, Oct 23, 2019 15 9,401 1
SharSam14
Buffet Dinner Game idea?
SharSam14, on June 29, 2014 at 5:26 PM

I am having a buffet dinner at my reception and I am having about 15 tables. I was going to do a "trivia game" about us the bride and groom to determine which tables go up to get food. So basically,...

Julie, Oct 22, 2019 25 21,522
Kitty
Not changing my name, how do i address this?
Kitty, on May 1, 2019 at 3:14 PM

There are no issues between my fiance and myself that we are keeping our own names - in fact, we're planning on using my last name if we ever decide on children. My problem is, is that his whole...

Cassandra7, Oct 21, 2019 28 5,024
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Anniversary party...is it okay or silly?
Danielle, on October 10, 2019 at 11:17 AM

My husband and I got married a few years ago, and while I am so thrilled I got to marry him, the wedding itself is an unhappy memory for me. We had quite a lot of bad luck leading up to the big day. I...

Ebony, Oct 21, 2019 7 3,319 1
Ella Marie
Can you wear youre wedding rings, if you’re a bridesmaid?
Ella Marie, on May 9, 2018 at 10:20 AM

So I have no idea if this is a thing or not lol. I’m just curious. If you’re married and are in another wedding, like the bridal party, can you wear you’re wedding rings or should you take them off?...

Judith, Oct 21, 2019 37 4,561
Kristan
Addressing married couples with both first names
Kristan, on February 23, 2019 at 7:53 PM

I’m curious what others think about this. I’m not a fan of addressing things to married couples like Mr. & Mrs. John Doe, so if you are to address a married couple using both of their first names,...

Kate, Oct 20, 2019 16 36,429 1
Don
Makeup at fitting
Don, on October 18, 2019 at 12:20 PM

Did anybody wear makeup at your fitting, is that frowned upon trying on the dresses? I feel naked when I don't have any on.

Jessie, Oct 20, 2019 13 1,502
Katie
Feeling guilty about bridesmaids
Katie, on October 20, 2019 at 4:23 AM

Would you feel bad if you were in a coworker's wedding in March and she keeps asking about your bridesmaid, which I havent asked them yet, but I dont plan on having her? But I do plan on asking...

Stefanie, Oct 20, 2019 4 916
Ms. Mary Kate
When to set bridesmaid dress deadline, what to do about stragglers?
Ms. Mary Kate, on May 2, 2018 at 4:43 PM

I was definitely expecting stragglers with my group of friends, some of whom are notorious procrastinators (a part of their laid back charm). I set an initial deadline with a buffer for that reason....

Lakesia, Oct 20, 2019 28 1,258
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