Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hey everyone , so our date is 2/2/20 due to holidays we have decided that we would send out invites mid October and have the rsvp due by November 30th this way we avoid all the Christmas mail mayhem...

I've been taking off my white gold engagement ring when I wash my hands and shower but FH freaks out because he thinks I'll lose it, forget it, or drop it down the drain if I don't keep it on. So is...

We've been together going on 5 years and engaged for 3. Our wedding date is set Sept 1st (5 months away!) and we only have a deposit on a planner and a venue and i have my dream dress. Got lots of...

I've been sick the entire month of September. I thought it was allergies at the beginning of the month but then I began to run a low grade fever. I've been taking Mucinex for 10 days and it's not...

I found a photographer that I love! She's talented and tasteful and in my budget! Unfortunately she's already booked for the day of our wedding. I want to ask her if she knows any other good,...

So due to a lot of stuff going on - mainly losing my dad two months before my wedding and my brother being at boot camp and some family drama on my FH's side we decided to postpone our wedding until...

Hello All! My wonderful husband and I will have been married for two months (WOW) on Thursday, Oct. 3. When we hired our amazing photographer, she told us to expect our photos within 6-8 weeks of the...

FH has close friends that got engaged in summer of 2018, they planned a date of October 2021 and future husband was asked to be a groomsman in fall of 2018. Would it be disrespectful to plan a wedding...

Don't know if I should sleep at my parents house. Or at home with my fiance. I've heard it's bad luck to sleep together the night before the wedding because ur not supsto see each other is that true?...

So I have been going back and forth about this. I have been seeing lately a lot of the "First Look" pictures. I'm stuck between going this route and doing the traditional waiting until we walk down...

Hey guys I want to get your opinion on this. If a bridesmaid can only afford up to X amount but you want your dresses to be more do you respect their budget or say if you cant afford it then don't be...

A close friend of mine is having a last minute international wedding at city hall in Europe and I'm really torn on if I need to attend. Last year, my H and I announced to our immediate family in...

In lieu of place cards we are having a display on window panes of table numbers and who is to be seated at each table. I will try my best to track people down and keep this at a minimum but we plan on...

My fiancé and I are having a Halloween wedding on Halloween 2020. All of our guests are excited about costumes. What would be the most respectful way to encourage appropriate costumes and would it be...

Our big day was July 5. Other than our photographers, it was great. We hired a professional company (referral from an acquaintance). They also did our engagement photos, which were stunning....

From the beginning, the cake was my least important item. Then FH said "You gotta have cake!" I think he meant dessert in general, not wedding cake because now he's on board with sheet cake. One one...

I'm still wondering what my wedding classifies as: elopement or destination? I'm sending invites to our Hawaii wedding ceremony to about 30 people - most traveling from the Midwest. I already know a...

My mother and father very generously will be hosting our wedding at their home as well as paying for it. Paying was something they absolutely insisted on from the beginning. My mother since has...

I have been reading that it is rude and inappropriate to ask guests not to wear a particular color. I have read that wearing red is a no no. And I definitely I understand white is a no no, but what if...

I'm in need of some advice of how to approach our photography company - we got our professional photos back a few weeks ago, and for the most part, they are beautiful. There are definitely some great...