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Nicole
Boudoir Printing
Nicole, on September 15, 2019 at 4:37 PM

Hi everyone! I recently did a boudoir shoot so I could give it to my FH on our wedding day. I paid for online images and the rights for 10 pictures from the session so I could make a book for him. I...

Carol, Sep 15, 2019 9 989 2
GardenParty18
Inviting coworkers
GardenParty18, on October 23, 2017 at 2:49 PM

I work in a department of 11 people. I am very close with some and not with others. I was originally going to invite all of them, but I find myself needing to cut the guest list. It's not that many...

Megan, Sep 15, 2019 27 826
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No bridal party
Chloe, on September 14, 2019 at 2:45 PM

We would like to have a smaller destination wedding with close family and friends. Because of this I would like to not do a bridal party but still want to include our friends in some way. Does anyone...

Kelly, Sep 15, 2019 9 300
GettingHitched
No unwrapping of gifts at the shower?
GettingHitched, on July 30, 2013 at 4:08 PM

I've noticed a trend at baby showers and wedding showers where the invitations ask that guests not wrap their gifts, just bring them to put on display, and for the guests to just come for lunch to...

Diane, Sep 14, 2019 24 12,712
Shayna
Open ceremony but private reception!?!?!?
Shayna, on August 17, 2017 at 9:48 AM

We are having an open ceremony and private dinner....yes private dinner reception. I'll tell you why. Our parents are members of two churches. my fh and myself agreed on a budget and for our reception...

Aquila, Sep 13, 2019 28 2,861
Nicole
Gifts for bonus kids
Nicole, on September 13, 2019 at 2:42 PM

Hey all. I would like to gift my 2 bonus kids daughter (20) and son (13) a gift on our wedding day. Can you guys shoot me with ideas. Please include a link if you have something in particular you’d...

Jeanie, Sep 13, 2019 4 1,192 1
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Greeting Guests at Cocktail Hour
Zoe, on September 12, 2019 at 11:15 AM

Brides with larger headcounts (200+) - were you able to greet all your guests during cocktail hour? We are doing a first look and should be done with pictures (including BP and family pictures) before...

MrsD, Sep 13, 2019 10 834 1
Zahra
Guest: Recent breakup, wants to replace +1
Zahra, on September 11, 2019 at 2:20 AM

Hi all, little unsure how to address this one. A friend of mine who RSVPd “yes” for herself and her then boyfriend have recently broken up and she let me know she’ll be coming solo instead. She just...

Nicole, Sep 13, 2019 24 4,699
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Second marriage
Jennifer, on March 7, 2017 at 11:31 PM

Anyone else out there married before and if so any children from previous marriage?? How about changing your last name if this is the case. TIA!!

W-K, Sep 13, 2019 22 4,153
Alyssa
Verbal invitation without follow through
Alyssa, on September 11, 2019 at 7:36 PM

About 5 months before our wedding, I verbally invited a few coworkers and told them to save the date and they were invited. A couple months after that, we all unfortunately lost our jobs and all moved...

Lady, Sep 13, 2019 8 895
Jessica
When to send Thank Yous??? Getting registry gifts now!
Jessica, on September 8, 2019 at 10:45 PM

So, I know I send thank you cards after the wedding to anyone who attends, BUT, I looked at our registry today and realized 3 gifts have been purchased. Do I need to send a thank you now? Or is that...

Sherry, Sep 12, 2019 15 2,883
KeriS
Chinese American Wedding
KeriS, on January 14, 2013 at 4:57 PM

Hello all! I'm still in the planning stage.. and spend waaaay too much time on Pinterest.. but anyway.. I was wondering about what traditions should take place and how to go about certain things. My...

Meowmei, Sep 12, 2019 14 1,794
Jocelyn
Plus one etiquette?
Jocelyn, on September 9, 2019 at 12:34 AM

So we're trying to limit our wedding to at least 115-120 people. Most of my relatives don't get plus ones since they come together. However, all our military guests are married but if we allow every...

Jennifer, Sep 11, 2019 35 2,206
Mrs Dunne
Bridesmaids getting acquainted?
Mrs Dunne, on August 1, 2017 at 10:57 AM

Hi girls! So I have 6 bridesmaids and they don't really know each other so I was thinking about taking them somewhere so they'd meet and get to know each other! I first thought about bowling...but how...

Valorie, Sep 11, 2019 36 185
Jessica
Telling my ex husband I am getting married?
Jessica, on March 25, 2015 at 12:47 PM

My ex and I divorced last fall. Together we share 3 children. Things have been horrible between us since the divorce and we are NOT on good terms. We are barely able to communicate for the children's...

Nicki, Sep 10, 2019 17 6,709
Is it rude to take away a plus one?
, on September 9, 2019 at 12:50 PM

So my fiancé and I initially offered his cousin and friend a plus one via save the dates in case either of them got in relationships. Neither of them have, and I can see them just trying to bring...

Heather, Sep 10, 2019 17 1,480
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Formal wedding etiquette - possible for outdoor wedding?
MrMonkey, on March 31, 2018 at 9:15 AM

We’re looking to host a formal wedding outdoors on a gorgeous private estate. The guests will receive a weekly schedule with dress code suggestions beforehand so they know how casual or formal all the...

Green, Sep 10, 2019 17 5,967
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Groomsman’s so used to sleep with my fiancé!
K., on September 8, 2019 at 11:42 PM

One of my fiancé’s best friends is obviously in our wedding. The groomsman’s girlfriend used to sleep with my fiancé. She really liked him but they never dated. I have known her since high school and...

K., Sep 9, 2019 10 1,107
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Not invited to my fiance's daughter's wedding
Bronze, on September 9, 2019 at 1:29 PM

So my fiance's daughter has uninvited me to her wedding coming up in a few weeks. My fiance and his daughter's bond is strained as it is. I met his daughter on multiple occasions and I try my best to...

Kimber, Sep 9, 2019 5 1,892
MariaPaz
Plus one for co-workers
MariaPaz, on July 10, 2017 at 9:44 AM

So, I am working on my invitations and I am inviting all my co-workers to my wedding which they are not too many of them. My boss is invited with his wife (I am friend with his wife) but I have 3...

Lauren, Sep 9, 2019 21 4,244
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