Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I'm still wondering what my wedding classifies as: elopement or destination? I'm sending invites to our Hawaii wedding ceremony to about 30 people - most traveling from the Midwest. I already know a...

My mother and father very generously will be hosting our wedding at their home as well as paying for it. Paying was something they absolutely insisted on from the beginning. My mother since has...

I have been reading that it is rude and inappropriate to ask guests not to wear a particular color. I have read that wearing red is a no no. And I definitely I understand white is a no no, but what if...

I'm in need of some advice of how to approach our photography company - we got our professional photos back a few weeks ago, and for the most part, they are beautiful. There are definitely some great...

Hello everyone. I need help! My brothers wedding is this weekend and I have no idea what to give him. Normally I give 200-300 dollars as a wedding gift, depending on how close I am with the couple....

Say you invite, Mr. & Mrs. Smith to your wedding. But Mr. Smith can't make it. Does Mrs. Smith have the authority to write down another name in place of Mr. Smith on their RSVP? Especially without...

Hello! So I have a small dilemina. We are trying to set up bartending and such for our wedding, the only issue is that some people we have invited, who are... Well one important in some ways to the...

Anybody else hardcore struggling to stay in budget? I came into this not wanting to spend more than $1,000-$1,500 but realistically all the dresses I want are worth well-over $10k...

The FH is really against having alcohol at the wedding. Anyone have any interesting non-alcoholic drink ideas?

My parents went through a particularly nasty divorce. To make a long story short, Dad participated in an affair - when the girlfriend found out, she did not take it well and began harassing my mother...

So I have a friend who I have become really close with over the last 6-8 months. We met in school and totally clicked, and we’ve been inseparable ever since. Ive had my bridal party “picked out” for a...

*This is a Destination Wedding, so that complicates things even more. History. Fiancé and I have been together two years. We've both been married before and have 3 kids between us from past our...

I am a bridesmaid in a wedding this weekend and also have a 7 week old who will be at home with her dad. I have pretty bad separation anxiety with her. I have to be at the venue at 10:30 the morning...

How do you feel about being legally married and celebrating at a later date?

Going back and forth on whether or not I should invite someone that I recently stopped being friends with. We had a falling out about her birthday. She was upset with me about telling her I couldn’t...

Hello all, So my fiancé and I are trying to stick with a strict budget with our wedding and we finally found a venue that accommodates everything we need. And now that we have made the guest list we...

I'm on the fence on whether to invite a college friend to the wedding. We were pretty close in college. We had a two-year falling out while I was in law school, but then re-connected after I...

Im curious about the difference. Should I have a Formal wedding or Semi Formal? I guess i don’t know the difference, I am aware of the difference dress code, but how should my wedding ambiance or...

I am struggling SO hard and it definitely didn't help that when I asked my mother this question, she freaked out, "What do you mean no kids???!! At a MEXICAN WEDDING???? They are part of life!!!" My...

I just had a guest FB message me: Friend: Are you going to be picking up/dropping off people from the airport Me: only my mom and brother on Wednesday on Thursday it's the rehearsal so we can't pick...