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Wedding gift
Kristi, on October 2, 2019 at 10:09 AM

Hello everyone. I need help! My brothers wedding is this weekend and I have no idea what to give him. Normally I give 200-300 dollars as a wedding gift, depending on how close I am with the couple....

Cher Horowitz, Oct 2, 2019 10 20,996
mkibs
Are guests allowed to bring who they want in place of their spouse?
mkibs, on September 3, 2019 at 12:41 PM

Say you invite, Mr. & Mrs. Smith to your wedding. But Mr. Smith can't make it. Does Mrs. Smith have the authority to write down another name in place of Mr. Smith on their RSVP? Especially without...

Cassandra7, Oct 2, 2019 44 6,990
Jenna
Help, i don't want people getting wasted at our wedding.
Jenna, on February 18, 2019 at 1:09 PM

Hello! So I have a small dilemina. We are trying to set up bartending and such for our wedding, the only issue is that some people we have invited, who are... Well one important in some ways to the...

KIRSTEN, Oct 2, 2019 20 4,641
Brittanie
Dress Budget
Brittanie, on July 12, 2019 at 10:06 AM

Anybody else hardcore struggling to stay in budget? I came into this not wanting to spend more than $1,000-$1,500 but realistically all the dresses I want are worth well-over $10k...

Jazmine, Oct 1, 2019 53 1,061 1
Vivian
Non-Alcoholic Alternatives
Vivian, on May 18, 2017 at 12:35 PM

The FH is really against having alcohol at the wedding. Anyone have any interesting non-alcoholic drink ideas?

Sharon, Oct 1, 2019 102 3,810
Kristine
Divorced Parents: Inviting the Girlfriend, Who Broke Apart Their Marriage (Help!!)
Kristine, on June 5, 2014 at 4:12 PM

My parents went through a particularly nasty divorce. To make a long story short, Dad participated in an affair - when the girlfriend found out, she did not take it well and began harassing my mother...

Alejandra, Oct 1, 2019 32 4,111
Jessica
Should i Make my New(ish) Friend a Bridesmaid
Jessica, on September 30, 2019 at 10:54 AM

So I have a friend who I have become really close with over the last 6-8 months. We met in school and totally clicked, and we’ve been inseparable ever since. Ive had my bridal party “picked out” for a...

Jennifer, Sep 30, 2019 14 1,578
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Calling off Wedding - Please help
Laura, on September 26, 2019 at 10:41 AM

*This is a Destination Wedding, so that complicates things even more. History. Fiancé and I have been together two years. We've both been married before and have 3 kids between us from past our...

Jennifer, Sep 30, 2019 13 1,820
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Bridesmaid leaving reception early?
Ashley, on September 27, 2019 at 4:07 PM

I am a bridesmaid in a wedding this weekend and also have a 7 week old who will be at home with her dad. I have pretty bad separation anxiety with her. I have to be at the venue at 10:30 the morning...

MrsD, Sep 30, 2019 20 2,937
Shavonda
Married first, wedding later
Shavonda, on January 4, 2015 at 3:36 PM

How do you feel about being legally married and celebrating at a later date?

Ashley, Sep 28, 2019 42 4,202
Damla
Should i invite an ex friend to my wedding?
Damla, on January 29, 2018 at 3:13 PM

Going back and forth on whether or not I should invite someone that I recently stopped being friends with. We had a falling out about her birthday. She was upset with me about telling her I couldn’t...

Amanda, Sep 27, 2019 29 4,146
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Paying for plus ones
Crystal, on February 27, 2017 at 10:14 AM

Hello all, So my fiancé and I are trying to stick with a strict budget with our wedding and we finally found a venue that accommodates everything we need. And now that we have made the guest list we...

Renae, Sep 27, 2019 84 2,844
Brittney
Would you invite a friend you're not speaking with to your wedding?
Brittney, on March 14, 2018 at 4:51 PM

I'm on the fence on whether to invite a college friend to the wedding. We were pretty close in college. We had a two-year falling out while I was in law school, but then re-connected after I...

Blahboo, Sep 27, 2019 51 6,673
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Semi formal vs Formal
Bryanne, on September 26, 2019 at 1:44 PM

Im curious about the difference. Should I have a Formal wedding or Semi Formal? I guess i don’t know the difference, I am aware of the difference dress code, but how should my wedding ambiance or...

Jeanie, Sep 26, 2019 7 1,052
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Suggestions to limit how many kids attend your destination wedding?
Sabrina, on September 25, 2019 at 2:35 PM

I am struggling SO hard and it definitely didn't help that when I asked my mother this question, she freaked out, "What do you mean no kids???!! At a MEXICAN WEDDING???? They are part of life!!!" My...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Sep 26, 2019 7 325
Jennifer
Guests asking for rides from the Airport from the BRIDE? ODD or Normal?
Jennifer, on April 13, 2012 at 6:00 PM

I just had a guest FB message me: Friend: Are you going to be picking up/dropping off people from the airport Me: only my mom and brother on Wednesday on Thursday it's the rehearsal so we can't pick...

Alyssa, Sep 25, 2019 21 1,992
Rachel
Wedding Pictures are Late...
Rachel, on September 23, 2019 at 7:31 PM

An acquaintance on Facebook recommended a photographer and I liked his work so I hired him. In his contract, he states "Due to the artistic nature of photography, completion dates are only tentative,...

Cassi, Sep 25, 2019 4 296
Jessica
How did you deal with a far away venue?
Jessica, on September 16, 2019 at 9:39 PM

My fiance and I are considering a venue (ceremony and reception) that's an hour away from where both our families live (we're from the same area), and I'm curious to hear what others have done when...

Abigail, Sep 24, 2019 12 1,601
BreeCheez
Unsure about when to use the term "The Bride"
BreeCheez, on February 23, 2015 at 11:02 AM

I have been assuming that the actual person getting married (the female party) was the bride, & could be considered "the bride" until the wedding, even if it's 2-3 months away. Assuming this, I...

Deanna, Sep 24, 2019 23 7,020
Alex
Plus Ones for a Small Wedding
Alex, on September 20, 2019 at 12:21 PM

My fiance and I recently cut our guest list down considerably, as a way to compromise - I wanted to elope, he wanted the kind of wedding you see in movies and magazines (at least with regard to guest...

Emily, Sep 23, 2019 10 2,057
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