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FutureMrsWallace
Unity and vows to step children
FutureMrsWallace, on April 21, 2016 at 5:24 PM

I would like to incorporate my vows to my step daughter during the unity ceremony. I have seen people get down to eye level and I have seen them just say their vows while poring the sand. I would like...

Dena, Nov 11, 2019 24 6,017 1
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Private ceremony & open reception on another date
ThomasLove, on December 20, 2017 at 12:51 PM

I’m not sure how exactly to go about invites and planning. We are having a small family / close friend wedding ceremony on family property. (About 70 people in luring the wedding party). We then want...

Lauren, Nov 10, 2019 65 5,193
Karen
Spanish invitation wording?
Karen, on October 24, 2019 at 10:19 PM

Can anyone advise on the wording for spanish invitations? I've seen a few online but I'm not too excited about them. TYI.

Dessiree, Nov 10, 2019 8 6,164 1
Haley
Can i have a Matron and Maid of Honor?
Haley, on November 5, 2019 at 2:13 PM

My best friend for years is going to be my Matron of Honor in my wedding party as I was just her Maid of Honor in her wedding but... would it be offensive if I had a Maid of Honor also? My other best...

Kaysey, Nov 9, 2019 14 702 1
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When do you start using your new name?
Gabriela, on October 29, 2019 at 10:10 AM

Hi Friends! We are happily married as of October 12 and today is my first day back in the office after our honeymoon. I'm now facing the daunting task of changing my name but realized I'm not quite...

MrsHamm, Nov 8, 2019 10 11,072
Natalia
Child Free Wedding?
Natalia, on October 8, 2019 at 9:04 AM

Edit: I am so sorry for the lengthy post! Guys, I so desperately need advice. This is a topic that is stressing me out so much that I cannot sleep. With my anxiety being high naturally, this is not...

MrsHamm, Nov 8, 2019 19 1,049
Alice
How to respond if a Potential Bridesmaid declines invitation
Alice, on November 5, 2019 at 5:21 PM

Looking for a way to respond to my potential bridesmaids, who may decline. Trying not to let it get to me, but it does hurt, and I know they’ll regret it one day. i started with 4 bridesmaids, and i...

MrsHamm, Nov 8, 2019 14 1,421
Brittany
Unplugged Ceremony Sign Size - 18 x 24 or 24 x 36
Brittany, on November 1, 2019 at 1:10 PM

I am making one to be printed but not sure what size is the most common. I don't want it to be too big or two small. Unplugged sign

Madison, Nov 7, 2019 8 3,702
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Apostolic/pentecostal wedding
kalyn, on February 6, 2017 at 9:50 PM

Okay so, I'm Apostolic/pentecostal. A very traditional denomination of Christianity. I don't drink, I don't dance, I only listen to christian music, and neither does my fiance. He's third generation...

Ruth, Nov 6, 2019 31 12,793
Michelle
Engagement photos and double chins
Michelle, on October 29, 2019 at 7:43 AM

Anyone else have this issue? My photographers' photos I've seen on Instagram and from his most recent works of weddings looked amazing. I had my engagement shoot Sunday and I was worried because I...

Clíodhna, Nov 6, 2019 49 3,882 1
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Falling out with a friend, do i return the wedding gift (money)?
Justine, on November 4, 2019 at 5:35 PM

Hi all, Sorry for the long history here, but I feel like I have to explain the situation first. I got married this past July. I have a very high-maintenance friend who, to be totally honest, I...

Jennifer, Nov 5, 2019 13 1,315
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Should i ask my fiance's sister to be in my bridal party?
idk393, on October 31, 2019 at 11:52 PM

I feel like I'm obligated to ask my fiance's sister to be a bridesmaid, but there's a couple of reasons I'm hesitant. 1) Our personalities clash. We started off not having a great relationship because...

MrsD, Nov 4, 2019 19 2,112
Sandi
hotel rooms for Guests! How much is too much?!
Sandi, on November 1, 2019 at 7:08 PM

Our wedding is in the Austin Hill Country next fall- we our wanting our Guests to stay at a hotel downtown. Quotes for a boutique hotel room block are around $240-$280/night per room....

Brianna, Nov 4, 2019 23 2,269
Amers
How to address unmarried couple with children?
Amers, on November 1, 2019 at 10:20 AM

Hello, In today's world, I know this is more common but I'm not sure how to address it on the wedding invitation. For example, my brother and his girlfriend have two children together. Do I address it...

MrsD, Nov 4, 2019 16 7,194
Chrissy4985
Whose name goes first on the invitation? Bride or Groom?
Chrissy4985, on December 25, 2015 at 1:35 AM

Hello ladies. I want to do this right, if there is a right way. Whose name goes first on the wedding invitation/ std's? My name or fh? I heard something about if it's the couple paying its the bride,...

McKenzie, Nov 2, 2019 22 54,669
Cathy
Wrong date on a handmade gift
Cathy, on November 1, 2019 at 11:46 AM

One of our guests gave us a beautiful handmade sampler with our name on it. The problem is, they got the wedding date wrong, we want to display this, but how is the best way to do so? Every time we...

Sara, Nov 1, 2019 6 766
Amina
Website wording
Amina, on October 31, 2019 at 2:50 PM

Is it tacky when describing the dress code to put “no jeans or sneakers”? FH’s family is famous for under dressing at events where it’s called to dress up for and I really would hate for pictures to...

Larissa, Nov 1, 2019 16 607
Nicole
Bridal Shower- Couple is relocating! Help!
Nicole , on October 23, 2018 at 1:57 PM

Hi All, I am a bridesmaid in a wedding party at the end of December. It is a quickly planned wedding (~2 months) as the groom is military. They are relocating in January to another state and they are...

Vicky, Nov 1, 2019 11 2,024
Kathryn
Inviting Someone in Prison
Kathryn, on July 1, 2015 at 2:58 PM

Never thought I would have to be asking this question but my step brother is in prison for the next 5 years or so. My mom told me to send him an invitation so he feels included. I kind of feel like it...

Jennifer, Nov 1, 2019 48 2,972
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Etiquette for eloping
Kery, on July 27, 2017 at 12:47 PM

My FH and I have decided our dream wedding would be on the beach in San Diego. Our families and friends live in NJ and majority of them wouldn't be able to travel that far so rather than making people...

Marie, Nov 1, 2019 18 1,526
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