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How to ask for bachelorette budget?

Patty, on November 9, 2019 at 9:30 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

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I’m MOH, should I be asking the bridal party individually what their budget is for the bachelorette party or in a group text? ( The bride wants me to plan the bachelorette )

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Latest activity by MrsD, on November 11, 2019 at 3:15 PM

Master December 2019
Cher Horowitz · on November 9, 2019 at 9:33 PM
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I would ask each person individually!
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Master September 2019
Sarah · on November 9, 2019 at 9:33 PM
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I would definitely ask individually so you don’t put anyone in a spot where they feel like they can’t be honest.
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Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on November 9, 2019 at 11:39 PM
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Definitely ask them individually. A group message would be extremely uncomfortable for those with a lesser budget.
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Legend March 2017
Pirate & 60s Bride · on November 10, 2019 at 12:24 AM
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Individually. And so kind and wise of you to ask everyone first!
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Master October 2017
karen · on November 10, 2019 at 9:10 AM
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Agree with PP, would ask separately. Would also ask budget in terms of days, money and locatin.
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Lady · on November 11, 2019 at 2:56 PM
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Ask individually - that way no one feels pressure to say yes to something or match someone else's budget.
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Legend July 2019
MrsD · on November 11, 2019 at 3:15 PM
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I think my MOH sent out a group text saying something like "I'm looking for a house rental to be around $100 a person for 2 nights, $20 a person for a massage gift for the bride, $10 a person for the drag show, then food & drinks for yourselves (so maybe another $200). Let me know if that works!" Some people said that was the max they could spend, so she planned free things like hiking & hanging out by the pool to help with budgets.
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