My best friend since Kindergarten is getting married some time next year. Love her to death but she is very stubborn and likes to be in control. With that being said, it is her wedding so I 100% get that. My issue is that although she has her date and venue chosen she totally refuses to tell me the date. Her reason is simply that she’s sick of people asking her and that it’s her day and she will tell people whenever she sees fit. Again, I get it to some degree but I’m her best friend and bridesmaid. The reason I’ve been asking and am frustrated that she won’t just tell me is because, without getting into too much detail, I have a medical obligation that I must choose multiple dates for now. I’ve explained it all to her but she still refuses and is calling me a name for not just letting her enjoy planning. I’m honestly not trying to hurt or bother her process, I simply want to make sure I can be there! I’m so confused. It seems like such a simple request to give me a heads up on her wedding date. She was my bridesmaid and I always kept her in the loop.