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Devoted July 2017

Ceremony & Reception at different places INVITATION ETIQUETTE

Maria, on March 30, 2017 at 10:32 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 7 22

Hi ladies! Smiley smile

Sorry if you have seen me lately asking a lot of questions but as the big day is approaching there is just so much left to do!!

I am now looking into my invitations I was going to do them with a person but the price was very high, then i read in the forum ladies suggesting elegantweddinginvites.com & I liked their designs!

My concern is that many of their "wording samples" only include ceremony information. Where would I put the reception information?

My ceremony will be in a church, then a reception in a country club.

Do I need to have separate invites for that? Or is it possible to put it all in the same invitation? I am a bit confused...

and where would I find wording for it..

I appreciate all the feedback!

22 Comments

Latest activity by Isis, on November 12, 2019 at 2:12 PM
  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    There's typically an insert card for the reception information.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    You can put it all on the same invitation. Our invitation has the location of our ceremony, and then says

    Reception to follow

    seven o'clock in the evening

    [name and address of reception venue]

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
    Miami2NorthernVA ·
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    On a separate card. I have this for my wedding.

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  • ErleneJ
    Dedicated October 2017
    ErleneJ ·
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    I am interested in how people laid this out as well. I wasn't planning on doing an insert for the reception card, but we do have a website...

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  • M
    Beginner August 2017
    Mary ·
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    Personally, I am having a ceremony in a church and the reception at another location. I listed both locations with addresses and times on my wedding invitations. The biggest reason for doing that is because then it is all on one card and having multiple cards in your invitation makes it easier to lose them. It also adds to the price of mailing due to weight, because you may need to send RSVP cards with their envelopes and perhaps direction cards too. Everything fit on my 6" x 9" invitation and was not over-crowded with wording or spacing. I worded mine like this:

    Friday, the eighteenth of August

    two thousand and seventeen

    at three in the afternoon

    Church Name

    Address

    Reception to follow at six in the evening

    Venue Name

    Address

    Just a thought to consider Smiley smile

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  • mrsmack
    VIP April 2017
    mrsmack ·
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    We had our main invitation which was just for the ceremony, and placed "dinner and dancing to follow" at the bottom. Then we had a reception card, RSVP card with envelope and then a smaller insert with website information.

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  • SLR
    Super November 2016
    SLR ·
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    We did an insert card. I felt like it looked way to wordy with both addresses on our invitation, but I did try it both ways to see what we preferred.

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  • Lauren17
    Master July 2017
    Lauren17 ·
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    Typically it goes on an insert card for the Reception details.

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  • Jenna
    Super November 2017
    Jenna ·
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    The super classy thing to do would be to add an insert but that could be an additional 30-50 cents. You can certainly add it to the invite with wording like "reception to follow (address/time)"

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  • MrsVoegs17
    VIP September 2017
    MrsVoegs17 ·
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    We put our reception information on our invite as well to save a little money. I did our invites on vista print, so we could add and customize information as needed.


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  • Audrey
    VIP June 2016
    Audrey ·
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    We did something similar to @Mary.

    ceremony date/time

    Church Name

    church address

    Reception to follow

    Reception Name

    reception address

    We also included our wedding website on our invites where people could get more detailed information for the ceremony and reception (i.e., directions, maps etc.).

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  • M
    Devoted July 2017
    Maria ·
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    Thank you so much ladies!

    I really appreciate all the feedback Smiley smile

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  • Karie
    VIP October 2017
    Karie ·
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    "Reception to follow at

    {name}"

    Then have a separate card with addresses and maps of ceremony and reception.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes August 2017
    Katie ·
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    This is the wording we used:

    Mr. and Mrs. XXXXX

    request the honor of your presence

    at the marriage of their daughter

    Katie Jane

    to

    Christopher Roy

    son of Mrs. XXXX

    on Saturday, the nineteenth of August

    two thousand seventeen

    at half past five o’clock in the evening

    Hammond Castle

    80 Hesperus Avenue

    Gloucester, Massachusetts

    Reception to follow

    at seven o’clock in the evening

    Hawthorne Hotel

    18 Washington Square West

    Salem, Massachusetts

    For details and directions:

    http://www.XXXXX.com

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  • Amanda
    Master January 2017
    Amanda ·
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    Details card! Our wedding had 2 different locations for ceremony and reception as well. We had a Details card that included the address of the reception venue and our wedding website (which had a map and directions on it), but I know many/most people put the address and directions on the card.

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  • Caitlin
    Master July 2017
    Caitlin ·
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    I prefer having them on the same card and set up how people have suggested with just listing the addresses. We are doing this and while yes it saves money, I hate getting invitations and there being a lot of different inserts to have to keep track of. I've seen a lot of set ups with both ceremony and reception listed on invitationsbydawn.com which may help you with layout/wording if you need more help.

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  • Paige
    Just Said Yes September 2018
    Paige ·
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    Where did you find invitations that had enough space for both?
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  • M
    Beginner August 2017
    Mary ·
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    I got them at Vistaprint, they came out really nice and extremely affordable! You can also jazz them up a bit depending the quality of the card, matte, gloss, etc.
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  • M
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Martie ·
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    Is it odd or out of place to consider putting reception information on the back of the invitation? The front would have the ceremony information and mention a reception to follow, and then on the reverse you could put your reception venue and rsvp info if you wanted? It would save on cost if it's only one card to send, but not sure how well it would be received.

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  • Jahnese
    Beginner October 2019
    Jahnese ·
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    This thread is amazing! I am working on my invitations too, but my pickle is...I don’t have a Vegas venue yet! 🤦🏾‍♀️ So my thought was to just put “reception to follow” on the invitations, and once the RSVP date comes, I’ll know exactly how many people to plan for (we are planning really early since it’s a destination wedding, so having an early RSVP date still gives plenty of time to book a venue.) suggestions? I just don’t want to commit to a place on the invitations and then when the day comes we are going somewhere else. Oh btw, transportation will be provided for the guest to get to and from the venue
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