My FH and I have decided our dream wedding would be on the beach in San Diego. Our families and friends live in NJ and majority of them wouldn't be able to travel that far so rather than making people feel obligated to be there or having important people miss (like my mom and grandparents who won't fly or can't afford to) we've decided to have an intimate ceremony just the 2 of us. We did however book a reception in NJ for 2 months later so we can still celebrate with everyone. My FH wants to keep it a secret from everyone until after the ceremony but I think our parents should know so they don't feel hurt and like we didn't want anyone there. My biggest fearing of eloping is hurting my family but ultimately it's our wedding and this is what we want. How would everyone else handle this?
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