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What Size Cups Should I Get For Mixed Drinks?
Kelley, on March 17, 2016 at 12:15 PM

I'm thinking 16 ounces is too big. For a few reasons. The obvious is that I don't want people getting too drunk,the others are watery drinks after a few minutes of sitting and also the financial part...

Evony, Jan 30, 2020 11 13,766
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Unhappy with fiance's selection of groomsmen
Ashley, on January 28, 2020 at 11:36 PM

Okay, so I cant help but feel like maybe I am being petty, but Im unhappy about one of my future husband's groomsman. We agreed to do 3 bridesmaids/groomsmen plus a best man/maid of honor, so 4 total....

Teresa, Jan 29, 2020 16 2,883
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Explanation for No Reception With Wedding Announcement?
Andrea, on January 28, 2020 at 3:58 PM

We are two days away from our elopement. (Yay!) I am starting to put together our wedding announcements so that I can get those mailed out soon after the ceremony. We are not hosting a reception as we...

Jennifer, Jan 29, 2020 10 3,048
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Pre-wedding Send-off vs Post-wedding Reception
lauren, on September 12, 2018 at 4:16 PM

Hi! My fiance and I both live in Canada but I am from Scotland - I have only lived here for the past 2 years and all of my family and most of my friends are still in Scotland. We are getting married -...

Ashleigh, Jan 28, 2020 3 221
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Jamaica Destination Wedding
Ida , on July 11, 2017 at 12:07 AM

I've been doing a little research on resorts in Jamaica to have my wedding. I came across a few great resorts but the one that stuck out to me the most was Moon Palace in Ocho Rios Jamaica. I haven't...

Alden, Jan 28, 2020 23 1,423
Natalie
Controlling Mom
Natalie, on February 24, 2017 at 9:21 PM

Anyone else dealing with an over opinionated and controlling mom during your wedding planning process? I swear my mom thinks my wedding is her second wedding. She wants to alter my dress the way she...

Brooke, Jan 28, 2020 16 3,966
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Invited to be Bridesmaid but don't know Bride
Jen, on January 26, 2020 at 1:42 PM

So. My boyfriend's very best friend in the world is a girl, and she is getting married this year. My boyfriend is going to be her Man of Honor. I was very excited to get to attend the wedding....

Maggie, Jan 27, 2020 10 1,433 2
Mrsbdg
Guest attire: How much say does the couple get?
Mrsbdg, on September 6, 2019 at 3:37 PM

Hey y’all! Well. My dad is getting married in December 🙄 As planning has gone on his FW has really pushed my sister and I around and I’m curious if my hatred towards her is tainting my judgement...

Lené, Jan 27, 2020 204 5,108 4
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Alcoholics and a wedding
Haley, on October 23, 2016 at 7:13 PM

My family has several alcoholics in it and there are a few on DH's side as well. Instead of telling them they aren't invited, we decided not to have any alcohol at the wedding or reception. Any advice...

Megan, Jan 26, 2020 127 2,634
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Am i being Selfish / Wrong
Margo, on January 23, 2020 at 11:48 AM

My fiancée and I got engaged last May (2019) and for his proposal it was extremely important he include his son (from 1st marriage) in the proposal. We wanted / want to plan our wedding date around...

Theresa, Jan 26, 2020 42 944
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Bridal expo
Stefanie , on December 29, 2017 at 5:46 PM

Who should I invite to the bridal expo? My MH brought the event to my attention but I'm not sure who I should extend the invitation to. Also who should i invite to my dress fittings and shopping?

Peter, Jan 26, 2020 11 389
Preslee
Groom Gift- boudoir shoot?
Preslee, on August 15, 2018 at 9:32 AM

What did y'all (if anything) do for your groom gift the day of? I'm thinking about doing a boudoir shoot and making a photo book for the day of, but its SUPER out of my comfort zone. Did anyone do...

Holly, Jan 24, 2020 18 3,933 1
Millie
Tattoos and Wedding Dresses
Millie, on May 23, 2017 at 2:06 PM

Hey ladies! For those of us who have visible tattoos, do you plan on covering it up with makeup or a particular dress style? Or leaving the tattoo exposed? If you have used tattoo makeup, which is the...

Gab, Jan 24, 2020 74 725
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Leftover food for donations?
Rachel, on January 24, 2020 at 4:18 AM

So while attending a wedding, I was extra aware of how much food there was; in chaffing dishes, on butler passed plates... And I got this crazy feeling that at the end of the event.. SO MUCH FOOD...

Mandi, Jan 24, 2020 15 2,209
Brianna
Groomsman hair
Brianna, on January 17, 2020 at 2:39 PM

Hey everyone, I need some advice. One of my FH's groomsmen is... well known for making poor choices. He often says things that are inappropriate for the situation or just makes bad judgement calls in...

KAREN, Jan 24, 2020 13 1,204 1
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Hotel room/bachelorette party who pays?
Megan, on January 20, 2020 at 1:20 PM

I am currently living in a different state then my bridesmaids because of military duties, but we are having our wedding in my home state. Since it would be hard to get everyone together for a...

Meaghan, Jan 24, 2020 9 1,506 1
Baker
Dress Code
Baker, on January 7, 2020 at 3:53 AM

Hi, I'm Baker! My question is: How do I get my guest to dress formal for my wedding? My immediate family dresses up all the time for events and themed parties. However, my cousins and the groom's...

Courtney, Jan 23, 2020 78 2,368 4
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Removing a Bridesmaid
Tera, on July 1, 2018 at 9:41 PM

I have a bridesmaid who is suppose to be my BFF but can't seem to attend any events I put together. She was unable to shop with the rest of my girls for bridesmaid dresses, she threw a fit because she...

Julie, Jan 23, 2020 26 2,518
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Drinks provided at Wedding Reception
Shannon, on October 27, 2016 at 9:55 AM

What is a common for drinks that are provided at weddings for the guests? Here are the options we are tossing between: 1- All you can drink all night 2- All you can drink for cocktail hour THEN Beer,...

Allison, Jan 22, 2020 24 551
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Asking groomsmen??
Alyson, on August 7, 2016 at 9:03 AM

Hey yall! So I made cute little favors for the girls I want to be my bridesmaid and I want to do something similar for our potential groomsmen but my fiance literally just wants to ask them straight...

Alina, Jan 22, 2020 17 950
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