Got uninvited to a wedding and my Husband blames me

I mean the situation sucks but unfortunately it's ultimately up to her on who to invite. Sorry you are having to deal with that.

What was her post saying?

If anyone called me immature and petty, I’d uninvite them too. Sorry, girl, but I don’t think you were in the right here. They absolutely have the right to uninvite anyone for any reason. You asked her about it, and she answered. Even if you thought otherwise, you should have dropped it.

But she doesn't want you to go after the interaction. It is what it is and you need to respect her wishes. Next time, I wouldn't make assumptions about things over social media (even if the assumption is correct, what good does it do to cause drama over something so pointless?)

At the end of the day even if you felt the post was about you like others have said you should have let it go. Vent to your hubby if you felt that way but that should have been it. I read your posts and I know you feel you just called her out but sometimes people take that personal. I think you feel that you were just being straight up and she felt attacked. Fbook is drama as is most social media. I am sorry if I sound rude but it sounds like you got very heated and reacted inappropriately. Even asking her husband if the post was about you was out of line. As others have said and I hope you see this perspective but you basically went off on her for a post on fbook and then after she said it was not about you you called her petty and immature. If someone came at you the way you came at her would you still invite them to a big day in your life? I doubt you would. No one would want someone that was disrespectful to them at their wedding and truthfully if you did feel she made the post about you why would you want to go to her wedding still? If I felt someone was disrespecting me on social media, be it the case or not, I would not take time out of my life to attend their event and give a wedding gift. I am sorry to say but if someone that was supposed to be my friend came at me how you did I would dis invite them too and no longer be their friend. It sounds like the interaction did cause issues with them and your husband too so he kind of has a right to be upset about that. I think you should apologize to them all and if anything ask her husband to at least allow the husband to remain in the party and attend the wedding even if you do not. Not trying to be rude to you but trying to be honest and hopefully show you a different perspective.