Got uninvited to a wedding and my Husband blames me

I'm sorry, but if this was a situation I was in as the bride, I would absolutely not want you at the wedding. I don't know why you would want to be there as it is. No one wants added stress, drama, or the possibility of feeling uncomfortable on their wedding day. If you two don't get along but your BF if good enough friends with the groom, I think maybe he could still go but it'd be an event you'd have to sit out for. It sounds harsh, but I think you overreacted to something in a negative way.

Okay after reading some more of your comments it seems that you feel she is in the wrong and you are not and I do not think any of us can make you see otherwise. You do not have to like her decision but it is what it is. Let it go and move on with your life and have a happy one.

Are you guys in middle school?

Unfortunately, I think it is just best to let this go at this point. She doesn't want you at the wedding because of how you treated her. Maybe she was talking about you in the post, maybe she wasn't. But you went a little too far calling her names and then honestly, you can't expect to still have a seat at her wedding. It isn't right... and I agree with Chrysta, now your partner has to miss his buddy's wedding because of your actions. This could have all been avoided. And the little bit about the mental health thing and saying your friend is a joke is not nice, to be honest. When people hurt my feelings or say disrespectful things, it gives me anxiety and some stress so that part kind of made me raise my eyebrow. If you think she is a joke, you shouldn't be surprised about not being invited to her wedding. I would consider this friendship over at this point.

She absolutely has the right. You called her out on something that you didn't have the full story to and then they proved that she was referring to her grandfather and not you at all. And you blocked her on social media... If one of my guests did that, I'd assume that they weren't coming anyway.

You don't need that kind of negativity in your life. Cut off contact with her. She seems narcissistic anyways

Why would she invite you to her wedding if you are creating drama? Regardless of whether or not the original post was about you, if you are going to go ahead and call someone immature and petty and block them on social media then I think they'd be crazy to want you at their wedding. No one wants drama at their wedding and she uninvited you for that exact reason.

I just want to start by saying that I'm not trying to be mean at all when saying this. Honestly, she has every right to un-invite you to the wedding b/c it's their wedding. After she said the post wasn't about you, you should've dropped it. Only she knows who the post is about b/c she posted it. I'm not sure if you feel some type of guilt from her post b/c it may be about something you did or said in the past that her grandpa has done recently (which could be why it was recently posted); but I don't know what the post is about, and it's none of my business. But, by keeping the communication going after she told you it isn't about you and calling her petty and immature, I'm not surprised that she uninvited you. I 100% would uninvite one of my guests if they acted that way and came at me like that. I wouldn't want that negativity and awkwardness at my wedding. It's fine to vent to others about the post if you think it's about you, but again, only she knows who she posted it about. I'd be more worried at this point that you've completely ruined you and your husband's relationship with this couple. I do agree with your husband though. I think you've now created unnecessary drama.