Got uninvited to a wedding and my Husband blames me

My husband and I were invited to his friends wedding until I made a fuss about a post the Bride posted. I assumed she was talking about us. When I asked I wasn’t the nicest but she did that to me in high school. she said it wasn’t and that she was talking about her grandpa and only asking for advice about the situation but I know it was about us. I asked her fiancé if the post was about us and he said maybe. (He was living with us until he finished college. They were doing long distance) I took his word for it and sent her a long message telling her she is immature and petty then told her she has a record of it. Which probably wasn’t ok to say since I told her a year ago we’d start on a clean slate. I then blocks her on everything. My husband told me I was creating unnecessary drama and showed me a text from his friend of a screen shot of her grandpa and her talking about the post. Then told me she hasn’t been anything but kind to us since we met and I shouldn’t use her pass against her. I still think it was about us. She never responded until a week later telling me she wasn’t talking about us and that I was disrespectful and we are uninvited to their wedding because she feels uncomfortable and tired of the drama and disrespect. Just because I called her out doesn’t mean I started anything. I was defending my relationship. Do they have the right to uninvite us? I think she needs a better reason.