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Jessica
Honeymoon fund/bridal shower
Jessica, on February 7, 2020 at 10:47 AM

So we are doing a honeymoon fund instead of a registry. Any website suggestions? And what would you do for a bridal shower since you wont be opening that much gifts if any at all?

Aurora, Feb 11, 2020 27 2,860
Future Mrs. St Hillaire
Liquor License for reception need help
Future Mrs. St Hillaire, on June 8, 2011 at 11:03 AM

My reception venue has informed me I need a liquor license. I live in Florida and don't know where to look. I have been googling and haven't came up with anything. If any of you brides that lives in...

James, Feb 11, 2020 20 17,682 1
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My name was not included on my boyfriend's wedding invitation
Felicia, on February 8, 2020 at 11:27 AM

Hey ladies! I need some advice please. My boyfriend recently received a wedding invitation from his friends and my name was not included. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years and have...

MIWM, Feb 11, 2020 24 6,351
Adalyn
Bridesmaids and Bras
Adalyn, on February 9, 2020 at 12:37 AM

So I'm wanting to do spaghetti strap dresses for my bridesmaids and am wondering if anyone had any thoughts on whether skin-toned bra straps would be tacky if they showed. I don't want my girls to...

Hanna, Feb 10, 2020 16 2,047
Corie
Bridesmaid (sister in Law) is ignoring me 😞
Corie, on February 9, 2020 at 11:17 AM

I am in a pickle. I have a very small bridal party (My MOH, my brothers girlfriend, and my fiancé’s sister). While my MOH and the my brother’s girlfriend have been very involved in all the process...

Judith, Feb 10, 2020 21 1,842
Zoe
Got uninvited to a wedding and my Husband blames me
Zoe, on February 3, 2020 at 6:16 PM

My husband and I were invited to his friends wedding until I made a fuss about a post the Bride posted. I assumed she was talking about us. When I asked I wasn’t the nicest but she did that to me in...

Cassandra, Feb 10, 2020 46 3,434 1
T
Open Bar vs Cash Bar - need help choosing
Tianna, on July 10, 2017 at 11:57 AM

I was under the impression that it was proper etiquette to have an open bar for guests. They are traveling, celebrating and bringing a gift. I was under the impression that the least we could do is...

Sashika, Feb 10, 2020 51 1,310
FutureMrsAF
Want to have private wedding, but feel like a jerk.
FutureMrsAF, on January 28, 2017 at 5:08 AM

For brides who have eloped/small wedding/private wedding or are thinking about it. I love the idea of a tiny wedding (parents, siblings, a couple close friends). I'm just not big on spending loads of...

Rizz, Feb 6, 2020 22 5,848 1
Lianne
No Kids at the Bridal Shower?
Lianne, on April 6, 2011 at 7:39 PM

Several of my close friends including two of my BMs have children under 3. While they're welcome at the wedding, I would really like my bridal shower to be adults only. I know a few of my friends will...

Vicki, Feb 6, 2020 14 8,693
Rebecca
Shower gifts - dealing with returns?
Rebecca, on July 25, 2017 at 11:52 AM

This past weekend was my shower, and I had a very nice time. I am so grateful that people took the time to come and gave us gifts. We did have one issue - 90% of the gifts didn't come from our...

Felicia, Feb 6, 2020 25 2,629
Future Mrs. R
Why do everyone feel they should be entitled to an invite? Vent...
Future Mrs. R, on July 5, 2014 at 10:49 PM

I can't believe how many people are offended that they are not getting an invite. I also can't believe how people invite themselves and other people to your wedding. I am sorry but if I have not...

Lily, Feb 6, 2020 14 2,397
Elyssa
Bachelorette party gone wrong.
Elyssa, on February 4, 2020 at 11:23 PM

Hey guys, I need to know if I’m in the wrong or if my sister is... I’m eloping at the end of April. I was supposed to get married in June and due to stress and money we decided to elope and are so...

Neeva, Feb 5, 2020 11 1,624
#mattsmrs18
CYS Boudoir Photography: is it a scam?
#mattsmrs18, on August 6, 2016 at 1:26 PM

At one of the bridal expos I went to in June I entered to win a boudoir shoot. Well, a couple of weeks ago I received an email saying that I was one of the second place prize winners wining...

Valerie, Feb 5, 2020 18 8,700 1
Anna
Invite to reception only
Anna, on February 10, 2016 at 9:25 PM

Hi all, I'm looking for your thoughts on a intimate ceremony with a large reception. I've been going back and forth with wanting a small wedding, then changing my mind and wanting a big one. I really...

Amy, Feb 5, 2020 42 9,529
S
Is 8-9 weeks before wedding date to early to expect rsvp responses?
Shannon, on February 3, 2020 at 8:59 PM

Here's the thing, our vendor contract explicitly states that changes to our package are to be made no later than 8 weeks out. As it stands right now (we hopefully have the invite list where it needs...

Vicky, Feb 5, 2020 16 5,227
O
Jack and Jill/bridal Shower question
OL7889, on February 16, 2018 at 10:23 AM

Hi everyone, My fiance and I are torn and have a question regarding etiquette for this... So we knew from the start that we wanted a Jack and Jill shower. I don't want a bridal shower at all. However,...

Mariah, Feb 4, 2020 30 7,546
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Bridal Shower - should MIL be invited?
Vanessa, on January 4, 2017 at 10:00 AM

What is the etiquette regarding bridal shower guest invites? Should the MIL be invited? My mom and BMs are the ones hosting the shower.

Haven, Feb 4, 2020 22 2,656
Sarah
What time do i put on invitations? Ceremony start time or arrival time?
Sarah, on February 24, 2018 at 1:09 PM

The ceremony starts at 4pm should I put 4 on the invitations? I've heard it's smart to put 30m before on the invitations in anticipation of late guests. This seems like a good idea because I have been...

Rebma, Feb 4, 2020 17 8,801
pinksplashshell
Stacking rings before the wedding?
pinksplashshell, on December 10, 2019 at 10:44 PM

So how do y’all feel about stacking rings before the wedding? I know that traditionally, women wear an engagement ring alone and then add the wedding band at the wedding ceremony. But what do y’all...

Sakinna, Feb 3, 2020 16 5,410 1
Lorren
BYOB Wedding?
Lorren, on August 1, 2011 at 3:57 PM

My FH and I aren't planning on purchasing alcohol to serve at our wedding reception, both because neither of us drink at all and because we want to save money. I know it's pretty traditional to have...

Elizabeth, Feb 3, 2020 54 16,796
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