Skip to main content

Etiquette and Advice

Join group

Manners matter! From addessing envelopes to wedding dress codes, we'll help you navigate wedding etiquette questions so you are ready to handle every situation with grace.

24,259
Members

Discussions

Sort by:
Last comment
  • Messages
  • Visits
  • Last comment
  • Date
  • Unanswered
Kari
Invited to Bachelor Party but Not Wedding
Kari, on March 14, 2020 at 11:19 AM

So my FH sent his best man a list of about 10 guys he definitely wanted invited to his bachelor party along with 5 alternates, the idea being that if a bunch of the original guys couldn't go and a...

MrsD, Mar 16, 2020 29 6,135 1
L
Wedding Photos - Are you including long term girlfriends/boyfriends of siblings?
Laura , on May 29, 2019 at 9:30 AM

Not sure if we should include sibling girlfriends or boyfriends in family photos.. Thoughts? I have considered doing one without and one with but I don't want to waste our time on our wedding day!

, Mar 16, 2020 25 5,002
Shawna
sweetheart table...big no no or good idea?
Shawna, on January 31, 2012 at 6:27 AM

Hi folks! So I have been thinking about seating for the reception and am contemplating doing a sweetheart table where my FH and I would sit at a round table at the front facing the guests...I like...

Kaitlin, Mar 15, 2020 51 10,993
Nicoletta
Tattoos on bridesmaids: What should I do?
Nicoletta, on July 17, 2014 at 5:27 PM

During our dress fittings, I found out that two of my bridesmaids have tattoos, while I fine with what ever they want to get on their body in their personal life, I am not really a tattoo person and...

Katie, Mar 14, 2020 96 10,385
Mandi
Postponing Wedding and Gifts You’ve received
Mandi, on March 13, 2020 at 12:19 AM

Hi all. Today we made the hard decision to postpone our wedding because we are in the greater Seattle area. We have already received cash gifts towards our honeymoon. Do we offer to give the money...

Vicky, Mar 14, 2020 6 337
K
To do a first look or not?
Kamerin, on March 11, 2017 at 6:08 PM

Debating on whether or not to do a first look. I like the idea of getting all the photos out of the way first, but also like the idea of the "big reveal"!

Emily, Mar 13, 2020 41 3,749
P
Anniversary Tier of wedding cake eaten 😢
Patricia, on March 10, 2020 at 10:34 PM

First I’ll admit I’m really having a hard time getting over this ... so please help me with your opinions, or at least hear me vent a little? At our daughter’s wedding this past weekend, I was quite...

Kari, Mar 13, 2020 36 729 1
Erin
Same birthday & wedding day- ideas to celebrate?
Erin, on March 12, 2020 at 12:34 PM

My fiancé and I have the same birthday, October 24th, just three years apart. We are so excited because it falls on a Saturday this year, and we are getting married that day as well! I’m wondering if...

Jessica, Mar 12, 2020 4 3,155
Erin
Best friend with anxiety/depression as bridesmaid
Erin, on March 12, 2020 at 1:00 PM

I am getting married in October 2020 and I just asked all my bridesmaids to be in my wedding. My best friend of over 10 years is one of them. She has had generalized and social anxiety for most of...

Samantha, Mar 12, 2020 6 1,979
M
Wording for rsvp follow up
Monica, on March 10, 2020 at 1:54 PM

Our rsvp deadline is Saturday. Im so ready to start harassing (just kidding) ppl to ask them if they are coming or not. Im really anxious about our guest count because our count went up by A Lot. So...

Monica, Mar 11, 2020 15 6,176 4
K
Bridesmaid & i Grew Apart
K. T., on February 16, 2020 at 12:17 PM

One of my bridesmaids and I have really grown apart. She and I never hang out, text or talk, and historically, I was almost always the one to initiate hanging out. There's no drama and we haven't had...

Claudia, Mar 11, 2020 17 1,366
Spunky kraut
Can You Recommend Any Good Websites for Gourmet Gift Baskets?
Spunky kraut, on March 19, 2011 at 9:12 PM

I'd like to get each of my 3 aunts a gourmet food gift basket since they were thoughtful enough to throw a shower for me. I need to steer clear of any alcohol-related baskets as my uncle is an...

Jaclyn, Mar 10, 2020 12 66
C
Sponsors
Christina, on March 21, 2017 at 2:19 AM

How do you get your wedding sponsored? Is it even possible?

Thats, Mar 9, 2020 70 1,075
Liz
I had to fire a bridesmaid....Long story inside
Liz, on February 20, 2014 at 2:51 PM

I had to fire a bridesmaid yesterday....or, politely ask her to resign, I should say. It was a giant accumulation of things that led me to ultimately feel like I didn't want her in my bridal party. It...

Morgan, Mar 9, 2020 63 2,126
A
Best Man Plus One
Analie, on March 6, 2020 at 4:56 PM

My best man started dating this girl two months ago and he wants to bring her to my wedding in two months. I am very happy for him that he has found someone that he is fond of but I am worried she...

Andrea, Mar 7, 2020 12 1,754
Samantha
Invitation wording for casual attire
Samantha, on May 4, 2017 at 8:45 PM

Having an outdoor BBQ type wedding. I want to let my guests know that they don't have to wear formal attire or heels, since we will be outside on grass in August on a potentially hot day, but I don't...

Sammy, Mar 7, 2020 21 14,366 1
C
Asking ex best friend to be in my wedding?
Christina, on June 9, 2019 at 1:49 AM

Desperately need some unbiased opinions and advice. Long story short, my ex best friend and I are in the beginning stages of reconnecting after a disastrous and awful falling out 4.5 years ago. We’ve...

, Mar 6, 2020 17 1,569
Colleen
Cupcakes? How many per person
Colleen, on July 3, 2017 at 9:02 PM

We are doing cupcakes as a dessert, we will have 6 flavors (chocolate, vanilla, reeces, salted caramel, carrot cake, and brownie). I just looked up how many per person and since we are having more...

James, Mar 5, 2020 25 2,947
Jacqueline
It's 2020: Is it still "rude" to invite people to the dance only?
Jacqueline, on March 3, 2020 at 1:30 PM

We're trying to have a small wedding and keep costs low. We were planning on having a small ceremony with dinner then open up the dance to more people. We'd have appetizers and drinks. Has anyone else...

Sherry, Mar 5, 2020 19 2,343 1
Hannah
Absent Bridesmaids
Hannah, on May 21, 2017 at 11:32 PM

Hey ladies! So this is my first time posting in the forums and I was so hesitant to do so, but I need some advice. My Maid of Honor and my bridesmaids have not been a part of the wedding planning...

Hannah, Mar 5, 2020 80 3,676
WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Explore how we embrace diversity

Groups

WeddingWire article topics