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Cathy
Asking to be in bridal party via text??
Cathy, on March 30, 2020 at 12:13 PM

Hey guys! So I'm getting married March 27, 2021. I'm planning to ask one of my friends to be a bridesmaid, but with all the COVID-19 things happening, I havent asked her to be my bridesmaid "properly"...

MeetTheRobinsons, Apr 3, 2020 17 11,043 1
Mandi
How did you get addresses for save the dates/invites?
Mandi, on February 3, 2017 at 6:11 PM

We have nearly 100 families we want to invite, and I don't know much of FH family very well as they are in another state...but they all will be expecting an invite. Embarrassingly, because of...

Kimi, Apr 2, 2020 30 2,463
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Coronavirus and Save the Date
Trinity, on March 17, 2020 at 9:30 AM

We are getting married in October of this year, Idk if I should send Save the Date out or not with everything that's going on with the coronavirus. I know it's recommended to send between 6-9 months...

Trinity, Mar 31, 2020 11 742
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Invitations - Should i include covid note?
Marki, on March 23, 2020 at 3:01 PM

Hi ladies! I am (planning on) getting married on May 23, 2020. Our invitations arrived today and we are still going to send them out since we are not going to make a final decision on whether or not...

Anna, Mar 29, 2020 7 330 1
Meghan
Shower gifts after postponement - Covid19
Meghan, on March 27, 2020 at 7:34 PM

I had my shower 3 weeks ago before event bans and the spread of the coronavirus took off. We had to postpone our 4-18-20 wedding but haven’t yet picked a new date. My question is because we are...

Tatiana, Mar 28, 2020 5 454
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Allowing kids at ceremony and not reception?
Allyson, on May 5, 2018 at 8:52 PM

I am working on an FAQ section for my website and I googled what to include and one section was about "Can I bring my children?" We are having an adult reception with the exception of the kids in the...

Alejandra, Mar 26, 2020 15 3,167
Jennifer
How to announce pregnancy at the wedding?? Help and ideas please! :)
Jennifer, on November 1, 2011 at 7:44 PM

So I will be over 12 weeks preggo at the wedding and we haven't told any family yet. (Only my best friend who is coming knows) I thought it would be fun to tell everyone at the wedding. None of FH's...

Florida Marlins, Mar 25, 2020 30 18,071 1
Patricia
Email template - Postponed due to Covid-19
Patricia, on March 22, 2020 at 12:55 PM

We went ahead and postponed our May 16 wedding. For those of you looking for a template, I am sharing the email I sent to friends and family yesterday. Please use it to help get you started! I know...

Jo, Mar 23, 2020 3 298 1
Kim
Change of date cards???
Kim, on May 29, 2017 at 7:43 PM

My fiancé and I booked our wedding for next march and sent save the date cards last month -early but more than 75% of our guest list are out of state and will be traveling so we wanted to give them...

Bella, Mar 23, 2020 5 479
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Break off engagement? Help!
Taylor, on October 23, 2018 at 6:53 PM

Hi everyone, I've been with my fiance for 2.5 years. We fell in love fast and moved in within 6 months of knowing each other. On our 1 year anniversary he proposed and we were so happy. Fast forward...

Jr, Mar 20, 2020 26 5,313
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Postponed Wedding Invites and Wording
Leah, on March 18, 2020 at 11:32 PM

Like many I had to reschedule our wedding. The date went from April to October. We think we’re still going to get married on the original date because 1) our Saturday wedding is now a Friday and our...

Lynnie, Mar 20, 2020 3 1,062
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Cash Bar: Ok or Bad Hosting?
Megan, on June 26, 2013 at 2:41 AM

Budget is tight and don't really have room for the $2,500 an open bar would cost...is it really that terrible to have a cash bar for the reception?

Katharine, Mar 20, 2020 37 278
Kayla
Bad Luck ??
Kayla, on March 16, 2020 at 10:04 PM

Hey y’all so with the whole virus thing going around my fiancé & I want to push back the actual ceremony and reception after all this settles. We still want to keep the same date and just do us at...

Kari, Mar 19, 2020 8 1,183
Amanda
Shy Brides Who Can't Dance?
Amanda, on March 7, 2020 at 9:22 AM

Any shy brides who also feel very weird even trying to dance in front of crowds? I'm not worried about the first dance but actually getting into the crowd and dancing with the guests. I've always had...

Kaylex, Mar 18, 2020 18 3,636 1
Suzanne
Downsizing Wedding Due to Coronavirus
Suzanne, on March 17, 2020 at 4:22 PM

My wedding is April 4th and my venue just notified me that because of the Coronavirus we can only have 50 guests or less. My RSVP's are at 70 ppl. We are going to cut it down to family only, which...

LB, Mar 17, 2020 6 351
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Cancelled Shower bc of Covid19
Rebecca, on March 14, 2020 at 2:15 PM

Ok, so I had to cancel my shower in my hometown and need some advice on the gifts people sent to me already (my mom had everyone send shower gifts to my house so I didn’t have to drag them home on the...

Shamra, Mar 16, 2020 12 1,603
Kari
Invited to Bachelor Party but Not Wedding
Kari, on March 14, 2020 at 11:19 AM

So my FH sent his best man a list of about 10 guys he definitely wanted invited to his bachelor party along with 5 alternates, the idea being that if a bunch of the original guys couldn't go and a...

MrsD, Mar 16, 2020 29 6,112 1
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Wedding Photos - Are you including long term girlfriends/boyfriends of siblings?
Laura , on May 29, 2019 at 9:30 AM

Not sure if we should include sibling girlfriends or boyfriends in family photos.. Thoughts? I have considered doing one without and one with but I don't want to waste our time on our wedding day!

, Mar 16, 2020 25 4,989
Shawna
sweetheart table...big no no or good idea?
Shawna, on January 31, 2012 at 6:27 AM

Hi folks! So I have been thinking about seating for the reception and am contemplating doing a sweetheart table where my FH and I would sit at a round table at the front facing the guests...I like...

Kaitlin, Mar 15, 2020 51 10,979
Nicoletta
Tattoos on bridesmaids: What should I do?
Nicoletta, on July 17, 2014 at 5:27 PM

During our dress fittings, I found out that two of my bridesmaids have tattoos, while I fine with what ever they want to get on their body in their personal life, I am not really a tattoo person and...

Katie, Mar 14, 2020 96 10,359
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