Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So if it were up to me I would elope. That's just the kind of person I am. Or have a small, backyard style wedding. But neither of these things are going to happen and I was initially happy about our...

My nephew is an 8th grader and I'd like to incorporate him in the wedding somehow. I was thinking he could be the ring bearer but my mother says he's too old for that; she seems to think that's for...

I've noticed a few posts about bouquet charms. My mom passed when I was 21 and my father is in a nursing home and it would be nice to have their wedding pic and a recent pic of me and my dad on charms...

I just received an No RSVP with a gift enclosed. The name on the check is wrong. My fh's name is Tim. The check reads Mr. and Mrs. James Lastname James is his middle name, and it's on the invitation,...

I'm on the fence about doing a rehearsal dinner, not quite sure is it necessary. I planned to do a rehearsal for the ceremony the day before, but really didn't want anything additional to do after...

I hate being that bride who wants all the attention, but I just want this time to be special. My future husband and I have been planning our wedding for a year (and its been very stressful, with lots...

This is sooooo not what I envisioned..... I am such a planner and I had an A list and a B list for this very reason. A family member said that they would help pay for some cost. So we didn't do the B...

I'm kind of stuck on something... I need to figure out how many save the dates to order. Do i get one for each invitation that i need to mail out? If they are family can i just send one per household...

I am having a maid of honor and a matron of honor and as I understand it one is no different than the other aside from one being married...but my boy also doesn't want to pick a best man out of the...

I've been married 100 days now. Woo hoo. I just recently had all my name information changed over and its kinda been a headache...mostly at work. I dropped my middle names(I had 2) and took my maiden...

My FH proposed to me 4 months ago with a beautiful ring. And I want to get that across that I think the ring is gorgeous. The thing is, it's not my style. When my FH and I initially started discussing...

I'm planning to feed my photographer and DJ since they are going to be at my entire reception however my videographer is only going to be at my reception for about 2 hour. I'm only having them for 4...

We're designing our STDs now... I am working on the wording, and wonder if you think it would be weird to say "Please save the date" instead of "Save the date"? No offence intended to anyone, but I...

My mother calls me like 5 times a day. It is driving me insane. I hate to hear my phone ring since its probally her. If I dont answer she then will text me and send me a FB message. It is driving me...

I started working for a small business about 6 months ago, but after 3 months of working there, my boss no longer needed me. He found a place for me in his other small business. My old coworkers from...

Just looking for some opinions to see if I'm expecting too much or making too big of a deal out of the situation. A little more background- The song was clearly defined in the wedding planning packet...

I have a final count for the guests attending the wedding, adults and children. However, I'm afraid of other people showing up or telling me last minute that they can make it now. My current number is...

My "professional photographer" lost my pictures! He took about 85% of the main photos on one camera which we now find had a damaged memory card, a camera with a wide angel lens on another camera...