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Chelly
having a friend as officiant
Chelly, on May 28, 2011 at 12:49 AM

FH made the suggestion today that we could possibly have a friend officiate our ceremony. I'm not completely against the idea, but I honestly don't know anything about this, the process, the...

Rayonda, Sep 26, 2013 24 729
Kali
*Update* To upgrade ring or not
Kali, on February 13, 2013 at 11:37 AM

Hi, I'm approaching my one year anniversary and my husband told me every year married I could get a .25 carat bigger diamond. The reasoning behind this is because we went with a IF clarity, D color,...

Kali, Sep 26, 2013 86 3,621
Kiera
unity candles on the beach, romatic or disaster?
Kiera, on September 23, 2013 at 1:23 PM

Anyone have a beach or outdoor wedding and do the unity candle? Fh wants this, im like eh take or leave it. We plan to get married in the surf so im not really sure how to incorplrate this into the...

T., Sep 26, 2013 8 85 1
Jennifer G
Does it all have to match?
Jennifer G, on September 25, 2013 at 2:39 AM

Well I am on stationary this month and i have ordered my STD's (going out next month wedding is in April) Ordered my invitations, now I am working on programs and menus. My theme is vintage victorian...

B'sWife, Sep 26, 2013 24 1,496
Megan
NWR: Safelite repair made crack worse!
Megan, on September 25, 2013 at 1:47 PM

So I just recently got a truck from my brother as a "gift" (96 chevy tahoe). There are a few things that needed to be done in order for it to go through inspection. One being fix 2 cracks in the...

Angela Marie, Sep 25, 2013 8 2,834
R
FI does not want mother/son dance
Rebeccakay33, on September 24, 2013 at 12:34 PM

My FI does not want a mother son dance...would that be weird not to do? They are not very close and she almost did not come. Anyone elso not have a mother/son dance when FMIL was at wedding?

Rebeccakay33, Sep 24, 2013 17 274
Lindy13
What did you wear morning of?
Lindy13, on September 23, 2013 at 11:09 AM

I am thinking I really want the cute white hoody that says Bride, but still not sure if I will be too hot in the hotel room. What did you wear?

sundaycupcake, Sep 24, 2013 36 650
sarah
Gamer Groomsmen...need suggestions
sarah, on September 23, 2013 at 2:30 PM

My FH and i are shopping for groomsmen gifts. here is the catch to the typical flask/lighter/knife/coke & rum pails/ watch traditions. none of them drink, all of them keep box cutters on them at all...

MissMadeline, Sep 24, 2013 10 163
Jillian
Plastic Catering Supplies?
Jillian, on September 23, 2013 at 11:56 AM

Thinking about using plastic catering supplies at my wedding. I would use square white plastic plates to make it look a little bit nicer but the plastic silverware is where I'm hesitating. We will...

May, Sep 23, 2013 16 759
A
Divorced parents: who should give a speech?
Another, on September 23, 2013 at 4:07 AM

My parents are divorced, but not in a pleasant way. For the reception, I think it would be superfluous for both to speak. My father paid for a large part of the wedding but is apathetic about...

Amy A., Sep 23, 2013 6 4,036
Love Is Real
Making my invites smell
Love Is Real, on September 21, 2013 at 9:00 PM

I believe that smells can put you in a mood....so I plan to store my invites in an air tight box with gardenia scented candles so when my guest receive them they have a nice sweet smell. But FH thinks...

Angie, Sep 23, 2013 26 1,918
C
Family schedules birthday party overlapping my bridal shower
Cali Bride 05, on September 21, 2013 at 4:21 PM

My wedding is 3 weeks away, so I'm looking for advice here since I'm trying really hard not to be THAT BRIDE. My bridal shower is next week, and today I received an invite from my cousin to his...

Cali Bride 05, Sep 21, 2013 5 738
AlexaJayne
do bridesmaids pay for their own dresses?
AlexaJayne, on September 19, 2013 at 1:11 PM

Or does the bride?

Smooches35, Sep 20, 2013 29 1,423
Alysa
Is it okay to read a speech?
Alysa, on September 19, 2013 at 9:15 AM

I am the maid of honor in my friend's wedding tomorrow afternoon. I have a speech written, but I'm wondering if it is okay to bring it with me for the toast. I have horrible anxiety when I have to...

Tiffany M. ( Tiffany, Sep 19, 2013 9 3,515
L
"father" duties at wedding with Uncle instead of dad--
Lindsey, on September 18, 2013 at 3:34 PM

Short back story-My parents divorced long ago, and have not had much contact with my dad until recently. I asked my uncle (pretty much my dad, moms brother) to walk me down the aisle and do the "dad"...

MrsJansson14, Sep 18, 2013 7 846
B
Destination Wedding: Bridesmaids??
Brittany, on September 10, 2013 at 8:07 PM

Has anyone had a Destination Wedding and NOT had bridesmaids? I am having a DW wedding and thinking about just having my sister as my MOH, cousin as flower girl, and my fiance pick his best man. The...

AngelaA, Sep 18, 2013 7 388
Harley_Bride102813
HELP! We are throwing a combo bachelor/ bachelorette party and a gf wants to bring her kid...
Harley_Bride102813, on September 18, 2013 at 1:05 AM

I don't know what to do. We are throwing a combo bachelor/ bachellorette/ FH Birthday party at a local bowling alley and invited adults only. But a girlfriend of mine, who I admittedly invited by...

Harley_Bride102813, Sep 18, 2013 21 2,053
LASHANDA
WHO KNOW ABOUT JEN JEN HOUSE FOR WEDDING DRESSES
LASHANDA, on September 14, 2012 at 3:34 PM

PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU LADIES THINK ABOUT JEN JEN HOUSE FOR ORDERING WEDDING DRESSES. JUST NEED TO MAKE SURE

Piper, Sep 18, 2013 25 277
Corina
I hate my new sister in law
Corina, on September 17, 2013 at 6:12 PM

I just needed to say that! We were married this past weekend, it was not perfect, but we are married and we were surrounded by so many people who love us so much. We had catering issues mainly and my...

T., Sep 18, 2013 15 108
Kyersten
morning ceremony, lunch reception :)
Kyersten, on September 17, 2013 at 3:50 PM

Am I the only one doing this? LOL Anyway, my ceremony is from 10:30am-11:30am and my reception is 12pm to 4-something-pm. What should my timeline kinda look like? Am I going to have to get up like,...

spring, Sep 17, 2013 12 4,923 1
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