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Calling off the wedding...ex-FH is at his Bachelor Party
Crystal, on August 17, 2013 at 10:45 PM

Seriously...his bachelor party was scheduled for the weekend after his birthday so as I write this he's at his "Birthday Party" aka former Bachelor Party. I know this shouldn't annoy the crap out of...

DesertBride, Aug 18, 2013 25 1,301
CathyBe
Casual backyard reception...
CathyBe, on August 16, 2013 at 3:49 PM

We are going to do a casual backyard pig roast reception. How do I tell people to bring lawn chairs? I don't want to rent chairs because they won't be very sturdy in out yard. I don't want people...

CathyBe, Aug 17, 2013 7 205
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Uneven wedding party - grand entrance
Stephanie, on August 17, 2013 at 10:15 AM

We will be having an uneven bridal party - 7 groomsmen and 3 bridesmaids. I'm not sure what to do for the grand entrance into the reception since there's no good way to pair everyone up. My options...

IrishLove™, Aug 17, 2013 7 3,179
HeWasHeavenSent
Bitter Female Friends
HeWasHeavenSent, on August 16, 2013 at 12:03 PM

I was talking to one of my friends the other day thanking her for the card & gift she gave me for my graduation. After the pleasantries, we started talking about the wedding. She told me that she was...

Lindy13, Aug 16, 2013 27 292
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Engagement Party Extended Family
B, on August 14, 2013 at 2:02 PM

My wife and I are throwing the engagement party for her sister. We are trying to plan out the guests who will be coming and my MIL is INSISTING her 6 siblings are invited or she will not come. The...

Out the Window, Aug 15, 2013 6 127
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Including my FH brother's wife in wedding party?
Elaine and Ryan, on August 14, 2013 at 12:17 PM

Should I ask my fiance's brothers wife to be a bridesmaid? I have known her 6 years, we started dating the brothers around the same time. My FH has 3 brothers and no sisters, so she is his sister...

Allyson, Aug 14, 2013 6 159
AndreaLily
Bridesmaid backed out 2 months before due to financial issues, we saved the date over a year ago...
AndreaLily, on August 14, 2013 at 11:36 AM

So my bridesmaid called to back out of our wedding 2 months before due to financial issues. We sent the Save the Dates 18 months ago. Our wedding is out of state in Alabama which is why we planned so...

Michelle, Aug 14, 2013 12 302
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is this weird?
Amanda, on August 13, 2013 at 11:12 PM

Ok I just need some opinions on this. Awhile back I asked my mom if she had anything from her wedding that I could wear for mine as my something old. The other day she gave me her garter. It could...

STBMsMullings, Aug 14, 2013 14 876
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Parents 35th wedding anniversary is my wedding date
Black DahliA, on August 13, 2013 at 1:46 PM

My parents and I will share the same wedding date. It'll be 35 years for them and I want to honor them in some way. Any ideas?

Shannon, Aug 14, 2013 9 237 1
Tara
What to do with extra/left over supplies from my wedding
Tara, on August 14, 2013 at 9:02 AM

Ok so my one year anniversary is sunday and I was sitting here thinking about all the extra favors and supplies, pew accents, programs, cards...everything wedding and I want to toss it. I hv access...

FutureMrsP, Aug 14, 2013 12 528
Chanel
blindfolded first look?
Chanel, on August 13, 2013 at 5:40 PM

I am still going back and forth on whether or not to do a first look. I have read pros and cons about doing it.but I really want hubby to see me for the first time coming down the aisle. has anyone...

Chanel, Aug 13, 2013 4 213
Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C)
One Groomsman Under-age
Nicole S. (formerly Nicole C), on August 12, 2013 at 2:16 PM

That GM happens to be my lil brother. He is 19 and everyone else is 24-26. I want him to not feel left out but I want the other guys to have a good time. So far they've been kind of busting him (which...

Married2013, Aug 13, 2013 13 438
CostumedBride
Is it crazy to get married on a thursday?
CostumedBride, on August 12, 2013 at 5:07 PM

We really want to do Halloween because of our theme but is it really crazy to get married on a Thursday and not a Saturday? I don't want our guests to be mad if they cant make it.

Eleanor, Aug 13, 2013 21 381
STBMsMullings
Hostess at your wedding?
STBMsMullings, on August 12, 2013 at 10:02 AM

Okay this may be something I don't even have to worry about but I've heard of people having hosts at their wedding. Is this normally your planner or coordinator? I thought maybe they handle back-end...

Mariah, Aug 13, 2013 12 2,788
Michelle P
How much to give the priest?
Michelle P, on August 13, 2013 at 7:41 AM

The church we are getting married at lists out fees that you have to pay for the wedding, such as $500 for the church, $50 for the sacritan, $10 per alter boy, $200 for...

Michelle P, Aug 13, 2013 10 3,958
Typewriter
Unresponsive Bridesmaid
Typewriter, on August 12, 2013 at 7:00 PM

Super long post so please bear with me here. So here's the scoop: way back in May, I had told my bridesmaid (Cynthia) that I would like my SIL to attend my bridal shower. Only hitch: SIL is out of...

DesertBride, Aug 13, 2013 14 100
CostumedBride
Halloween Costumes for Wedding
CostumedBride, on August 12, 2013 at 4:21 PM

I just got engaged & we are trying to plan our wedding for Halloween. It's going to be a big time crunch getting it planned in so little time but I think we can do it. So I want our wedding to be...

Mrs. C, Aug 12, 2013 39 2,502
Stacey
Inviting co-workers to Ceremony and Dance only. Poster, email? How to word?
Stacey, on August 12, 2013 at 10:18 AM

Has anyone extended an invite to the ceremony and dance only (not dinner) to some of your co-workers? I Just started a new job back in June and don't know a lot of the people well enough yet...but...

Latrice, Aug 12, 2013 27 600
Laura
New article on an ungrateful bride!
Laura, on July 4, 2013 at 11:33 AM

Http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3535780?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003&ir=Detroit How frickin crazy and rude!! And so far my average cost wedding with open bar is not $200pp.

Rubi, Aug 12, 2013 24 247
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To put or not to put "And Guest" on invitation envelope!?
Jenna, on August 10, 2013 at 12:16 AM

I have been trying to figure out if putting "and guest" will come across as inappropriate on the outer envelops for me invitations and I have read a lot of mixed reviews on the matter. I know that if...

Love113, Aug 11, 2013 10 31,028
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