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BalletShoesRachel
Monday-Morning wedding: Will anybody show up?
BalletShoesRachel, on July 20, 2013 at 4:09 PM

So I think this has already been discussed, but my mom keeps bringing this up (aka, nagging), and now my FI is really freaked out. We want a morning wedding, for the ambiance. We don't think it's...

Riki, Jul 24, 2013 73 350
Kelly
Guest Book Pro-Con
Kelly, on July 23, 2013 at 4:02 PM

OK-I am officially driving myself nuts trying to figure out what I am forgetting--guest books--anyone NOT doing one? I am not seeing a reason for one--and not sure what I would do with it afterwards?...

Gina Marie, Jul 23, 2013 19 184
Elizabeth
Almonds at Weddings - Do they have to be sugar coated?
Elizabeth, on July 23, 2013 at 8:56 AM

Apparently I need to have almonds at the wedding since it's going to a BFGW. Do they have to be candy coated? FH and I are not fans of all the chemicals they put in the coatings so I'm having a hard...

Norcal Bride, Jul 23, 2013 13 90
Robin A.
Advice on brother in law getting a divorce
Robin A., on July 23, 2013 at 9:38 AM

Hey! Been a long time since I've posted! My brother in law is divorcing his wife. She told him she hasn't loved him for a year and doesn't want to work on it. I feel SO badly for him!!! They've been...

D1, Jul 23, 2013 5 1,208
Norcal Bride
Maid of Honor & Plus One Dilemna
Norcal Bride, on July 22, 2013 at 2:03 PM

My maid of honor lives in another state. I am having a small wedding and she is my only attendant. When I invited her she had a brand new boyfriend, so I just sent the invitation to her. Since then...

Norcal Bride, Jul 22, 2013 22 422
Gabrielle
How to invite fighting friends?
Gabrielle, on July 22, 2013 at 12:50 PM

In high school, we were all thick as thieves. But recently, something happened and I have two groups of girlfriends instead of one because of a stupid fight. There's no chance of the group reuniting....

Mrs. ALM, Jul 22, 2013 9 400
Doris
Bridal Shower vs Bachelorette Party
Doris, on June 10, 2013 at 10:41 PM

What's the difference? Do I need both?

kori, Jul 22, 2013 7 4,131
Lacey
Advice Need Re: Dry Wedding & Troublesome Guests
Lacey, on July 19, 2013 at 9:36 PM

My FH and I opted to have a completely dry wedding. We don't drink and neither does my immediate family, so they much prefer we don't serve alcohol. However, my FH's family, tends to drink and both...

SA Bride!, Jul 22, 2013 43 275 1
Sabrina
Father Daughter Dance? Songs?
Sabrina, on July 20, 2013 at 11:57 PM

Hi All, I know there is probably a thread somewhere on here but I can't find one on this topic. I am in the final stretch of my wedding plans and need to select the song list for special components of...

Aileen, Jul 21, 2013 12 411
Brandt_Housewife
Wedding Party at Vow Renewal
Brandt_Housewife, on July 20, 2013 at 7:20 PM

So I know in etiquette a wedding party at a vow renewal is not something you would have, however, our vow renewal is also going to be like a wedding do over. We were both under 21 when we got married,...

Williams10-11-12, Jul 20, 2013 5 142
MrsReed
Folded Invitations!!!
MrsReed, on July 18, 2013 at 7:17 PM

Ok so I had a Bridezilla moment today when my invitations arrived. After reviewing, I noticed that the invitations were folded - like a Hallmark card, not the card stock style as I initially thought....

A2Ndhi, Jul 20, 2013 19 1,147
Terri
Another Program question.....Bride's escort???
Terri, on July 19, 2013 at 3:19 PM

My parents are both deceased, as most of you know from previous questions, so my 27 yr old son will be escorting me down the isle. he will also be an usher. Typically it is assumed that the bride's...

, Jul 20, 2013 3 604
MrsBrown13
Night before my wedding and all I'm doing is crying.
MrsBrown13, on July 19, 2013 at 9:38 PM

The one day I needed my mom to be here to help me she wasn't. She claimed she couldn't get to my house without my sister (who had to work) reading the directions from the GPS to her. After telling her...

Azbride, Jul 20, 2013 16 547
K
Heat wave! What to do??
K & C, on July 18, 2013 at 11:17 PM

My fiancé and I have booked our wedding in an outdoor venue for July 3, 2014 in Poughkeepsie, NY. The venue is absolutely gorgeous and has everything we want. HOWEVER, it has been extremelyyyy hot (95...

We'llAlwaysHaveParis, Jul 20, 2013 26 454
stanthewoman2014
Money! Income vs. Cost of the Wedding?
stanthewoman2014, on July 18, 2013 at 6:15 PM

I have had a very successful start to my year and my income has doubled and should triple by my wedding. Due to my new income I have not had a chance to save for the wedding. I am recently engaged and...

stanthewoman2014, Jul 19, 2013 18 7,500
Jennifer
Getting married and we already have a child
Jennifer, on July 18, 2013 at 12:25 PM

Is anyone else out there getting married and already have a child together? My FH and I have a 3 year old daughter. We joke that we have proven that no one else can stand either of us for so long so...

Jennifer, Jul 18, 2013 16 4,979
Mrs. Grissett-Johnson
Reception: How Long is Too Long?
Mrs. Grissett-Johnson, on July 17, 2013 at 5:31 PM

So today I started putting together a mock timeline for our Reception. See... 12:30 PM – Start Reception • 12:30 -1 pm o Cocktails / Mimosas • 1 pm – 2 pm o Introduction of Bride & Groom o 1st dance...

MrsC, Jul 18, 2013 30 1,931
Kyersten
wedding band "wrap"?
Kyersten, on July 17, 2013 at 2:58 PM

Hello all! This weekend I might be getting my wedding band, and I think I fell in love with a "wrap" wedding band. Does anyone have a wrap? I love the idea of fusing the two rings together (my e-ring...

Azbride, Jul 18, 2013 9 753
A
Not happy with my wedding photos
alison, on July 17, 2013 at 9:53 AM

I am not happy with how my wedding photos turned out.. do you think I should do a retake shoot or just move on? had anyone else ever not been happy with the results? thanks!

Just Reenski, Jul 17, 2013 6 494
K
Family Style for Vegetarians Etiquette
Kara, on July 16, 2013 at 9:42 AM

Hello! We've been planning our wedding on a short time frame. Because of that, we sent out invitations without a menu option selection because we figured we could do a family style service. (Plus, we...

Amber, Jul 17, 2013 20 279
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