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Jennifer
Dates for Groomsmen and Bridesmaids
Jennifer, on July 15, 2013 at 7:55 PM

Are unmarried groomsmen and bridesmaids expected to bring a date to the wedding/reception?

Jennifer, Jul 16, 2013 21 9,480
Michelle P
bug bites, help!
Michelle P, on July 14, 2013 at 10:56 AM

I was out doing yard work this morning and was eaten alive by bugs. I have so many bites on my legs it looks like chicken pox. They are puffy and ugly. My shower is next weekend. Please please help me...

Sarah, Jul 16, 2013 17 487
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Bridesmaids do I pay or do they?
Private User, on July 16, 2013 at 1:47 AM

So for my wedding I have made it very apparent when I asked my bridesmaids they will all be in the same dress because I have a "vision" of them matching just like the groomsmen will be in matching...

Melissa, Jul 16, 2013 13 355
Heather S
Reschedule bridal shower?? Need advice!
Heather S, on July 15, 2013 at 5:54 PM

Ok, I'll try this again. We are thinking of rescheduling the wedding to March 2014. My bridal shower is next month. My BFF who is hosting it has already been planning it for months and has changed the...

Ms. M, Jul 15, 2013 6 802
aspiecat
Older Bride, Younger Groom
aspiecat, on July 10, 2013 at 5:42 PM

My FH is younger than I am and while most people say "Oh, who cares about the ages being reversed? It's the 21st century!", most of them will still do a double-take when they realise that the bride is...

Jennifer, Jul 15, 2013 44 2,726
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Bridesmaid gifts?? I already bought their dresses for them.
Ashlee, on July 14, 2013 at 2:19 AM

I purchased the bridesmaids dresses for them, and have their jewelry purchased also, but I feel like I should do something's else? I have super cute compact mirrors to give along with the jewelry but...

Angel J, Jul 15, 2013 15 1,189
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Catholic Wedding "Fee"
Michael, on July 2, 2013 at 6:21 PM

I am looking for someone who has had a similar experience and can offer advice on what to do. My fiancé and I contacted our local Catholic church regarding receiving the sacrament of marriage and they...

Catrapoin, Jul 15, 2013 20 3,714
Stephanie
Engagement Picture Location Ideas.. Omaha/Lincoln, NE - Council Bluffs, IA Area. HELP PLEASE!!
Stephanie, on July 13, 2013 at 7:07 PM

Hello! My FH and I are going to be getting our engagement pictures done at the end of this month. We will be taking them somewhere in the Omaha, NE or Council Bluffs, IA area. Our photographer is from...

GuitarKat93, Jul 15, 2013 10 1,318
Stacy
Is the bride supposed to pay for anything at her bachelorette party?
Stacy, on July 12, 2013 at 10:59 AM

There will only be 3 of us at my bachelorette party because the 2 other ladies cancelled. My MOH is only willing to buy me one drink. My other friend is paying for my dinner. So should I have to pay...

SW517, Jul 14, 2013 27 1,409
Jackie
How To Tell a Close Friend She's Not a Bridesmaid
Jackie, on January 25, 2013 at 10:43 AM

I have a close friend who I didn't make a bridesmaid. I love her, and think she at least deserves to be told. What's the best way to phrase this awkward news?

MegRyan24, Jul 13, 2013 12 5,434
Marissa M.
2 faced Sister-in-laws
Marissa M., on July 6, 2013 at 8:38 PM

So my FH has 3 sisters. The older 2 have me wondering what they really think of me. The one has a 4 month old son and the other is getting married the day after Thanksgiving. So FMIL has not offered...

Briggitte Dix, Jul 12, 2013 15 83
MiaLee
Gifts for parents of bride and groom
MiaLee, on July 11, 2013 at 2:30 PM

Any suggestions? I'm lost as to what I should get them and what's an appropriate amount to spend!

Leslie, Jul 11, 2013 9 126
Gabrielle
How to ask someone if I can use their property?
Gabrielle, on July 11, 2013 at 12:59 PM

My dream wedding is in a huge brown or red barn. I live in Colorado. The back fileds here are dotted with beautiful barns. I imagine myself seeing the perfect one while driving one day, then...

Mrs. A. Fernandez, Jul 11, 2013 11 3,067
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Incomplete checks as wedding gifts
Private User, on July 11, 2013 at 10:59 AM

We just had a chance to look over all our wedding gifts. We did not have a registry, so most of our guests gave checks and cash. However, there were 1 or 2 checks that were incomplete (missing...

Sarah, Jul 11, 2013 8 2,440
♥MrsC♥
How to hide fake green stems?
♥MrsC♥, on July 10, 2013 at 10:15 PM

I'm using fake flowers for my wedding & reception. I bought some light pink tissue paper to stuff down in the vases to hide the fake green stems. It looks horrible. Any other ideas on how to hide the...

♥MrsC♥, Jul 11, 2013 4 150
Kelly
MIL and bridesmaid dresses
Kelly, on July 10, 2013 at 7:20 PM

Did/Is anyone taking their MIL to shop for BM dresses? I didn't because I would have had to pick her up (over an hour away) and take her home. The girls and I had a big day planned of dress shopping...

Kelly, Jul 10, 2013 7 55
DlovesD
Important advice for brides w/ a deceased parent
DlovesD, on July 9, 2013 at 4:49 PM

As many of you know my Dad passed away on Easter. Yesterday I designed my invitations and I googled how to word the invite. I was brought to The Knot site where it stated not to include my Dad's name...

DlovesD, Jul 10, 2013 22 610
June
pre-destination wedding etiquette
June, on July 8, 2013 at 4:11 PM

I am having a destination wedding. I know many friends of mine will not be able to attend due to time and expense. Should I still have a bacherlerette and invite those ladies, regardless of whether...

Zoe, Jul 9, 2013 5 145
Emily
Multiple invitations to the same household? No thanks!
Emily, on July 9, 2013 at 11:11 AM

I've read that the proper etiquette is to send individual invites to people over 18. I have 3 over-18 cousins who all live at home with their parents (same family). It seems ridiculous (not to mention...

TooManyMistys, Jul 9, 2013 17 3,068
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Adult affair only?
Yara T, on June 24, 2013 at 3:40 AM

Hi everyone! Im new to wedding wire. U all seem to have some great advice. We have to cut the guest list down to 200, so we decided to kids. Problem is my FH has a lot of family who has kids who are...

Yara T, Jul 7, 2013 2 624
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