Reschedule bridal shower?? Need advice!

Honest advice. If you're going to keep the shower date the same, I'd spread the reason why you're rescheduling. If I don't know why, I'd be suspicious if the 2 are you are having trouble. Thus, I might not be so generous in my gift.

I'd say leave it! It's not like its THAT much further away.

No need to upset a bridesmaid! I'd give her a heads up on the date change though!

Thanks!

Two reasons why we are rescheduling. One is FH needs heart surgery but doesn't have health ins, and most likely will get state aid starting Jan 1st IF he's single (as I make too much for him to qualify). Other reason, he lost his job and money has been tight and stressful for us. We need extra time to catch up.

Thanks, Lynzey. I'd prefer to postpone the shower, probably until December only because I don't know when FH will be scheduled for surgery in Jan.

I'd probably move the shower. Talk to your BFF about it (before you just up and change it) and make sure she's cool with hosting it if it's changed again. (My BFF is also doing mine. She'd probably tell me she wants to kick my ass, but she'd do change it if needed..lol). Like OTW said, I would be honest with your family and friends as to why you are rescheduling. Heart surgery is a big deal and I'm sure it's expensive. Most of them (hopefully all of them) will understand. Either way you do it, just be up front and honest.

If she already booked stuff (if it's not at a home or something) and she would loose deposits, etc I would keep it as planned. I would talk to her and figure out the best plan.