Night before my wedding and all I'm doing is crying.

Just breathe......relax...... can you call one of your BMs? Maybe they can help you or email the programs to someone else and they can print them out for you? Don't worry, it will all work out and your wedding day tomorrow will be amazing!

All that matters is that ur marrying the one u love. Why don't u do a sleepover in ur room with ur kids? That might be gun and relaxing for all of u

Hey Nena I'm in Chicago, if you need anything done for you big day let me know. I'm in the South burbs but I have no problem helping a fellow bride. Fyi I'm also a planner

Just relax and breath and everything will always works out. don't allow nothing to steal this joy from you. Can you have kinko's r Office Depot to print them in the am...

Carmen that was so sweet

I'm so sorry you are having a rough night! Does FH know how upset you are? Call up a bridesmaid and tell them to get to your house STAT!

Carmen you are awesome for offering assistance.

Nena I know the most important thing is that you will be marrying the love of your life tomorrow, but it hurts that your mom isn't being as supportive as she should. People can only be who they are and as much as we'd like to, we can't make them do what they should or is right. You can't control that The only thing we have control over is how we react and how we let their actions affect us. Pain is pain and hurt is hurt and just saying to let it go doesn't make it go away. But if you don't let go of your expectations of your mother, your beautiful day will forever be marred by her inattentiveness. You want it to be about the love he has for you and you for him. As suggested, call one of y our bridesmaids or a close friend or take Carmen up on her offer. It's your mother's loss. Big cyber hugs to you and God Bless tomorrow.

Sorry to hear you're so stressed just as you shouldn't be!

As the others have said, just take a deep breath, look at getting the programmes printed off for you, and spend that quality time spoiling yourself and your kids with a takeaway or something naughty hehe.

Thank you everyone so much and Carmen you are awesome! I just said screw this shit and me and my kids are in my bed watching Mickey mouse clubhouse. You guys are right. All that matters is I'm marrying the one I love.

I akways get that hotdog song stuck in my head after babysitting... hotdog hotdog hot diggity do! Good luck and enjoy tomorrow!

Your Welcome Nena its definitely not a problem. I know how it feels for ppl to flake on u at the last minute

Just relax it is your last night of stressing over this stuff...believe me I was like you the night before but the following night it all paid off. After the wedding I was like was I really stressing about A and B....enjoy your last night before the big day!!

@Jennifer S. damn you, woman!!!

Now I have managed to implant "ohhh too-oodles" in my head.

Nena, I'm sorry girl :-/ my mom is the same way, but at least she's 4 hours away, and wouldn't care if she helped or not. Call up a maid or friend...hell, call Pizza Hut or little Caesars :-P lol!!!

Don't stress, it'll all work out just fine!!!

As everyone has said-- focus on your marriage-- programs won't make you any more married. Do NOT let your mother ruin this for you! Have fun!

Just know that those little lovies with you tonight could care less about programs or other bumps in the road. They get to see their momma as the most beautiful bride in the world marrying her soul mate! Good luck and much love from your WW friends!!

Every day I read posts here and in the midst of all the drama and strange bms and in law issues I see someone like Carmen make a very unselfish offer like she did here. I think the support we get here at WW is the most beneficial that I have had since starting my planning.

My MOH and MOB are both out of state and unable to do very much to help me. My FSIL/BM is here but she has been extremely busy with her work and a family issue so I hate to ask much of her either. FH offers to help but he loses interest in the planning of stuff really quickly lol. So I do understand how left out you can feel at times. I am glad you spent the night with your kids and hope today is your most wonderful day of all.