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Wedding Party at Vow Renewal

Brandt_Housewife, on July 20, 2013 at 7:20 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5

So I know in etiquette a wedding party at a vow renewal is not something you would have, however, our vow renewal is also going to be like a wedding do over. We were both under 21 when we got married, with a child, and didnt have a big budget, so we had it at my aunts, and it was her way or the highway.

How could I still include them in my vow renewal? Would it be appropriate if they all wore matching attire like if a regular wedding & walked in with us also, but then maybe took their seats, or what does everyone think?

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Latest activity by Williams10-11-12, on July 20, 2013 at 11:56 PM
  • Tuesday
    Dedicated July 2013
    Tuesday ·
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    I'm having a wedding party at my renewal... So do what makes YOU happy!!!!!

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  • Alycia
    Expert October 2013
    Alycia ·
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    You don't get a do over. Have the renewal and throw a kick ass party. Could you say a few words at the reception to thank them for their support throughout the years? Or maybe just get them all corsages/boutonnières?

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  • Carmen
    Devoted September 2013
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    You can do whatever you want its your day and its your money. On Sept 16th, 2008 I got married at City Hall, 2 years later in 2010 we had a wedding with Bridal party that screwed up my day and all. Now this year we are having a 5 year vow renewal ceremony. Were doing a wedding party but my husband doesn't feel close to his brothers anymore.

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  • Kate
    Master December 2013
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    If they all wear matching clothes and walk in, that would make them a wedding party, yes?

    I am on the side of the fence that says you don't get a do-over. A vow renewal? Fine. But you don't get the whole shebang with the bridal party (you're a wife not a bride) and the spotlight dances

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  • Williams10-11-12
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    Williams10-11-12 ·
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    We got married 10-11-12 ( I was only 20) at the jp and we are having a big wedding next year. we are doing the whole thing wedding realted but all the before parties . I am have 7bms ans 7 gm . Its my party and i want what lol . ( Don't in a bad way just want the simple dream wedding ) feel free to connect with me if you need help advice just ask

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