So I know in etiquette a wedding party at a vow renewal is not something you would have, however, our vow renewal is also going to be like a wedding do over. We were both under 21 when we got married, with a child, and didnt have a big budget, so we had it at my aunts, and it was her way or the highway.
How could I still include them in my vow renewal? Would it be appropriate if they all wore matching attire like if a regular wedding & walked in with us also, but then maybe took their seats, or what does everyone think?