"Please" save the date? Yes or no?

I was debating this too but after looking at all the ones i received in the past we went with just save the date and after just doing a google search none say please

I just had my photographer put save the date Nicole and Michael are getting married

I believe saying, "please" will express how important it is for them to come.

Good question, we are getting ours done pretty soon and I didn't think of that. I may say Please Save the Date...sounds nice.

Sheida--Do you mean that people will think we really, really, want them there, or that we don't care so much, and therefore aren't "ordering" them to come?

I mean, I'm sure what you just said makes complete sense, but I'm having one of those days.

I've honestly never given it a second thought. Either is fine. I feel like "please" is a little bit more like begging them to come though.

We worded ours, "Kindly Save the Date."

I would just go with save the date.

We just did Save the Date, but I think if we used please I would word it "Please Save Our Date" instead of "the date". I don't know why, I just think it sounds better. I think I've seen some like that (online, not in person).

I intend to use "Please" i feel its more polite. I also like the suggestion to use "Kindly".

Thanks for the suggestions, everyone! We did end up using "please." We have a photo with "Save the Date" on the front, and the back is more of a formal "Please Save the Date." It looks great! Honey is working on finishing it up right now... maybe he will let me post it later!

If you send a STD, people will realize that you are serious about requesting their attendance, whether you use "Kindly", "Please", or nothing before "Save the Date". Really, people don't look that deeply into it. If you're sending a "STD", they get it. They're A List. All the way...

It's so traditional to just send out "Save the Dates" that I never thought it was rude. It's just a informal request. To each it's own, its a personal choice.

We just ordered ours today! i wrote "please save the date" didnt even think twice about it. i liked the way it sounded. worked for us

OMG, girls! They are turning out soooo cute! I can't wait to share!