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Just Said Yes October 2013

Inviting (old) Coworkers

Happy, on September 3, 2013 at 6:38 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5

I started working for a small business about 6 months ago, but after 3 months of working there, my boss no longer needed me. He found a place for me in his other small business. My old coworkers from my first job still made me a birthday cake and invited me out to celebrate others' birthdays from their office even though I didnt work there anymore. I went to their events and even a fundraiser. Now, they are throwing me a wedding shower,even though I dont work there anymore. They are inviting everyone from my new job and the old job to the shower (they share the same office building). I am on a very tight budget and am worried they expect to be invited to the wedding. My wedding is about 6 weeks away and I have already sent out the invites. If I did invite all of my coworkers from both my old and new jobs, I would be adding about 40 people to my guest list. Is it okay to just give them some nice thank you gifts like fancy chocolates as a thank you instead? Thank you in advance!

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Latest activity by Future Mrs. Coombs, on September 3, 2013 at 7:53 PM
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    Just Said Yes October 2013
    Happy ·
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    Also, another coworker from my old job is getting married around the same time, and he has invited everyone from my old office to go (except me), but he knew beforehand that everyone already had plans when he invited them (while people are free during my wedding weekend).

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  • Sarah D.
    VIP March 2013
    Sarah D. ·
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    Most coworkers don't expect to be invited to weddings, even if they throw you a shower. I would just do nice thank yous.

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  • Celia Milton
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    I wouldn't invite them. A big thank you is fine (though a big thank you with chocolate is better!).

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
    OMW ·
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    I was invited to a work shower and not the wedding. I wasn't insulted. I knew that I wasn't social with them outside of work.

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  • Future Mrs. Coombs
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    It depends how close you are to your coworkers. If you want to invite them because they are throwing a shower for you, I wouldn't but if you guys are actually close, I would.

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