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I have a few complicated relationships in my fam and while I don’t want those ppl to come to the ceremony I want to announce the wedding. I’m trying to mend the relationships, but not sure the drama...
Hi everyone. So I have been back and forth on this topic. We initially decided to not have a bridal party cause we don’t really have a ton of friends / family who care and I felt bad making our bridal...
So, I made the rookie mistake of asking my future sister in law (Fiancé’s brother’s wife) who does wedding photography if she’d like to do our engagement shoot. She said yes immediately and that she...
Help! I have two friends who I’d like to include in my wedding as helpers to make sure things are running smoothly. My future husband wants to have a small wedding party but I’d like to include two...
I recently sent out invitations and I had put my friend and his long term girlfriend on the invitation. I was unaware they broke up and he send back the invitation with his new girlfriend on it. We...
How much do you buy into this wedding superstition ? The superstition that a bride should have with her something old, new, borrowed, and blue, plus a silver sixpence, comes to us from Victorian...
Hi there, I am so excited for my Wedding Day coming up next year. I am looking at buying a high quality suit for both myself and for my Groomsmen. What's important for me is style, comfort and quality...
For starters both myself, fiancée, and in laws feel the same way about my fiancée brother. He has been with his GF for 3 years ( the same as me and my fiancee) But they both live at home with their...
Hi all! I have someone in my bridal party who I originally asked to be my matron of honor which has proven to be not a great fit. They are also going to walk with the flower girls down the aisle which...
My fiancé and I decided on having a dry/no alcohol and drug free wedding for multiple reasons but mainly because my fiancé is a recovering alcoholic as well as a portion of our guests. It’s...
My soon to be husband and I are having a destination wedding in Mexico. We invited about 110 people and are expecting 30 or less to be in attendance. Which is expected as it comes with the territory...
So we’re 60ish days out from the wedding, which means the RSVP’s are rolling in. My fiancé has an aunt and uncle from out of state that have grown children of their own and an abundance of...
Hello! I wish I didn't have to post this, but my fiance and I are really stressed over this. Our wedding is coming up very soon, but to keep costs (and stress) lower, we're doing a very small wedding...
So I was watching Four Weddings this morning and saw the groom walk his mother down the aisle to her seat and then take his place at the alter to wait for the brides entrance. Now I'm thinking about...
What are the pros and cons of a Zola "Newlywed Registry"? Our website is on Zola. We wanted to create a cash fund for starting to build a home on our land. It seems much easier to just use the...
Hi! i would like to ask about what do you/can you call the Sister of the father of the Groom to the wedding party? My fiancés dad has already passed. and we would really love to have one of his dads...
My husband and I got married over a year ago and we still have not received our wedding video! The package we chose was supposed to include: 8 hrs of service, 5-7 min highlight video, clean edits of...
How much should we be tipping our limo driver? The guy mentioned that we tip him when we booked, but neither of us have any idea how much! We are paying 1000$ for 5 hours of limo use if that...
My bridal shower was last Saturday. We had a modest catering spread delivered and set up by a small business (falafel platter, flatbreads, charcuterie, croquettes). In my opinion, the set up was not...
We honestly won't have the money to buy a lot of alcohol for our reception, however we will be buying 2-3 kegs of beer. Would it be wrong of us to ask our guess to bring their own alcohol...I'm...