Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Is it too early if I want to ask my MOH's and Bridesmaids 1 year and 5 months ahead? I really want to do it during Christmas time and if I wait until the next Christmas it would be too late.

I'm thinking of renting a couple of school buses to provide shuttle service for my guests to and from the hotel and our ceremony/reception space. However, my wedding is going to be a fairly formal...

So I had my MOH step down because she was just mentally stressed, having break downs and also taking out all of her problems out on me (the bride). I didn't want her having a mental breakdown in front...

My fiancée and I have been together over 9 years, we’re both divorced and intended on having a very small and intimate wedding at a winery - small venue. I was immediately informed that I had to...

I have just received the final invoice for our sit down reception for 39 people this weekend and included in the bill was a 10% gratuity for the beverage package (mandatory for groups) and an...

Hello, To acknowledge my Filipino heritage during my non-Catholic wedding to a non-Filipino, I am having cord and veil sponsors. My fiance HATES the term "sponsor" and we're trying to figure out...

So my fiancée and I are going to get married in a small outdoor ceremony, but it is not religious. A friend of ours is getting married and I already have a veil, but now all my family is telling me...

So here's the deal ...I never had issues with FH's..in fact they are really the only family I have and im greatful for that. When I first met them at their home as soon as you walked in you see a huge...

I eloped with my husband last September, which was not the original plan. My only surviving grandma was diagnosed with cancer and given prognosis of just weeks left to live. She helped raise me, and I...

Hi everyone! My wedding is next year. We have been together for almost 10 years now. We were thinking about eloping now and still have the ceremony and reception next year. This is because right now...

My mom made a sign to put on the bigger of the 6 stalls in my venues restroom (not the handicap stall) that says "bride only" I get it because no one wants to sit in pee or get pee on their dress and...

Has anyone ever heard of a Display Bridal Shower? Someone told me it's where guests bring gifts either wrapped in cellophane or unwrapped with a bow and are placed on display at the shower so there's...

Hi all, I had a read through some similar posts but really need advice on my specific situation. I once had a best friend, it’s actually our 10 year friendiversary this year. We were in brownies...

Our wedding is September 30, 2023. More than 60% of our guests are from out of state. We did send save the dates at the end of last year because of so many out of town guests. I spent a lot of time...

Hi, need some help. I have a doctorate and my family thinks it should be customary on the invite to have "Dr." in front of my name... to say Dr. Me and (fiance) invites you..... 1. majority of the...

I have been STRUGGLING trying to pick my group of bridesmaids. I’m getting married in April of 2024 and time is moving so fast. Every time I decide on a group I feel good about it for a few days and...

As always listening to my procrastinating FH, I have now missed Vistaprints 50% off sale, and I need to order invitations TODAY... My invitations need to go out the first week in Sept for my November...

I know this is always a hot topic and I am probably not in a unique situation but here for advice regardless. I have 2 good friends that were in relationships when I sent out save the dates a while...

I'm really, really hurt and disappointed by my bridal shower. For context, my husband and I had to emergency elope for insurance purposes last year after we already booked a venue and decided to keep...

Please help! I am fully aware that one must not invite anyone to any showers if these people are not also invited to the wedding. This makes perfect sense to me. My aunt offered to host a couples...