Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

My fiancé and I got engaged back in July 2022 and have our wedding date set for May 2024, due to work commitments it’s been a long engagement. We have a lot of close friends who are couples, so we we...

Happy Sunday Y'all Anyone have issues with George Street? I've seen several people book with them, we have paid for half of our package at this point and it takes DAYS for my planner to get back to...

My fiance and I are considering getting married on the downlow (at the courthouse) in the coming months, but our wedding date isn't for another year and a half. Since we would be legally married and...

Hello, asking for advice from current/past brides to get better insight - Would you still be friends with someone if you are a bridesmaid in their wedding and they did not invite your boyfriend of 2...

My husband and I got married on April 30, 2022. Everything was perfect, all of our vendors were wonderful and delivered what we had paid for. The exception is our videographer. Initially, she sent a...

Long story short, after sending my bridesmaids letters asking them to be BMs and notifying them on details of the wedding (along with who else would be in the wedding party). One of my girlfriends...

I will be getting married in 8 months, and realizes recently you are suppose to tip your vendors. I was wondering if bartending vendors and catering is required to tip them? Anybody else have this...

Hey, everyone! I’m new to this group and I know this was discussed before, but I need some specific advice, please! Scenario: my fiancé’s mom has cancer. Lately, the medications haven’t been tackling...

I’ve been invited to a traditional Roman Catholic wedding, and the couple has asked that women wear “a headcovering such as a scarf, veil, or hat” out of respect. I am perfectly happy to comply but am...

If you know about your bridal shower (not a surprise) are you not supposed to look at the registry and who bought what? Are you supposed to act surprised? Zola keeps notifying me when people buy...

I'm feeling conflicted when it comes to changing my last name after getting married. We're a little under a year out from our wedding and I was looking at 2 initial monograms with my and my fiance's...

My FH is paying for most of our wedding. I will be asking my parents just for a little and I don’t think he is asking his parents. Would you still add both parents to the invite? With the invites I...

For background, we got married in January earlier this year for financial reasons but no one knows. Close family members were talked to about the what if since we lived seperate and lets just say the...

Hey there, I have come across a couple ads where the wedding has been cancelled and they are going to lose there money that they have paid towards the wedding and they are looking to sell it. I want...

I have severe asthma and it can be triggered when people wear heavy perfume or cologne. Would it be rude to request of my guests that if they wear scents that they use them sparingly and don't reapply...

I am getting married next year and decided to have my hair and makeup professionally done. When I asked my mom and sister if they wanted theirs done, they both said just the hair and they would pay...

Weddings are soooo unnecessarily expensive 😭 So with a simple courthouse ‘ceremony’, would it be weird to go all out on just wedding photos? Different locations ect all in wedding attire. It does...

I want to ask my guests in a polite way to ship all gifts directly to address provided in my online registries. The reason being is I live in a small apartment and my parents (who live 2 hours away)...

Hi! I am currently planning on having my sister in-law walk my dogs down the aisle and I just can't think of a name for this. I want to create a gift box to ask her to do this but I want to come up...

Please help! I’m attending the wedding of a coworker coming up and she has only asked for cash for their honeymoon. This is her second marriage, a coworker who hasn’t been the nicest/friendliest to...